I felt I needed to reply here. I believe cuckoldry, and most of BDSM is mental and not physical.
I am not gay at all, consider myself pretty alpha day to day and over 300lbs. But, even though I have e never been attracted to a man, black or white, I find myself mentally craving the humiliation that while I can't use my own cock if it is in chastity that I am being used for my wife and her Bulls pleasure. I will HATE the physical while it is happening. I won't enjoy a cock in my mouth or in my ass, but having to endure it will mentally ******* me and that is what I crave. Can't explain.
When I see men kissing, or holding hands it disgusts me, but because I have a small cock and my wife doesn't want it pleasured or to cum or to be used on her, my punishment is to be made to recognise she gets hers elsewhere and I love that!