Cuckold does not mean humiliation, creampies, chastity and so many more kinks and fetishes but, all can be added by choice with these addons giving it the modern day title of Cuckold Fetish. I think the issue here with calling Cuckolds Stags and Cuckoldresses as Vixens of Hotwires is a simple one. Some people don't want to be looked upon as being in a cuckold relationship. As soon as any wife has sex with a man other then her husband, the man she has had sex with has cuckolded (a verb) her husband. We become a cuckold ( a noun ).
I found this on line and found it enlightening.
Here's the truth:
REAL cuckolds today are not pushovers, weaklings, idiots, or anything else derogatory.
Cuckolds are men who have found a niche sexual fetish that appeals to them and makes them happy.
They aren't causing harm, and they don't deserve to be publicly shamed.