The Great Cuckold Project

Im really glad to hear that.

Ive been in the LS for over 15 years and every couple that Ive worked with has stayed together.
And the Goddess that I know, I have told her that "relationship security" is the #1 priority.
We been in LS
Over 6yrs
Still difficult
For me
Got her therapist
But
Dont seem
To help
 
Glad you liked it. I'm sure you can take care of more than one wife with your stamina. But allot of the white wives and girlfriends involved in this lifestyle do not want to be the other women. I was really surprised about that. I know my girlfriend sure enjoys having a steady lover that can be reliable and loyal. She gives him her all and the few Black Men that have been with her since we started this lifestyle have been overwhelmingly and exceptionally pleased by her efforts and sincere enthusiasm to please her BLACK Man. When I explained the cuckold lifestyle to her back in 2014 before we actually met face to face, she was very skeptical of the cuckold lifestyle.
She had always been a ONE MAN WOMAN and was proud of that. She was fortunate to have had great lovers who were well endowed and could keep up with her insatiable abilities. Married twice in 37 years. First husband and only man she had sex with before marriage was well endowed and was able to meet all her insatiable needs. Unfortunately he died from a brain aneurysm after only ten years into the marriage.
Her second marriage three years later was the second man she ever had sex with.
He was also endowed with close to eight inches and thick with a big mushroom head. She told me she hardly ever went without sexual activity for more than a day.
She was sure to give his BIG COCK attention every morning before they both went to work. She would go down on him and bring him to completion just about every day without fail. She told me that was the safest way to go because whenever they got into being intimate with each other to involve foreplay and penetration it would always last at least one hour or more and make them both late for work. They were married for 27 years but unfortunately it ended in Divorce because he went out on her. She had no tolerance for any two timing and refused to stay with him after that. Her third guy was someone she met online at a dating website. They hit it off right away sexually, he was the most well endowed of the three men with 9 plus inches and as thick as a water bottle with a large mushroom head. She absolutely enjoyed the feeling of such a big thick cock inside her. She told me that once he came down her throat she was hooked, she never experienced so much semen each time he ejaculated. It was her first experience with receiving facials, actually it was more like painting her face, neck and breast with his cum.
When they did have intercourse she would usually start climaxing within the first 30 seconds he was inside her. The sex was great but he was always unsure of himself, and couldn't accept her friendship with two long time male friends that was strictly platonic. Because of his jealousy and insecurities they only lasted a few months.
After we met online we talked every day. I told her how my wife became instantly addicted to Big Black Cock. She was most skeptical as to how you could keep your relationship intact while you have another man as your lover. I told her you have to have the right kind of boyfriend who understands your desire and sexual needs.
I told her it takes a very special man who knows and accepts the reality of his inadequacy as a lover. We continued talking every day. I was working in Arizona and New Mexico and she was living in a small town in Pennsylvania about 2200 miles away.
We continued talking for about two months before we finally met face to face in april 2014.
2024 was our 10th year together and it's been 9 years that she has been exclusively for BLACK only. I knew from the very start that she would make a tremendously exciting Cuckoldress for a little guy like me. Please take a look at my other postings so you can understand our commitment to this lifestyle and to each other.
Wonderful relationship!
 
I’m very interested also, she knows I want to be cucked and she teases me a lot and we roleplay about it but she hasnt taken the final step yet other than having an affair early in our marriage.
Ty for sharing

this is why the cuckold project is so important and why im trying to help Goddess with it

I am getting a lot of FAQs
1. Where can people find the project? The answer to that question is on another site (kink related)
2. Who is running the project? I am not running the project, I am just helping out my friend Goddess Rain (that's not her profile name)
3. Why is she doing the project? Her goal is to help beta/cuckold men become better versions of themselves and also to learn how to deal with the issues that come up with cuckolding
4. How can ppl get involved?

