I would love to learn how to be a better beta!
The Great Cuckold Project
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uh-huh.
Here's my advice, so see if this works for you.
If all the Beta/Cuckolds out there were to stop being "know it alls" and just humble themselves before us Alpha Hung studs and started to treat us like how we deserve to be treated. Then we would teach your wives and gfs all about big cock and chastity.
The problem I run into is that too many bfs/and husbands try and treat me and guys like me - like we are second class citizens and that you can treat us like a piece of meat.
The best cuckold experiences for the cuckold with me - were when they accepted that he needed me MORE than I needed him. I can meet women on my own - I dont need to fuck your gf/wife. When cuckolds remember that - then the dynamic will work better.
All the cuckold needs to do is serve his wife/gf and also serve the hung stud. You have no other obligations.
I wish cuckolds would stop making this overly complicated.
LOL great comment
Im imagining an old guy, who is typing with his two index fingers on his phone because he's so old that he doesnt know how to text. And because it takes him forever to type out two words - he just uses single words to express his thoughts. Its almost painful to read at this point. I kind of wish he had a younger friend, who knew how to text for him.
Im glad you agree
Ive tried to help cuckolds on this site in the past - some men on here want to learn (I would call them coachable) and then the rest are just too stubborn and too arrogant to care about other people.
A shame - because all beta men could live out their cuckold fantasies, if they just gave up fighting everyone.
Gwen4bbc
Couple
That was her
Hopefully I am one of the coachable wannabes and I look forward to learning more about this fantasy.
That's an awesome concept, I hope this project takes off, cuz I need a cuck 2 let me do his wifeHello Cuckold Guys
I have been in the lifestyle for a long time and I have met a lot of people, including some really amazing friendships.
One of the people I met is a woman named Goddess Rain - and she is training cuckolds right now on another site. We have known each other for a very long time and when she asked me how I train cuckolds - I gave her a lot of advice.
She has taken that advice and started a Cuckold Project.
the goal of the project is to help cuckold men practice how to be a real cuckold in real life.
That means, no more late night fantasies by yourself watching porn.
This is the real deal - and all the cuckolds are learning
- how to talk to women the right way
- how to date as a cuckold
- how to start the cuckold conversation
- and how to introduce the woman to the bull
I think this is an awesome project and thought that Id share it with this community as well
Anyone that is involved in the cuckold life - or anyone that is interested in it - please leave a comment and also share your location.
thanks and have a great day
party4candi
Couple
Cool input and thatperspectives. May I chime in? well, here goes anyway: lots of thoughts/questions/instructions on what does and doesn't work, so thought I'd share a real life experience that DID and DOES work for me and party4candi. We're pretty good at having fun with innuendo such that
I know when she's got BBC on her mind and I'll play along with some double entendre's etc, and when she plays along back to me....that has become sort of her "good girl" way of asking me to surprise her. She's fine doing her own thing as my previous posts document, but lately this new twist has evolved...and it's fucking great....because now I'm able to participate again in her date nights and in looking for new lovers for her, etc. ANYWAY, in this role, I'm the ALPHA such that I'm taking charge, am going to vet her next boyfriend, let him know the rules, make sure he's a good fit, make sure he meets all her check-box stuff, and make sure she's assured that she can just relax, let hair down, have fun.
How recent did this happen? last night. I'm going to be late to work today because we were up till 3am. Yesterday afternoon, she went to PINK and bought 10 pairs of new panties, she cane home and said "I'd love to show them off, know anyone might be able to call so I can give fashion show?" She then showed me txt she sent to HER MOM that said "am at mall, getting new panties, need anything?" Mom asked, "where are you, want panties are you getting:" and she replied, "gettiing the black ones, black is always bettter.'
Her mom has no clue, but it was a cute way for party4candi to show subtle respect for BBC. ANyway, I see that and I told her there might be a friend of mine in town that loves fashion, and she said let me know, I'll be home by 7pm.
I have a list of about 6 guys on SDC that are "next in line", been waiting for a chance to meet/fuck her, so I went to sdc, emailed two guys on last minute notice and one got back to me immediately. Game on. I told him "dude, you know I run a tight ship and you know this is MY scene, .but when you get to our place, YOU own her pussy she WILL show respect, i will NOT get in the way and I will NOT participate, so our condo is YOUR condo, our couch is for YOU to chill and relaxx, our spare bedroom/bath is for you to shower/shave if you have to, and there is NO time clock, just flirt with her a little bit while I put blackedraw on, and I'll kinda disappear into spare bedroom and when I give you the wave, turn it ON with her, OWN her pussy, SLAP her face with your black cock, let me hear her begging for your black cum thru the bedroom walls, and either fill her mouth or cum all over her pussy lips, ask her what she wants."
