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Why men feel threatened by sex clubs


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I not see this as negative. Maybe because I am girl. Still $100 isn't a lot of money. That is cheaper than a night at the movies 😂

But on serious note, such events cannot be free
LOL....You're response perfectly explains why Blackmen dislike sex clubs....couldn't have answered you're own question any better....oh yes, the $100 isn't the issue just showing the difference in treatment ....thought all were supposed to be treated in an "even-handed manner" but, hey you're life experience/perception differs from that of Blackmen so your response is understandable.
 
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There are Black Cock Parties here in Dallas regularly. Many couples (mostly white) and many single black men. Essentially, it is a traveling IR club. We also belong to several lifestyle groups (through another site) that specifically cater to IR lifestyle and meets. At least one of these groups hosts events all over the country. There is also a group called Splash Mocha that host IR events periodically, in Florida and elsewhere.
 
LOL....You're response perfectly explains why Blackmen dislike sex clubs....couldn't have answered you're own question any better....oh yes, the $100 isn't the issue just showing the difference in treatment ....thought all were supposed to be treated in an "even-handed manner" but, hey you're life experience/perception differs from that of Blackmen so your response is understandable.
Not under stand but ok.
 
LOL....You're response perfectly explains why Blackmen dislike sex clubs....couldn't have answered you're own question any better....oh yes, the $100 isn't the issue just showing the difference in treatment ....thought all were supposed to be treated in an "even-handed manner" but, hey you're life experience/perception differs from that of Blackmen so your response is understandable.
Which is exactly why I said what I said! 🤷‍♂️

The best will always be homegrown events and activities. I have met and played with people ranging from the wealthy to the middle class here in San Diego and even well known porn stars and it was all free. Being selected in the private sector is all about looks, character, and overall quality and not about money. This is why most couples you will meet in the lifestyle will not have very many nice things to say about the clubs especially if they are very attractive! Especially if they are into interracial it is very hard for them to find what they want and alot of the wives said that they would have to quote "take one for the team often"! Not alot of wealthy guys are in shape and attractive but they have these gorgeous trophy wives.
 
Which is exactly why I said what I said! 🤷‍♂️

The best will always be homegrown events and activities. I have met and played with people ranging from the wealthy to the middle class here in San Diego and even well known porn stars and it was all free. Being selected in the private sector is all about looks, character, and overall quality and not about money. This is why most couples you will meet in the lifestyle will not have very many nice things to say about the clubs especially if they are very attractive! Especially if they are into interracial it is very hard for them to find what they want and alot of the wives said that they would have to quote "take one for the team often"! Not alot of wealthy guys are in shape and attractive but they have these gorgeous trophy wives.
Well it not work for you, I see

To each his/her own 😁
 
Well it not work for you, I see

To each his/her own 😁
No it's not that it didn't work for me. In actuality the fact of the matter is that it never really interested me in the lifestyle due to my abundant success outside of the lifestyle clubs and Institutions. I have attended many private lifestyle parties with a vast variety of people from different backgrounds from some of the wealthiest people in San Diego to some of the most average middle class people and if I was a part of some exclusive club I then I would have missed out on tons of wonderful experiences outside of the club scene.
Like I said I have met many couple's over the years who have been in the lifestyle a long time and have done it all: clubs, resorts, cruises, retreats, conventions, and private parties and it's the personal and private activities that they arrange themselves that were always the most memorable and meaningful. I had hotwives and couple's inviting me to exclusive events that they were invited to simply because they knew that there was most likely not going to be anyone they were interested in attending. Celebrities are regular people with regular needs just like everyone else. I fucked a few porn stars and blew their back out and wore them out just like any other woman and the wonderful thing about it was that it was all free! 😁
 
No it's not that it didn't work for me. In actuality the fact of the matter is that it never really interested me in the lifestyle due to my abundant success outside of the lifestyle clubs and Institutions. I have attended many private lifestyle parties with a vast variety of people from different backgrounds from some of the wealthiest people in San Diego to some of the most average middle class people and if I was a part of some exclusive club I then I would have missed out on tons of wonderful experiences outside of the club scene.
Like I said I have met many couple's over the years who have been in the lifestyle a long time and have done it all: clubs, resorts, cruises, retreats, conventions, and private parties and it's the personal and private activities that they arrange themselves that were always the most memorable and meaningful. I had hotwives and couple's inviting me to exclusive events that they were invited to simply because they knew that there was most likely not going to be anyone they were interested in attending. Celebrities are regular people with regular needs just like everyone else. I fucked a few porn stars and blew their back out and wore them out just like any other woman and the wonderful thing about it was that it was all free! 😁
Cool you save money, that seems to be your most wonderful part so you should keep prioritizing on that. Be happy 😘
 
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Cool you save money, that seems to be ther most wonderful part so you should keep prioritizing on that. Be happy 😘
No you completely missed the point. Most people in the lifestyle Do Not Belong to any club or institution and have far more success and wonder memorable experiences to speak of than the people in those clubs that you speak of. The fact that most of it cost them nothing is not the point!

