DO NOT take this wrong!! The best dog I ever owned was a Lab named Kyra. She was one of a kind.
White Couples, Has your marriage become stronger by fucking BBC?
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DO NOT take this wrong!! The best dog I ever owned was a Lab named Kyra. She was one of a kind.
I talked about my situation already but what the hell, a few more sentences will not hurt.
My wife and I are closer in ways too, and it is not just me saying that. My wife says things about how all this talk about her being with a black man has affected our relationship. She says she thinks about this at work and what is next for us and it gets her excited for the future.
MarriedWhite
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You are 1,000% correct! If a husband is unable to convince his wife that other men getting her pussy is a turn on for him, nothing like that is going to happen. At least not in an organized way. She might sneak-fuck a guy, but sneaking is not what this is all about. She HAS to be sure that you want this, because if she does it and THEN finds out that you were just talking a fantasy, she is out on a limb. Remember, she can't get UN-FUCKED, so she has to know your true feelings ahead of time. Just say'n.
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It's early to tell. I've been with only 2 black guys and a couple of meets. But I think we're doing fine. We have made some adjustments as to our routine and sexual life, but husband is 100% behind me.
True words. After a lot of talk my wife emphasized this point. She told me that I could not get jealous of him, or her, and that I needed to be sure I could handle watching her with a black man. I said I could, and I meant it, but she basically got on to me a little because she felt I was being a little cavalier about how serious she was about this and that she would not put up with me being mad at her afterwards because she enjoyed having a black man fuck her.
It was surreal in the fact that my wife was laying down the law with me because I initiated this and now that she wanted to be with a black man I better be ready for it. My wife is awesome.
MarriedWhite
Couple
That's too bad. In my opinion, one laying down the law to the other is NOT an agreement; it's dictatorial. BUT, having said that, if you and your wife are happy and content with that, I'm not about to try to change your minds. As long as it works for you, I'm cheering you on.
FEROSFERIO
Couple
Our marriage is rock solid. Our enjoyment of the hotwife-IR lifestyle has not hurt us at all and is something we share and find very hot.
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FEROSFERIO
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I see somebody approves lol
That's too bad. In my opinion, one laying down the law to the other is NOT an agreement; it's dictatorial. BUT, having said that, if you and your wife are happy and content with that, I'm not about to try to change your minds. As long as it works for you, I'm cheering you on.
She only laid down the law in the fact that now that she has agreed to sleep with a black man I cannot hold it against her if I get jealous afterwards. That seems reasonable to me. The demand is that I have to be able to deal with the emotions of seeing her make love to a black man.
She started off the conversation as a concern of hers because initially I asked her to sleep with a black man but now that she has found her own interest in black men matching mine and knows a guy she is interested in she has this fear I might regret it afterwards and hold some kind of animosity against her after it happens. Her words, verbatim, were "are you really going to able to handle watching with me with a black man?" Then something along the lines of you can't hold it against me afterwards.
I actually get her concerns because I've seen how she responds to us just talking about her being with a black man so I gather she knows what I am going to have to watch is going to be more than I bargained for in some ways. She has mentioned that I might not be ready for how she might act in bed with a black man so now I have reexamined my mindset to mitigate those things that might arise within me.
I think she is being rather pragmatic if you ask me. She anticipates some angst on my part regardless of all the things I say. I do not think I can fully prepare myself for this but I go in knowing my wife is not playing a game here
EDIT: This not some extreme fear we are talking about here or jealousy on my part. We both know we are interested in this but she is talking about the silent treatment or pouting because I saw her respond to him in ways that she never responded to me. I am sure a black man is going to have an affect on my wife that will be profound. Metaphysically speaking they will share a bond that I might not even be able to comprehend in ways due to the unique ways she sees herself in the arms of a virile black man. Things I think about huh!!!
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I like that explanation. Very logical.
Its different for sure
That is my planI'll assume you aren't marrying your fiance for sex? So you love him for many different reasons. In that case, find you a steady black Bull and stay with future hubby
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Thanks, Chris! If you would like to comment on some of the posts, Christina and I would appreciate it.