YES SIR, YES SIR, YES SIR. So, bottom line, cucks/alphas, know when to hold 'em know when to fold 'e,m work together to shift the power when time is right, but donm't get caught up in ego. PIC FROM LATER: LOOK AT HER SWOLLEN and STRECHED OUT PUSSY LIPS, looks like a mule fucked her....and notice the "black owned" tattoo.... that was my idea so that he know what he was fucking.
I'm away next weekend so am trying to find her another new guy maybe but she' have to meet him in public first since I'm not there.
I know when she's got BBC on her mind and I'll play along with some double entendre's etc, and when she plays along back to me....that has become sort of her "good girl" way of asking me to surprise her. She's fine doing her own thing as my previous posts document, but lately this new twist has evolved...and it's fucking great....because now I'm able to participate again in her date nights and in looking for new lovers for her, etc. ANYWAY, in this role, I'm the ALPHA such that I'm taking charge, am going to vet her next boyfriend, let him know the rules, make sure he's a good fit, make sure he meets all her check-box stuff, and make sure she's assured that she can just relax, let hair down, have fun.
How recent did this happen? last night. I'm going to be late to work today because we were up till 3am. Yesterday afternoon, she went to PINK and bought 10 pairs of new panties, she cane home and said "I'd love to show them off, know anyone might be able to call so I can give fashion show?" She then showed me txt she sent to HER MOM that said "am at mall, getting new panties, need anything?" Mom asked, "where are you, want panties are you getting:" and she replied, "gettiing the black ones, black is always bettter.'
Her mom has no clue, but it was a cute way for party4candi to show subtle respect for BBC. ANyway, I see that and I told her there might be a friend of mine in town that loves fashion, and she said let me know, I'll be home by 7pm.
I have a list of about 6 guys on SDC that are "next in line", been waiting for a chance to meet/fuck her, so I went to sdc, emailed two guys on last minute notice and one got back to me immediately. Game on. I told him "dude, you know I run a tight ship and you know this is MY scene, .but when you get to our place, YOU own her pussy she WILL show respect, i will NOT get in the way and I will NOT participate, so our condo is YOUR condo, our couch is for YOU to chill and relaxx, our spare bedroom/bath is for you to shower/shave if you have to, and there is NO time clock, just flirt with her a little bit while I put blackedraw on, and I'll kinda disappear into spare bedroom and when I give you the wave, turn it ON with her, OWN her pussy, SLAP her face with your black cock, let me hear her begging for your black cum thru the bedroom walls, and either fill her mouth or cum all over her pussy lips, ask her what she wants."
YES SIR, YES SIR, YES SIR. So, bottom line, cucks/alphas, know when to hold 'em know when to fold 'e,m work together to shift the power when time is right, but donm't get caught up in ego. PIC FROM LATER: LOOK AT HER SWOLLEN and STRECHED OUT PUSSY LIPS, looks like a mule fucked her....and notice the "black owned" tattoo.... that was my idea so that he know what he was fucking.
I'm away next weekend so am trying to find her another new guy maybe but she' have to meet him in public first since I'm not there.
Sound Uber hot!Hello Cuckold Guys
I have been in the lifestyle for a long time and I have met a lot of people, including some really amazing friendships.
One of the people I met is a woman named Goddess Rain - and she is training cuckolds right now on another site. We have known each other for a very long time and when she asked me how I train cuckolds - I gave her a lot of advice.
She has taken that advice and started a Cuckold Project.
the goal of the project is to help cuckold men practice how to be a real cuckold in real life.
That means, no more late night fantasies by yourself watching porn.
