Should the cuckold be cut off from sex

In a serious cuckold relationship it's important for the husband to be cut off from intercourse with his wife. This doesn't mean that the relationship between the husband and wife should emotionally change. The emotional bond can actually become stronger. If a wife has a boyfriend or bull there can be confusion sexually when the husband is involved. The desire for the boyfriend or bull is diminished when the husband also has intercourse with his wife. Intercourse can also be too available and the desire and anticipation of being with the boyfriend and bull may not be as strong. There is a chemical bonding with the seamen from the boyfriend or bull. That bonding needs to be in place and not confused with seamen from the husband.
Please. This is drivel.

First of all, my wife's libido is far more active when she's having regular sex. During stretches where she's stressed with career obligations or having some health issue or locked in a house during a pandemic with ******* for too long, her libido tanks. When that happens, she stops looking at sites like this with me, she stops trying to meet or talk to anyone new, she stops looking at her chat apps to see if any bulls she already knows have been texting or flirting, she contemplates unlocking my cage and basically going into sexual hibernation. When that happens, the single most effective jump start for her is intimacy with me. Long before she starts missing her bulls, she will start missing making love to me, because of the emotional connection we have, and the sex finally reminds her how good that feels. When she's highly sexually active with me, she becomes more open to kink, more open to more sex, and eventually wants that raw, primal, long-lasting, hard, deep fucking from a guy with a big black cock. The best favor I can do for the black men who are lucky enough to be with my wife is keep her well sexed.

But let's set aside our specific situation, and look at some of the blanket statements and conclusions you've made here:

In a serious cuckold relationship it's important for the husband to be cut off from intercourse with his wife.
It is? Important to whom? You? The cuckold cops?

The desire for the boyfriend or bull is diminished when the husband also has intercourse with his wife.
What would the consequence of that be? She only sometimes decides to fuck men that aren't her husband?

OH NO!!! A WHITE WOMAN IS HAPPY IN HER MARRIAGE, WITHOUT MAKING HER HUSBAND OBSOLETE!!! ALL IS NOT RIGHT WITH THE WORLD!!!

If black lovers and black cock are supposedly so superior, what on Earth are you worried about? Do you think she won't be able to tell the difference if she has sex with both of them? Or do you not trust her to correctly identify which one is "superior?" If this is about making sure she has whatever she desires, shouldn't SHE get to choose what that is?

That bonding needs to be in place and not confused with seamen from the husband.
EGADS!!! A white woman BONDED with her HUSBAND!!! The God damn sky is FALLING!!! We can't have a cuckold couple continuing to make sure their relationship remains strong and healthy, can we???

This is why I hate threads that start with "should."
Should the cuckold be cut off from sex? Should a cuck be feminized? How often should a husband be allowed to cum? Should he be "milked" before her dates? After them? Should he be allowed to [insert-literally-any-action-here]? Anyone who answers one of these like there's some kind of cuckold rule book is wrong. The answer to every single one of them is:

A wife in a female led relationship should do whatever makes her happy and works best for she and her husband. End of story.

I'll put my marriage up against anyone's here as an example of how cuckolding can be healthy and even strengthen a completely happy marriage. If never letting a dude fuck his wife again makes that dude and his wife happy, more power to them. But are the people who don't do things that way doing it wrong? Nope. My wife doesn't let sad, porn-addicted wannabes inventing rules on the internet tell her how our relationship should work. The idea that we'd be better off if she did is bollocks.
 
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We got famine and pestilence all over the world. Governments that barely function and divided populations. Human trafficking. Racism. Sexism. Classism. Oppression. Oceans filling up with plastic and bleaching the coral reefs, and a disease with no treatment or vaccine running rampant across the globe.

And what y'all are worried about is whether white guys who spend most of their time with their tiny dicks in tinier cages might be getting away with having too much sex, if their wives, who married them and ostensibly love them, actually fuck them once in a while? Y'all don't think that's completely fucking ridiculous?
 
