I would say an equal balance of 1 and 2. I was made a cuck early on, and didn't enjoy/ understand it/ accept it... but as time wore on... I not only understood it better, I decided to embrace it rather than fight it. (i had little hope of finding another partner, so just decided to live with it, I never had the guts to leave her) but once I did accept it, I also realised it fitted my personality, my physical attributes etc. and then realised I was born to play that role. In 35 years, I have never EVER questioned it. Not a day goes by where I don't feel comfortable as a cuck, and believe I was born to be one... which makes it much easier to live with, feeling this is the real you.well said - down the rabbit hole, right
I don’t want to pigeon hole cucks but I always thought there were like 3 types of cucks:
1. Born “Cucks” - Naturally submissive men (men who are born submissive). They don’t mind being humiliated.
2. Made “Cucks” - Those that when they’re exposed to IR sex are just turned on because
A. their feelings of inadequacy and shame drive their desire to see their wife fucked by a BBC (this is why they don’t mind being humiliated - because it drives their desire)
B. There are voyeuristic - feel like this kind of sex just provides the most amount of desire (these men where going to end up in the lifestyle that provides the best thrill). Don’t care for the humiliation aspect
3. “Added Dimension” Cucks- these gentlemen add this lifestyle into their relationships as an added excitement piece to increase the desire dimension in their relationship. As desire wanes in a relationship, they add this aspect of the relationship to spice things up. (They try to work in partnership with their wife in this).
And you have those men who become cucks because they have lost their ability to have sex and use this lifestyle as their sex.
Which category do you belong????
Well, it gives you a place to be. Plus you find out there are tens of thousands of other cucks just like me, so it also gives you a tribe to belong to.Wow, Slink - you always do a good job of describing the mind of the Cuck. Damn....I would hate to feel that way about myself. I guess that’s why this lifestyle exists.....
I knew her- Magella! In London...
This would make an awesome wallpaper. Would be better if the caption was on a high res blacked.com pic.
I actually been liking it and interested as maybe as role play . I'm very new to most of this fetish world lolNo we don't like it We LOVE it BBC in white women nothing hotter
I can relate to much of this, very well written. I'd say my wife and I mostly came into it pretty naturally as well, though I can give her satisfying sex sometimes. Usually it's oral and I stay locked, but sometimes she'll unlock me enough to work on my stamina with some prolonged edging, or sometimes she'll have me use a pump, or sometimes she'll just have me take Viagra. As long as we pause to ward off the first orgasm or two, I can frequently last long enough to make her cum. Whether she lets me cum afterward or not depends on her mood. But, there are also plenty of times when she knows I've been locked up and pent up for too long and won't be able to last, and that's when she incorporates some humiliation into our play. I'm endlessly turned on with her in charge, so regardless of what she decides, I feel happy, spoiled, and eager to please her.I would say an equal balance of 1 and 2. I was made a cuck early on, and didn't enjoy/ understand it/ accept it... but as time wore on... I not only understood it better, I decided to embrace it rather than fight it. (i had little hope of finding another partner, so just decided to live with it, I never had the guts to leave her) but once I did accept it, I also realised it fitted my personality, my physical attributes etc. and then realised I was born to play that role. In 35 years, I have never EVER questioned it. Not a day goes by where I don't feel comfortable as a cuck, and believe I was born to be one... which makes it much easier to live with, feeling this is the real you.
And on the last point, I haven't physically lost the ability to have sex, I can still get healthy erections, but I think to some level I have mentally lost the ability, mainly through lifelong PE issues, excessive masturbation over many years, and that I just don't have that level of sexual confidence to enter a woman or my wife with any belief this will leave her satisfied and or that she'll have any sexual desire for me.
So, to be honest, if I was dating again for whatever reason, I would dread the thought of having sex with a woman. You never forget that feeling/ look of disinterest while you are selfishly trying to cum before she wants you to get off her. Its like being at a party, chatting to a woman and you know she's not listening and would rather be anywhere else, and pretends she needs to grab another *******.
Image that, both naked, you're trying to at least make her feel good, while really your just trying to focus on not cumming yourself, and then you do anyway... and your left there embarrased/ humiliated etc. Its when experience these feelings, its why you feel you are or need to be a cuck.