This is the real deal - and all the cuckolds are learning
- how to talk to women the right way
- how to date as a cuckold
- how to start the cuckold conversation
- and how to introduce the woman to the bull
I think this is an awesome project and thought that Id share it with this community as well
Anyone that is involved in the cuckold life - or anyone that is interested in it - please leave a comment and also share your location.
thanks and have a great day
party4candi
Couple
Wow, love it. Introducing potential black lover and.or boyfriend to my girl(s) is always one of the best parts. Current agreement is, if I surprise my hotwife party4candi by bringing a potential new black lover to our place, pretty much unannounced, we agreed: I will introduce him as a guy I thought she might also like to meet. She then has FULL authority to tell him "I'm sorry, my man is an asshole, he knows this is a bad time for me, so I understand being disappointed, but he will suck you off to completion if you want him to."
Im glad you think so
Yes, Id like to start hearing from more and more cuckolds on this platform from around the US...
So if you know anyone, please let them know about this thread.
Its time that cuckolds got the attention they deserve.
hey man
Exactly -- Alpha men need to start understanding the power of beta men.
Thats why Im so happy this project exists and that my friend Goddess is running it.
I hope that there would be a branch by me
As someone who feels submissive around alphas I noticed there many I do not relate to. The ones I feel the best and most willing to accommodate are the ones which take the time to understand me and then use that information to lead me deeper into submission. It’s almost intuitive on their part. So glad this about alphas was mentioned.
I think thats the hope.
I just talked to her yesterday - so here's the problem she is running into.
A lot of the beta/cuckolds don't want to follow through and follow the advice. Even though all of the advice is proven and has helped hundreds of cuckolds make their cuckolding dreams come true.
If she can't make one city work - she can't expand to other cities.
so im trying to help as much as I can. But I had to tell her the truth - most men are stubborn and arrogant fools.
It doesnt matter if you're a cuckold or an Alpha - most men simply refuse to listen to other people. They honestly believe they are the smartest person in the room and no one knows more than them. Ive had the same issue on this website, where I start talking to a couple (the husband) and for no reason whatsoever - he starts to cop and attitude.
My profile name is "hung teacher" - its my name for a reason.
I teach people about the LS and try and help people navigate these relationships in the most healthy way possible.
Am I 100% right? Of course not - but I have over 15 years experience, compared to a lot of these guys who have never had one cuckold experience in their lives - and so when I give them advice - they just flat out reject it and tell me "that won't work"
LOL. I dont know what to tell these guys, other than - I wish you lots of luck.
I hear you
You are the perfect beta/cuckold, as far as I can see. You would be a good cuckold for me. You would listen to my commands and do what I tell you to do. Of course, If you have questions and dont understand why you're doing things - I would explain the purpose to you. But I think at the end of the day, even if you couldn't comprehend the purpose - you will still follow through.
I have had many ex-military cuckolds serve me - they are honestly the best cuckolds in the world. I mean, they are true soldiers and they know how to follow commands and complete the mission. I sometimes wish I could have an army of cuckold men at my disposal - I could rule the world if that were the case. LOL
Thanks, I hope to be a good cuckold one day! I agree even if I did not fully understand I would most likely follow. For me it’s about the alpha allowing me to feel somewhat comfortable.I hear you
You are the perfect beta/cuckold, as far as I can see. You would be a good cuckold for me. You would listen to my commands and do what I tell you to do. Of course, If you have questions and dont understand why you're doing things - I would explain the purpose to you. But I think at the end of the day, even if you couldn't comprehend the purpose - you will still follow through.
I have had many ex-military cuckolds serve me - they are honestly the best cuckolds in the world. I mean, they are true soldiers and they know how to follow commands and complete the mission. I sometimes wish I could have an army of cuckold men at my disposal - I could rule the world if that were the case. LOL
Interesting comparison on the ex military cuckolds but for sure I can see how that would be true. Mmm an army of cuckolds… where do I sign up!
Because you have the right mentality - I would say that if you meet a bull and you "don't" feel comfortable that is a definite red flag that you are talking to a bad bull.
I know bad bulls exist, but I mean, any bull that can't work with you and make you feel comfortable is a really toxic narcissist. LOL
You are so easy to talk to and I can only imagine how good you would be to give commands.
If you want to get more involved, I highly recommend you reach out to this cuckold from the UK @Neilson
He is a cuckold friend of mine - we have known each other for several years- he can give you more insight into real cuckolding, as well as what its like to talk to me one on one and what type of bull I am.
Thank you for the kind works and observations. I do wish for an alpha in life preferably one close by that could help me be a better beta. Also one that my wife could also get to know even in a fun non sexual way.
Thanks I will contact UK@Neilson with my thanks.
Really appreciate your guidance,
