The reality as a bull

[Kull711]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

I respect your perspective about this lifestyle ??

 

[firedogg81]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

very well said

 

[Kull711]

Doesn't age change your outlook on life? This lifestyle (when we get the time) gets better for us every year as we get older. We look at young bulls, young cucks and young wives entering this lifestyle and a lot of time get spat out at the other end. We always think, whats your hurry? Young cucks, enjoy your wifes younger years and pussy, the young hung boys.. go out and get lots of single pussy before getting tangled in 3 ways etc. and the young women, chase all the cock you want before settling down... settle into life, *******, mortgages etc. and build a strong relationship/ marriage... then once you've ticked a few boxes in life, then explore this lifestyle more. With a strong foundation under you, its a cherry on top when you find the right people to play with.

I really like your perspective about this lifestyle and you seem like a fun couple to be around with



For me all I can say is that everyone is different when it comes to living a lifestyle that’s abundant and hedonistic. When I was younger I was always curious about open relationships and tried my best to connect with women who felt the same as I did. As I got older in my early 30s life has made me more mature & knowledgeably about people including myself and I’ll never stop learning & growing as a man.

 

[BaltMDcple]

Can't beat a mature man.

 

[Kakarot03]

Well said

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

I condone this message.

 

[Businessbbc]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

Truth

 

[James J]

I want to thank everyone for taking the time to read and respond to my post.
It's good to see that I have a lot of positive feedback and some good side discussions.

Peace.

J

 

[James J]

I was getting into your post because I think it’s an excellent and unique topic but I want you to elaborate more on the specifics of what experiences brought you to this epiphany please. I think young bulls need to hear these things.

Well I think a lot of my earlier experiences were more about 'getting' and 'owning' that pussy. There was really nothing other than I was getting laid and it was like a favorite toy that was mine and I could use any time. There was no 'Connection' with the people. Physical yes, but mentally no. Yeah you go home after a night of fucking with a smile on your face and maybe you tell your friends about that 'piece of ass', but that's about it. They weren't relationships, it was just playthings.

I have connections now with my couples that go beyond the sex. I've spent days with husbands, golfing and fishing and camping. I am a trusted friend. I have a key to their homes. I have some of my stuff at their homes 'just in case'. I don't need to sneak around. I enjoy my time without a time limit. I'm not just some black dick with a heartbeat.

I also do not risk my professional life with these connections whereas I could have when I was younger. I have a career and a home that I do not want to risk. So do my couples. It's mutual.

Not sure if that answers your question or not, but there it is.

J

 

[James J]

Can't beat a mature man.

Mature? mostly I still have a perv streak as well. thank you

 

[James J]

I also want to point out that I had made a comment about fake breasts. I did not mean to say that this made ladies themselves fake.
Some ladies self esteem is majorly improved by augmentation. I get this and respect this. My point was more about the impossible standards that are set for the ladies who just want to be desired. Nothing is more beautiful then a woman who opens herself up to her inner self. To let you in to her most intimate areas. To leave something to the imagination. That is sexy and beautiful. It doesn't require you to make yourself something you are not or to live up to some unreachable standard. Hope that explanation makes sense.

J

 

[slinky1]

My wife once said, this lifestyle to her was like being a mature aged student and going back to uni to get that degree you always wanted but never had or had the time to get. I think it was a good analogy, to have had relationships, sex, one night stands, gang bangs etc. then take time out, discover the true you, appreciate other people, their lives, experiences etc. and them with all that knowledge go on a new journey with confidence.
I think in the younger demographic of this lifestyle and the stereotype that the bull is young, dumb and full of cum, the cuck is a spineless wimp and a loser and the hotwife is a piece of easy meat who needs cock from anywhere she can get it, all give this lifestyle the wrong image. If done right and with respect, it can be an amazing road to travel.

 

[James J]

My wife once said, this lifestyle to her was like being a mature aged student and going back to uni to get that degree you always wanted but never had or had the time to get. I think it was a good analogy, to have had relationships, sex, one night stands, gang bangs etc. then take time out, discover the true you, appreciate other people, their lives, experiences etc. and them with all that knowledge go on a new journey with confidence.
I think in the younger demographic of this lifestyle and the stereotype that the bull is young, dumb and full of cum, the cuck is a spineless wimp and a loser and the hotwife is a piece of easy meat who needs cock from anywhere she can get it, all give this lifestyle the wrong image. If done right and with respect, it can be an amazing road to travel.

True. It takes a hell of a guy to understand that he wants his wife to reach her peak and not be threatened by that. That doesn't make him a 'cuck' or a pussy. It takes alot of trust and love to pull that off.

 

[James J]

I want to thank everyone for the very pleasant responses to my post (both male and female)
It has spawned some very good side conversations.

Peace.

J

 

[darkturn]

Experience is a humbling thing.

couldn’t agree more James...!

 

[Hansjensen]

Well I think a lot of my earlier experiences were more about 'getting' and 'owning' that pussy. There was really nothing other than I was getting laid and it was like a favorite toy that was mine and I could use any time. There was no 'Connection' with the people. Physical yes, but mentally no. Yeah you go home after a night of fucking with a smile on your face and maybe you tell your friends about that 'piece of ass', but that's about it. They weren't relationships, it was just playthings.

I have connections now with my couples that go beyond the sex. I've spent days with husbands, golfing and fishing and camping. I am a trusted friend. I have a key to their homes. I have some of my stuff at their homes 'just in case'. I don't need to sneak around. I enjoy my time without a time limit. I'm not just some black dick with a heartbeat.

I also do not risk my professional life with these connections whereas I could have when I was younger. I have a career and a home that I do not want to risk. So do my couples. It's mutual.

Not sure if that answers your question or not, but there it is.

J

Excellent post, James!

 

[Hansjensen]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

It's very interesting to read about your development, James. Thanks for sharing.

 

[James J]

Excellent post, James!

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Thank you

 

[CuckQueen77]

I am an older man. I've had a history of experiences that I am both proud and disgusted by.
As I've aged, I've come to see the reality of my situation.

I watch some of the people on this site and see how the women are perfect with their make up just so, the high heels, and the fake breasts.
Sorry, this is not reality.

Also I see some of the younger wanna be bulls, talking their ******* about breeding and how their cocks are going to make the ladies go crazy.
Also, a myth in most cases.

Here it is a friday evening and I'm not out balling a bunch of ladies. I have a life, a career and responsibilities. The reality is that this lifestyle,
if not ****** can be very pleasurable an rewarding if you are willing to take a moment and look at the big picture.

I've been the young buck. I'm ashamed of some of the ******* I've done. While some of it makes great memories, the truth is I was a dumb kid.
I'm good where I am. I enjoy the people I am around. I take it as it comes and I'm cool with that.

Couples, take that into consideration when you are looking for a bull that fits into your life.
Young bulls? You ain't gonna be young forever. At some point, you gotta look at the big picture.

Just sayin.

J

Well said Sir ??