Like I said. we don't use it and don't quite know what to do when we hear it.
No offense intended
No offense intended
You're right, what's ok in one situation doesn't have to be it in another situation.So interesting the range of opinions and expereinces! Personally I never use it unless the guy I'm with likes me to say it in a sexual context. I'd also never assume it's ok from one man to the next or from one situation to the next. It's such a highly charged environment we're in.
You always find the right words!So interesting the range of opinions and expereinces! Personally I never use it unless the guy I'm with likes me to say it in a sexual context. I'd also never assume it's ok from one man to the next or from one situation to the next. It's such a highly charged environment we're in.
That all being said, when I do use it. Wow... it's like the aggressiveness gets ratcheted up. Probably the same for other girls I'm sure.
I just try to express myself as clearly as i know how!You always find the right words!
And you are good at that.I just try to express myself as clearly as i know how!
Thank You!And you are good at that.
You are welcome.Thank You!
The N word is a slave word that the white slave master called the black man, when the unintelligent black males use it and then go further and say there claiming it there as foolish as the slave masters. It was a put down word and we must not forget our roots and not claim the negatives of it.There is no African heritage in the N word at all, its a white man word.
Be black & proud
YOU SHOULD NEVER USE IT.So interesting the range of opinions and expereinces! Personally I never use it unless the guy I'm with likes me to say it in a sexual context. I'd also never assume it's ok from one man to the next or from one situation to the next. It's such a highly charged environment we're in.
That all being said, when I do use it. Wow... it's like the aggressiveness gets ratcheted up. Probably the same for other girls I'm sure.
First of all, i don't care how cute you are and what your so called 'black Daddy' tells you....you have ZERO context of the history of the N-Word or the historical damage it's done to a group of people. So check your little fantasy at the doorSo interesting the range of opinions and expereinces! Personally I never use it unless the guy I'm with likes me to say it in a sexual context. I'd also never assume it's ok from one man to the next or from one situation to the next. It's such a highly charged environment we're in.
That all being said, when I do use it. Wow... it's like the aggressiveness gets ratcheted up. Probably the same for other girls I'm sure.
That's because they are ignorant and uneducated morons.
And then Samantha P turned out to be a dude using stolen picsFirst of all, i don't care how cute you are and what your so called 'black Daddy' tells you....you have ZERO context of the history of the N-Word or the historical damage it's done to a group of people. So check your little fantasy at the door
Your experience with black men is so ridiculously limited, in a subtle way you are lampooning what it means to be with a black guy.
In real life, I grew up with white girls from the hood who hung out with black people, dated black guys, etc... Even they had enough sense to know if they said that out loud they would get chin-checked in a heart beat
Don't let TV and social conditioning fool you into thinking it's cool on any level.
Why do people think it is important ?No its not ok, ive never used even when the guy ask me to. I dont find that funny, sexy or even appropiate to call someone that.