Would you settle for a single hotwife/bull/cuckold couple during this pandemic?

[avaadore]

I was in full quarentine up until the end of the summer, I saw nobody and went nowhere. The only time I left the house was to sit on my back deck or walk my dogs late at night when nobody was around. Obviously that wasn't sustainable and once I went back to work, I started seeing my main fwb again.

I have multiple autoimmune disorders and a history of respiratory disease, I'm exactly the type of person who will end up dead or with long-term effects if I catch covid so I have to be extremely careful. But the way I see it, if it's an acceptable risk to go back to work when one of my jobs is public facing, it's an acceptable risk to see him. He's been taking extra precautions since the jump in case I was able to start seeing him again and I trust him to be making good choices.

I was open to the possibility of meeting someone new around late August but our numbers are surging big time now so that won't be happening for a while. Even then, I'm not a casual/ONS type person anyway so covid isn't really cramping my style in that regard. My fwb and I have been doing our thing for years, I haven't seriously looked for new partners in a long time. I miss my nail tech more than I miss cruising for new dick honestly lol

One bonus of the pandemic is that it's made it very easy to rule out potential mates based on their behaviour throughout all this. I've written off 3 people I had previously been considering meeting just watching them post personal ads and pictures of their dates during the lockdown. No thanks.

Going to expand on my own comment here and say even though we've taken all precautions, kept distance from other people, washed our hands, wore our masks, didn't go out for abirtrary reasons, kept our circles very small, etc. my fwb let me know yesterday he tested positive for covid. I'm going for a test today and staying in isolation otherwise until I get the results.

We did everything we were supposed to but if you're going out at all, you're taking on risk. Covid doesn't give a ******* how careful you are. A negative covid swab, just like an STI panel is just a snapshot in time and doesn't mean someone isn't carrying something harmful to you. Just something to keep in mind. Stay safe everyone.

 

[JohnEE]

Mostly hypothetical question, to see how most people feel about this. We've played a bit when the an FWB was trustworthy enough and risks were carefully assessed and mitigated, but stats are definitely going the wrong direction where we live. Wondering how everyone else is doing...

We have put finding a new bull/lover for my wife on hold until this is well and truly in the rear view mirror. If we already had someone before this started and trusted them it would be a different issue .. its all about trust.

 

[blackandkinky]

Going to expand on my own comment here and say even though we've taken all precautions, kept distance from other people, washed our hands, wore our masks, didn't go out for abirtrary reasons, kept our circles very small, etc. my fwb let me know yesterday he tested positive for covid. I'm going for a test today and staying in isolation otherwise until I get the results.

We did everything we were supposed to but if you're going out at all, you're taking on risk. Covid doesn't give a ******* how careful you are. A negative covid swab, just like an STI panel is just a snapshot in time and doesn't mean someone isn't carrying something harmful to you. Just something to keep in mind. Stay safe everyone.

Damn girl I am so sorry to hear that! You hit the nail on the head though, you can do everything right and it still creeps in. My brother had a co-worker test positive recently and my sister was exposed at a funeral service about 6 weeks ago. We were not at all equipped to deal with a pandemic like this so some forgiveness is necessary.

I hope you and hubby come back negative. I'll be sending positive vibes!

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

Going to expand on my own comment here and say even though we've taken all precautions, kept distance from other people, washed our hands, wore our masks, didn't go out for abirtrary reasons, kept our circles very small, etc. my fwb let me know yesterday he tested positive for covid. I'm going for a test today and staying in isolation otherwise until I get the results.

We did everything we were supposed to but if you're going out at all, you're taking on risk. Covid doesn't give a ******* how careful you are. A negative covid swab, just like an STI panel is just a snapshot in time and doesn't mean someone isn't carrying something harmful to you. Just something to keep in mind. Stay safe everyone.

Oh, goodness, so sorry to hear this! Absolutely hoping for the best for you. I hope you are negative. If not, I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. And either way, I wish you as comfortable a quarantine as possible while you take care of yourself and asses this situation. Thank you for sharing your story. People need to realize how real all this is, and really evaluate their choices with care.

 

[avaadore]

Damn girl I am so sorry to hear that! You hit the nail on the head though, you can do everything right and it still creeps in. My brother had a co-worker test positive recently and my sister was exposed at a funeral service about 6 weeks ago. We were not at all equipped to deal with a pandemic like this so some forgiveness is necessary.

I hope you and hubby come back negative. I'll be sending positive vibes!

Oh, goodness, so sorry to hear this! Absolutely hoping for the best for you. I hope you are negative. If not, I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. And either way, I wish you as comfortable a quarantine as possible while you take care of yourself and asses this situation. Thank you for sharing your story. People need to realize how real all this is, and really evaluate their choices with care.

Thanks guys, so far neither hubby or I have any symptoms so fingers crossed everything we're doing is a formality

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

I treat the pandemic like any other disease "come with clean papers and I will make you cum"! Need I say more?

I mean, kinda. What are "clean papers" when it comes to covid? It can take many days after exposure for the virus to show up on a test, so are you requiring people get tested? Are you requiring that they wait a certain number of days before getting tested? Or that they're waiting two weeks in total quarantine with no symptoms before meeting up with you?

In our state, more than 10% of the people currently getting tested are testing positive, and we've recently shot from a about 1 active case in every 220 people to closer to 1 in 100. So if you picked a partner completely at random, that's already a 1% chance you're picking someone with COVID. My wife has a completely asymptomatic coworker who got a test "just to be safe" because of a possible exposure, and she tested positive. She might never experience a symptom, but if she hadn't been tested, she could have passed it on to someone else who might not be so lucky. It's really hard to tell who has this, and really easy for a "clean" status to change. You can be exposed, test negative, and then have it show up two days later.

