Should the cuckold be cut off from sex

My husband and I have progressed to the point that he no longer penetrates me with his dick in my pussy or my ass. I have also largely weaned him off the partial blowjobs that I used to give him, and I give him handjobs quite rarely. He is still allowed to relieve himself with his hands in my presence or on his own. We still make love in other ways. He can use his hands and his mouth on me everywhere, and when it is time to penetrate me, he uses one or two of my favorite BBC dildos. This allows us to maintain intimacy, but at the same time heighten his chronic state of arousal and accentuate my desire for other, better cocks.
I am so glad you posted this. I am inadequate at intercourse, for a number of reasons, too small, cum too fast and the ladies i date know that and prefer to be with black men, I find her sexual satisfaction turns me on sooo much more and love that bond along with her using my tongue and fingers to orgasm when a black man is not available
 
I don’t think of it in the terms of me “cutting off” my husband from sex. I think it was a natural progression for me when I started dating outside of our marriage. I was getting all of my sexual needs met, so as my needs were met, I didn’t need him sexually.
I love the way you put that, "natural" progression... I have experienced that bond many times and love it, and yes i was technically "cut off" it didnt feel that way
 
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Toatly agree ! My wife know the only thing I need is licking her pussy and ass. But she insist every time whe have sex I fuck her at the start. But after a few minutes she's asking me to fuck her with her big dildo because she can't feel me. It's excatly the sexual intercourse I want and need.
 
I think as a middle aged cuck, you just learn to accept it. I no longer ask, beg, hint for sex anymore. If my wife wants to gift me some, then of course I jump at it, but for my wife and I she seems longer sexually interested in me. These days, at best we'll both masturbate to IR porn together, and I might get to rim her while she plays with herself (her fave thing with me), but as close as we seem to get is, she'll hold her pussy soaked fingers under my nose while I masturbate. That seems to be sex for us these days and has been for a couple of years. I don't complain, it is what it is... plus i've been single before and was totally sexless, so at least this is better. She has told me to perhaps go out and find another cuck for sex, but haven't really looked or found anyone yet.
 
Absolutely the same for me, I could never orgasm from intercourse with hubby with the exception that I was rubbing my clit, but this I could also do without his XS stick in me
My wife does or should say, did enjoy anal with me while she masturbated when we met, but haven't done for at least a year or so now. I'm guessing we've just moved into the next stage of our relationship. Its still a loving relationship, and we talk/ share lots of thoughts about sex, we just don't have sex with each other any more. Not entirely a platonic relationship, but almost. Its not a lonely marriage, but these days a sexless one. Don't see how we will change that in the future either.
 
In a serious cuckold relationship it's important for the husband to be cut off from intercourse with his wife. This doesn't mean that the relationship between the husband and wife should emotionally change. The emotional bond can actually become stronger. If a wife has a boyfriend or bull there can be confusion sexually when the husband is involved. The desire for the boyfriend or bull is diminished when the husband also has intercourse with his wife. Intercourse can also be too available and the desire and anticipation of being with the boyfriend and bull may not be as strong. There is a chemical bonding with the semen from the boyfriend or bull. That bonding needs to be in place and not confused with semen from the husband.

I would just like to add a note about our relationship. While this may not be for others on this forum it works for us. My wife has never been happier when she asked me not to have intercourse with her and I honored her request. She asked if I would stay in chastity and display the key around her neck. She is a Domme and I am a submissive so this works for us.
 
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In a serious cuckold relationship it's important for the husband to be cut off from intercourse with his wife. This doesn't mean that the relationship between the husband and wife should emotionally change. The emotional bond can actually become stronger. If a wife has a boyfriend or bull there can be confusion sexually when the husband is involved. The desire for the boyfriend or bull is diminished when the husband also has intercourse with his wife. Intercourse can also be too available and the desire and anticipation of being with the boyfriend and bull may not be as strong. There is a chemical bonding with the seamen from the boyfriend or bull. That bonding needs to be in place and not confused with seamen from the husband.

Wow.....there is is. This is always tough to hear but it’s many of y’alls reality. Dem are the facts
 
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