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if you want to do things right
Right according to whom? There's a right and wrong way to do this? I'm glad nobody informed us before now. All this time, we've been thinking "female led" relationships were led by the female in the relationship. I'm not sure my wife would have ever wanted to do it if she knew there was a singular, scripted, correct way to be a cuckoldress. All this time she thought she was in charge and could have what she wanted.

I may not be everything I believe my Goddess deserves to experience, sexually speaking, but am I going to have my cuck card revoked if we still enjoy sex together or break any of these other unwritten laws?
 
There is no correct answer to this question. Both, the wife and the cuckold, should decide if it is the right thing to do. If you ask me, the cuck should be definitely become pussyfree at some point.

As my gf and I got into the cuckold lifestyle, we still had regular intercourse but over time she was having more and more sex with her bull and less with me. I absolutely love watching her having sex with a better endowed bull and to see how much more pleasure she's receiving from him. We slowly progressed to the point where I no longer have sex with her.
 
It's true that hubby will get used to it but if the wife or GF don't stay strong he may twist your feelings and play on any guilt you may have.
Stick to your guns and a few months in he will adapt like michael did. It's true a person's perspective can change, I've said it before but I did not understand the chastity thing, until I I got him a fitted cage and locked him up. His first cage he could slide it off, although he denied that fact. When I finally got him a cage that was snug and he heard the click, you could see the panic on his face. When that click occurred, I became instantly wet. That is why he is locked up long term.
J
Xoxoxoxo
OMG - as a white guy who has never had this done to him... I'm surprised by how much this idea turns me on.
 
OMG - as a white guy who has never had this done to him... I'm surprised by how much this idea turns me on.
I felt the same way when I found out about chastity devices back in the mid-80's. I immediately wanted it, bad! It only took about 30 years for me to realize my dreams, and I was lucky to have a Mistress who was happy to put me in permanent chastity as soon as I got my body used to wearing my device. I thank her every day for the wonderful things she did to make my dreams come true.
 
My Queen has every right and justification to cut me off and that decision belongs to HER and HER ALONE! I acknowledge how that my clitty is completely useless and it's only purpose in life is to suffer and sacrifice for Queen Cassandra's pleasure. Her decisions, once made, are respected and obeyed as LAW....I must forever EARN my pathetic cuckold place at her feet!!👑🙏♠❤
 

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It's true that hubby will get used to it but if the wife or GF don't stay strong he may twist your feelings and play on any guilt you may have.
Stick to your guns and a few months in he will adapt like michael did. It's true a person's perspective can change, I've said it before but I did not understand the chastity thing, until I I got him a fitted cage and locked him up. His first cage he could slide it off, although he denied that fact. When I finally got him a cage that was snug and he heard the click, you could see the panic on his face. When that click occurred, I became instantly wet. That is why he is locked up long term.
J
Xoxoxoxo
Have you ever considered getting him pierced and getting a cage that's secured through the piercing. It's sexy as hell and completely ends any chance for him to sneak out.
 
It's true that hubby will get used to it but if the wife or GF don't stay strong he may twist your feelings and play on any guilt you may have.
Stick to your guns and a few months in he will adapt like michael did. It's true a person's perspective can change, I've said it before but I did not understand the chastity thing, until I I got him a fitted cage and locked him up. His first cage he could slide it off, although he denied that fact. When I finally got him a cage that was snug and he heard the click, you could see the panic on his face. When that click occurred, I became instantly wet. That is why he is locked up long term.
J
Xoxoxoxo
there's our QUEEN of chastity
a thought to cherish the click of the lock making you so wet as you condemned Michael to his total abstinence of your cherished pussy forever.
the power of such a commitment of both of you to each other is beautiful to perceive.
 
ha ha ha eventually the husband will find a woman who treats him well regardless and give the boot to the cunt that he has
 
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I say yes. but not permantly. A good cuck should be broken in And shown his place first. Plus it is good for him to see how she responds to his little cock.
This is so very true!
My wife never cut me off as such.
For me it became humiliating for me to even try and fuck my wife.
The more times I watched my wife with her bull and seeing how much he satisfied in ways I never could, soon made it too humiliating for me to put my little cock in my wife.
 
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