You speak of these clubs as though they are the best thing in the lifestyle when the truth is most people in the lifestyle have never been to a club or most of their memorable moments in the lifestyle didn't even happen in any club! You posed the question why men feel threatened by clubs? The answer is that no fit, hung, attractive bull is threatened by any club or lifestyle institution. Its actually that the clubs are juat a fun but unnecessary addition to the lifestyle especially to the black bulls who enjoy an abundance of success outside of the clubs because the popularity and demand for hung black bulls is high outside of the clubs and is growing even higher. The club has very little appeal to us and there is no caliber or range of beautiful women in the clubs that we do not already have plenty of access to outside of the clubs!
 
Me and my husband joined an interracial cuckold club locally back in September. It was scary and unknown at first but it turned out to be AMAZING. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE. Best choice I ever made in the lifestyle.

But I noticed a lot of black men feel threatened by sex clubs. They never tell me why. Couples are the complete opposite, most every couple I speak with love sex clubs. They never have to worry about fakes, stand ups, surprises, etc...

However for black men (90% of them) it's a sudden deal breaker. I don't understand why but they will suddenly lose interest and I don't understand why.

Please give your opinion to educate everyone on different points of view. Thank you for your participation and look forward to reading all of your comments.

(No fighting, nobody is wrong for having their own opinion)
Im not threatened in the least .. I like bbc virgins and they are not there. And are getting increasingly more difficult to locate ...So I've been making my own getting them turnt
 
Im not threatened in the least .. I like bbc virgins and they are not there. And are getting increasingly more difficult to locate ...So I've been making my own getting them turnt
Oooo this is good point of view. This new to me.

I notice this in many black men outside of clubs. They want to be first black man. They want to be the corruption yes? And at events they feel they cannot be that person... yes? There are other black men there.

I notice many black men lose interest when you tell them that you've had black already.

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Oooo this is good point of view. This new to me.

I notice this to in many black men outside of clubs. They want to be first black man. They want to be the corruption yes? And at events they feel they cannot be that person... yes? There are other black men there.

I notice many black men lose interest when you tell them that you've had black already.

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Been reading all of your comments. Would you be interested in talking about your experiences in the clubs? Very interested! DM me? No problem if not!
 
No you completely missed the point. Most people in the lifestyle Do Not Belong to any club or institution and have far more success and wonder memorable experiences to speak of than the people in those clubs that you speak of. The fact that most of it cost them nothing is not the point!

You speak of these clubs as though they are the best thing in the lifestyle when the truth is most people in the lifestyle have never been to a club or most of their memorable moments in the lifestyle didn't even happen in any club! You posed the question why men feel threatened by clubs? The answer is that no fit, hung, attractive bull is threatened by any club or lifestyle institution. Its actually that the clubs are juat a fun but unnecessary addition to the lifestyle especially to the black bulls who enjoy an abundance of success outside of the clubs because the popularity and demand for hung black bulls is high outside of the clubs and is growing even higher. The club has very little appeal to us and there is no caliber or range of beautiful women in the clubs that we do not already have plenty of access to outside of the clubs!
Oh I just respond when you say that saving money is most wonderful part. I see you edited your original comment and erased that. You don't have to though... nobody judging you

Yes and be happy if this work for you.

Me personally I experience lifestyle outside clubs first. I don't use words like "we" or "us" because nobody should speak for anyone else when giving personal opinion. And my (not we) experience outside the clubs was fun.

However... my (not us) preference now to go to clubs is due to many factors. I will list things I don't have to worry about.

  • No fakes nor stand ups
  • Safe (I am not going to die)
  • STD screening for members (the nicer clubs offer it ❤)
  • No catfish (because they never look like picture)
  • No orgasm sex (if a bull can't bring me to orgssm, I will pick another. I go home satisfied)
  • No exchange of personal information (then they wont leave me alone)
  • No disappointment (if one not work out chose another)
  • No request to pick them up because they dont have a car (seriously 🙄)
  • No request to fuck me in my car because they don't want to pay for hotel (oh my wow 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄)
  • The list goes on but I sm sure you get a good perspective from a girls point of view
Aside from everything I (not we) don't have to worry about anymore, there are so many positives that my fingers are too tired to list 😜

Ultimately, for me (not speaking for anyone else), online hookups will never be as good as a nice club. This is what makes me happy ❤💥💦😁
 
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