I'm not judging anyone for looking at that info and deciding something like, "it's only 1% odds, I can live with that," or "I can make those odds even lower by taking precautionary steps, talking to my potential partners to make sure they're taking the same steps I am, etc." We can't ******* others to take on more risk than they're comfortable taking, nor can we expect everyone to avoid a certain level of risk just because we're not ok with that level (though I do think it's fair to expect others to wear a mask if they're going to be sharing space with you, keep as much distance as possible, etc.)

I posted the poll is because I like to hear about how people are evaluating risk. And the reason I'm asking you specifically for more info is that I don't see how someone can have "clean papers" when it comes to covid. If that were a thing, restaurants, schools and offices and event venues could require it too. The people without "clean papers" would have to stay home, and the virus would quit spreading. It continues to spread because people believe they're not carriers and continue to go out. Others trust that they're not carriers and continue to be around them. So, what can someone do to let you know they're unlikely to be contagious with the virus? And what level of unlikeliness do you expect, before you feel comfortable paying with them?

 

[avaadore]

I mean, kinda. What are "clean papers" when it comes to covid? It can take many days after exposure for the virus to show up on a test, so are you requiring people get tested? Are you requiring that they wait a certain number of days before getting tested? Or that they're waiting two weeks in total quarantine with no symptoms before meeting up with you?

In our state, more than 10% of the people currently getting tested are testing positive, and we've recently shot from a about 1 active case in every 220 people to closer to 1 in 100. So if you picked a partner completely at random, that's already a 1% chance you're picking someone with COVID. My wife has a completely asymptomatic coworker who got a test "just to be safe" because of a possible exposure, and she tested positive. She might never experience a symptom, but if she hasn't been tested, she could have passed it on to someone else who might not be so lucky. It's really hard to tell who has this, and really easy for a "clean" status to change. You can be exposed, test negative, and then have it show up two days later.

I'm not judging anyone for looking at that info and deciding something like, "it's only 1% odds, I can live with that," or "I can make those odds even lower by taking precautionary steps, talking to my potential partners to make sure they're taking the same steps I am, etc." We can't ******* others to take on more or risk than they're comfortable taking, nor can we expect everyone to avoid a certain level of risk just because we're not ok with that level (though I do think it's fair to expect others to wear a mask if they're going to be sharing space with you, keep as much distance as possible, etc.)

I posted the poll is because I like to hear about how people are evaluating risk. And the reason I'm asking you specifically for more info is that I don't see how someone can have "clean papers" when it comes to covid. If that were a thing, restaurants, schools and offices and event venues could require it too. The people without "clean papers" would have to stay home, and the virus would quit spreading. It continues to spread because people believe they're not carriers and continue to go out. Others trust that they're not carriers and continue to be around them. So, what can someone do to let you know they're unlikely to be contagious with the virus? And what level of unlikeliness do you expect, before you feel comfortable paying with them?

This. Testing is so necessary but it only provides a simple snapshot in time. It's a great guideline to go by but it shouldn't be the final word in assessing your risk and that goes for covid or STIs.

 

[blackandkinky]

I mean, kinda. What are "clean papers" when it comes to covid? It can take many days after exposure for the virus to show up on a test, so are you requiring people get tested? Are you requiring that they wait a certain number of days before getting tested? Or that they're waiting two weeks in total quarantine with no symptoms before meeting up with you?

In our state, more than 10% of the people currently getting tested are testing positive, and we've recently shot from a about 1 active case in every 220 people to closer to 1 in 100. So if you picked a partner completely at random, that's already a 1% chance you're picking someone with COVID. My wife has a completely asymptomatic coworker who got a test "just to be safe" because of a possible exposure, and she tested positive. She might never experience a symptom, but if she hasn't been tested, she could have passed it on to someone else who might not be so lucky. It's really hard to tell who has this, and really easy for a "clean" status to change. You can be exposed, test negative, and then have it show up two days later.

I'm not judging anyone for looking at that info and deciding something like, "it's only 1% odds, I can live with that," or "I can make those odds even lower by taking precautionary steps, talking to my potential partners to make sure they're taking the same steps I am, etc." We can't ******* others to take on more or risk than they're comfortable taking, nor can we expect everyone to avoid a certain level of risk just because we're not ok with that level (though I do think it's fair to expect others to wear a mask if they're going to be sharing space with you, keep as much distance as possible, etc.)

I posted the poll is because I like to hear about how people are evaluating risk. And the reason I'm asking you specifically for more info is that I don't see how someone can have "clean papers" when it comes to covid. If that were a thing, restaurants, schools and offices and event venues could require it too. The people without "clean papers" would have to stay home, and the virus would quit spreading. It continues to spread because people believe they're not carriers and continue to go out. Others trust that they're not carriers and continue to be around them. So, what can someone do to let you know they're unlikely to be contagious with the virus? And what level of unlikeliness do you expect, before you feel comfortable paying with them?

Yes, that's the flaw with the current testing. Some results take so long that it renders the test moot because there could have been a transmission in between. I know my brother's drive-thru test took at least 5 days to come back, a few people I know have taken up to a week to hear something.

I thought at some point this Summer maybe a small get together with tested people might work but the turnaround time just doesn't permit it. It's understandable that people have lives to live and can't sit around for a week or two waiting for results JUST to go out to an event. On a side note this is why I call BS on all these celebrity parties.

I heard talk a couple of weeks ago about a possible OTC rapid test kit coming to ******* stores soon. I haven't seen any official news about it but it's some hope at least.

 

[cuckQuixote]

We moved just before the pandemic and so far i've been unwilling to meet anyone so i'm just hoping for the vaccine to be sfe nd reliable