Should the cuckold be cut off from sex

I let him try and poke me with his dick. I let him try for as long as he wants but he just gets himself worked up and frustrated. Dan would not be happy if I slept with hubby. Dan is very protective of me and he doesn't like hubby having access to my body, but he is happy for hubby to use a strapon on me a couple of times a month. Michael gets on well with both Dan and Gregg as long as he doesn't try to fuck me.
J
Xoxoxoxo
I absolutely love your marriage and all its partners.
you and Michael seem to have found the perfect niche in your life.
long may it continue.
lot of love from an old guy in the midlands.
 
My wife very rarely has sex with me. My situation is the most difficult when she doesn't have a lover to keep her sexually satisfied which is our current status. We still love each other very much, best friends, and can't sleep without the other in bed with us...but she will do without sex instead of letting me "use her pussy to masturbate" I used to try so hard to make her cum. Eat her pussy, finger her gspot till my arm cramped, tried all sorts of positions trying to get my thin 5.5" to hit the right spot but never could get her off with any consistency. Finding the cuckold lifestyle took so much pressure off and I suspect many husbands feel the same way. Sure he misses the feeling of your warm wet pussy around his little dick but as long as you keep his denial in the context of cuckolding, continue to fuck other men, and keep his feelings of inadequacy directly relatable to the fetish he will likely continue to support and love you, even if you cut him off completely. When the tease and denial stops, the sex with other men stops...then it begins to just feel like an asexual, boring old couple marriage and that's when a husband will start looking for an alternative. People don't understand how much sexual fulfillment a cuckold gains from watching, listening to, and helping his wife have fulfilling sexual experiences. The worst thing my wife could do, as far as my sexual needs are concerned, would be to stop cuckolding me. I wonder if other husbands feel the same way? I wonder if most cuckolds would admit that they'd rather be totally denied your pussy than have you lose your lust for bigger better cock?
This is one of the best writings I've ever read. It describes perfectly the need for caging tease and denial and for the cuckolding to be included. The more these things happen and the deeper he is cuckolded the stronger more loving and more satisfying the couple become.
 
We've gone over this before, probably more than once.

Men who are inadequate at intercourse, for any number of reasons, too small, cum too fast, lack of skills, or other reasons, only create frustration which soon turns to resentment for the women. When the woman finds and experiences a superior lover, it's easy to understand why she doesn't want inferior sex anymore from her husband. I'm cut off from sex and receive hand jobs only for the first two reasons I listed above, and agree it's the right thing for my wife to do.
I haven’t been cucked but my wife will now only fuck her BBC dildo strap on . She says it’s just too good and she hates how I fall out.
 
Yes, once the wife finds a dependable lover(s) the cuckold should be cut off from sex for a good long period of time, step back in his new role as sub to her and the alpha bull, while the wife and bull get to know each and with the husband now out of the picture, sexually, can begin to focus on each other sexually with the alpha bull now in the perfect position as her primary sexual provider to start taking her bareback and mating with her frequently and her also getting used to and comfortable with the cuckold in his new role and by knowing he wont freak out and get jealous, also let go of any guilt she may feel for enjoying and realizing she actually prefers sex with her new lover than she did with her husband and as part of the cut off, now she can even depend on the cuckold helping her to get sex more frequently in his new role in whatever way and to make them comfortable when they are together .
Thats the purpose of cutting off sex with the cuckold. To transition him to his new role of facilitator and supporter of his wife getting sex with other men....Without the role of sexual provider he now will get satisfaction in a completely different way, by getting off on the ritual of perparing her for other men and achieving the end goal of her getting fucked better than she did with you by that select male you both helped pick out...so you bath her, shave her, set out her clothes and prepare her which is a sexual satisfaction for the cuckold..then when they are together you actively assist them make the transition to mating/coupling easier by having the room or bed ready, undressing them both, fluffing him as a sign of respect, and either helping guide him into her or helping hold her legs open during the coupling or just be holding her hand and comforting, being there at the conclusion to witness his creampie and lick it out or whatever...you have fulfilled your duty and are now free to get your sexual release in whatever way you all agreed upon...
 
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