I've been with married women for over 20 years now so, for me, I'm not into the dom alpha male stuff but I love the married ladies because its the mental excitement of having another mans wife with his approval. I am not into cheating wives either. I am much more turned on knowing I have husband's complete blessing to have his wife. This gets rid of any guilty or jealous feelings from the get-go. I learned to enjoy husband being there for sex with the wife as that's even more mental stimulation. I used to be nervous about that when I had my first wife. Being someone not into sleeping around, I would welcome a married woman that wants a relationship, if we are attracted to each other of course. But that's a lot more difficult to find. Women can have physical sex anytime and there's nothing special about that, but a married white woman with a black male is something special and particular, in my opinion, and it makes it much more mentally exciting for me! That's why I like it so much! Oh, and there's one more thing I like: Doing this within a couples marriage, I think there's more trust. For example, I'd rather be with a married woman who I already know is committed to 1 man, than a single gal who is lying to me about the 5 guys she's really dating and/or fucking. Every time I try to deal with a single gal, they always remind me of why I want to go back to a married woman instead!