This is a more involved answer, so let me say this.
If you join the project there are two things you will learn
1. If you want to be a long term beta/cuckold, then you need to develop a real friendship with a bull. that means stop trying to convert vanilla guys into the "3rd" for your porn fantasy of cuckolding. If you truly want to experience the heights of cuckolding, you need to develop a true friendship with a bull and then the transition to cuckold will be much, much easier

2. If you want to be a long term beta/cuckold, its important to understand the mindset of a beta. There are two types of men, betas and alphas. If you want to be a better beta - then you need to put your wife's needs and desires above your own. Which means, if she says, "I dont want to have sex." You need to respect that and back off. I talk to Goddess about this all the time, I see a lot of men on this site and other places that want to put their fantasies of cuckolding above their wife's needs and desires. If you do that, you need to stop.

Just my own 2 cents.

whenever a cuckold has reached out to me in a friendly and polite manner and has tried to develop a real friendship with me, things have gone very smoothly. When I meet your wife, I'm not really a stranger that she is meeting. She is meeting me as your friend. Yes, she knows that Ive been talking to you, that Ive been talking to you about cuckolding and also that I have a big dick.

Your wife knows all of that because you aren't hiding anything from her.

But im not a stranger at that point, im an actual friend of yours.

And most women are much more open and likely to have sex with a guy you know and respect - than they are to fuck a complete and random stranger.

I hope that makes sense.
 
My opinion. It already doesn’t matter that hotwife and I, to use a very real and flesh ******* honest example, have already tried hard,and repeatedly, to help newbies or those that are curious or those that say they are ready for an experience, 9 times out of 10, we never hear from them again. Our sdc group, cuckolding with a smile, started out with intention of meeting some hot new young couples to invite to our parties or at least to provide honest info to….and now I’ve gutted all,that, those were all,masturbating ******* or submissive men that are afraid their wife would be mad. Oh boy. There are people to help you but you gotta follow thru.
This is a great piece of advice and I agree with you.

"There are people to help, but you gotta follow thru"

This is not only true of cuckolding, but in life in general. I want to thank you for your comment, it was super helpful :)
 
Hello Cuckold Guys

I have been in the lifestyle for a long time and I have met a lot of people, including some really amazing friendships.

One of the people I met is a woman named Goddess Rain - and she is training cuckolds right now on another site. We have known each other for a very long time and when she asked me how I train cuckolds - I gave her a lot of advice.

She has taken that advice and started a Cuckold Project.

the goal of the project is to help cuckold men practice how to be a real cuckold in real life.
That means, no more late night fantasies by yourself watching porn.

This is the real deal - and all the cuckolds are learning
- how to talk to women the right way
- how to date as a cuckold
- how to start the cuckold conversation
- and how to introduce the woman to the bull

I think this is an awesome project and thought that Id share it with this community as well :)

Anyone that is involved in the cuckold life - or anyone that is interested in it - please leave a comment and also share your location.

thanks and have a great day :)
Yes we are interested. I would love to start a private conversation tell me more.
 
Second this, especially for women. If more women knew about how to cuckold their men, how to use chastity to control their men, and the incredible sexual enjoyment they'd get from going black only, there'd be a WHOLE lot more cuckoldresses out there, IMO.
the problem isnt women.

The problem is always MEN.

Cuckold/Beta men need to know how to communicate better with women and also how to listen better.
Ive been working with cuckold men for the last 15 years - and in my experience, women are much more open to cuckolding - the problem is that BETA men tend to over-assume how much they can handle.
 
the problem isnt women.

The problem is always MEN.

Cuckold/Beta men need to know how to communicate better with women and also how to listen better.
Ive been working with cuckold men for the last 15 years - and in my experience, women are much more open to cuckolding - the problem is that BETA men tend to over-assume how much they can handle.
Could not agree more!
 
the problem isnt women.

The problem is always MEN.

Cuckold/Beta men need to know how to communicate better with women and also how to listen better.
Ive been working with cuckold men for the last 15 years - and in my experience, women are much more open to cuckolding - the problem is that BETA men tend to over-assume how much they can handle.
Right, but the overwhelming majority of women have no idea that cuckolding exists. My comment was directed at educating them about the fact that it (and chastity) exists.
 
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