As some of you know my wife gave birth several months ago. At the time I was concerned about the baby being mine and the possibility it would be a mixed race baby. To our great relief it turned out that I didn't need to worry and the boy is certainly mine. Since then Amie and I have enjoyed being parents but in the back of my mind I kept wondering when and if she would want to have sex with another black man.
I have to admit I have mixed feelings about the idea of her screwing another black man but I am still turned on by the idea. The thing is considering how much Amie loved having sex with her black lovers I assumed she would have brought up the subject but she has not. Recently I asked her about it and she told me that since childbirth she just is not into it. I don't know if it was the scare we had or something else, she won't talk about it much, just says she has no strong desire to do it now. In some respects I am relieved because of the complicating factors involved with sharing her.
The question I have is has any other woman experienced this happening where a strong desire and attraction for black (or any race for that matter) lovers outside the marriage has gone away after childbirth? I have to admit I am surprised at how my wife feels now considering her strong desire for black men before.
I have to admit I have mixed feelings about the idea of her screwing another black man but I am still turned on by the idea. The thing is considering how much Amie loved having sex with her black lovers I assumed she would have brought up the subject but she has not. Recently I asked her about it and she told me that since childbirth she just is not into it. I don't know if it was the scare we had or something else, she won't talk about it much, just says she has no strong desire to do it now. In some respects I am relieved because of the complicating factors involved with sharing her.
The question I have is has any other woman experienced this happening where a strong desire and attraction for black (or any race for that matter) lovers outside the marriage has gone away after childbirth? I have to admit I am surprised at how my wife feels now considering her strong desire for black men before.