I agree Red Pharaoh...If a white boi is or choses to be, effeminate then she should do everything she can to be as feminine as possible at all times. As the times are changing it is becoming more common to see effeminate men openly displaying their femininity.
For some there may be restraints on how feminine they are able to be in their day-to-day lives but that shouldn't stop them from the little things, like regular pedicures with painted toes, toe rings, anklets, smooth all over, a neat landing strip, subtle plucking of the eyebrows, etc. The Black Man desiring one of us would be able to discern who we are and that we may be open to playing.