I've been staying out of this, because I thought at first it was intended to be just a discussion among the Bulls...and maybe other guys...and maybe it was, but I see that participation has opened up a bit, so I hope that this is welcome....
First, I truly appreciate that various members - male and female - have shared some of their real, personal experiences and perspectives. It adds a lot - and if you start to look at it, the real-world feedback does push back at some of the stereotypes and myths, or at least some of the extremes....
Second, I really appreciate the info like this, that references good, hard (!) facts and real research - and especially that myth busting about the original Mandingo! If you will notice on that chart,
the difference in size peaks between white and black men, is less than half an inch! Though there is
also a bit more distribution in those slightly higher sizes among black men, than among whites....
It looks to me like, as I've long suspected, is that the bottom line is that porn, and venues like this - including real-life ones, like swingers' scenes - tend to select for black guys who are big in size even among the black population, and not entirely typical. The one black lover I had when I was just generally dating years ago, was in that slightly larger black male range - just under 7 inches. The Bulls we have hooked up with through a connection I happened to have to the local swinger scene, are over 7 inches and thick, and around 8 inches (real measurements, though I think that up to two inches would get added to that in claims around here) and plenty big, in real life! (and by the survey, about the "average", around here) I know that's not quite typical, but it's the fantasy that I...we...and others are looking for, especially around here!
Lanie