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Why men feel threatened by sex clubs


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Oooo this is good point of view. This new to me.

I notice this in many black men outside of clubs. They want to be first black man. They want to be the corruption yes? And at events they feel they cannot be that person... yes? There are other black men there.

I notice many black men lose interest when you tell them that you've had black already.

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Me personally and I'm speaking for myself. I had my first IR experience kind of late. I was 27 and she was 36. . I was a stock broker here in Atlanta and she was my client. Who owned a high end Salon divorced from a noted Nascar driver. It was her first and when I tell you it was intense and very explosive. It opened up a new world to me . Black women saw me as prime marriage material so they dated me different. Wanting me to wait 3 months to fuck so they didn't appear slutty but They were fucking there ex from college or the vending machine guy at the office or the bartender. Fuck that ,white women had one rule. Which was there are no rules. So I started frequenting the bars and clubs with white patrons. And sometimes it would have been easier to get a kidney from my friends than to go to Techno clubs. So I hunted alone. I only had to obstacles.(1) white guys. nothing I couldn't handle id sit at the bar and let the women choose me. (2) I had a learning curve have to differentiate if the lady was just trying to prove she was not racist and being friendly or actually giving up play.. With white girls its hard to tell sometimes . My point before I went all war and peace is Every young white woman I fucked was a BBC virgin. It's the look in there eyes where every emotion is revealing itself in a sort of sweetly transparent way .. Fear , excitement , guilt , pride , passion , lust , curiosity . This process I found arousing and it usually only happens the first time. Then you soul fuck them and see that surrender . The inner turmoil of them realizing they can never get fucked like that from Tyler or Chad or Biff .. So I had to introduce them to my friends and ultimately they would fuck them while I went through her friends all bbc virgins ..
 
Me personally and I'm speaking for myself. I had my first IR experience kind of late. I was 27 and she was 36. . I was a stock broker here in Atlanta and she was my client. Who owned a high end Salon divorced from a noted Nascar driver. It was her first and when I tell you it was intense and very explosive. It opened up a new world to me . Black women saw me as prime marriage material so they dated me different. Wanting me to wait 3 months to fuck so they didn't appear slutty but They were fucking there ex from college or the vending machine guy at the office or the bartender. Fuck that ,white women had one rule. Which was there are no rules. So I started frequenting the bars and clubs with white patrons. And sometimes it would have been easier to get a kidney from my friends than to go to Techno clubs. So I hunted alone. I only had to obstacles.(1) white guys. nothing I couldn't handle id sit at the bar and let the women choose me. (2) I had a learning curve have to differentiate if the lady was just trying to prove she was not racist and being friendly or actually giving up play.. With white girls its hard to tell sometimes . My point before I went all war and peace is Every young white woman I fucked was a BBC virgin. It's the look in there eyes where every emotion is revealing itself in a sort of sweetly transparent way .. Fear , excitement , guilt , pride , passion , lust , curiosity . This process I found arousing and it usually only happens the first time. Then you soul fuck them and see that surrender . The inner turmoil of them realizing they can never get fucked like that from Tyler or Chad or Biff .. So I had to introduce them to my friends and ultimately they would fuck them while I went through her friends all bbc virgins ..
I under stand. The first experience in any fetish is extremely exciting. It doesn't have to be amazing, it just has fo be something new. Than a girl will build expectations after her first experience.

We are harder to dominate, harder to please. Our expectations are higher as so our dissapointment. I can see how this is a turn off for some black men. And yes... we are harder to please. But luckily for bbc experienced women there are still some hardcore bulls out there that meet our high expectations 😋😁😀💥💥💥💥💦💦💦💦💦💦
 
I under stand. The first experience in any fetish is extremely exciting. It doesn't have to be amazing, it just has fo be something new. Than a girl will build expectations after her first experience.

We are harder to dominate, harder to please. Our expectations are higher as so our dissapointment. I can see how this is a turn off for some black men. And yes... we are harder to please. But luckily for bbc experienced women there are still some hardcore bulls out there that meet our high expectations 😋😁😀💥💥💥💥💦💦💦💦💦💦
Easy there thunder cat don't get it twisted I like women at all stages of the life ... And I do circle back especially with social media . The girl that's laying ******* in my bed now. I knew from 20 years ago. Our sex was crazy hot last night and nuclear explosive .. She was a die hard Trumper. I made her say President Elect Biden everytime she orgasmed . And in the last 20 years she has had more black dick in her than a urinal at the BET Awards .
 
Easy there thunder cat don't get it twisted I like women at all stages of the life ... And I do circle back especially with social media . The girl that's laying ******* in my bed now. I knew from 20 years ago. Our sex was crazy hot last night and nuclear explosive .. She was a die hard Trumper. I made her say President Elect Biden everytime she orgasmed . And in the last 20 years she has had more black dick in her than a urinal at the BET Awards .
Also the entire process is different with experienced bbclovers ...its more about the results so you start with the end in mind ..But I attend clubs just not as frequent as in my youth. I do agree with you though ..on the challenge ..but trust me im extremely confident in my stamina size and skill no matter who my partner is. My boi Larry put me down in my early 40's with this gilf society all qos and that was some of the best sex I've had ..
 
Easy there thunder cat don't get it twisted I like women at all stages of the life ... And I do circle back especially with social media . The girl that's laying ******* in my bed now. I knew from 20 years ago. Our sex was crazy hot last night and nuclear explosive .. She was a die hard Trumper. I made her say President Elect Biden everytime she orgasmed . And in the last 20 years she has had more black dick in her than a urinal at the BET Awards .
That was very interesting response, I do not know how to respond. A lot going on there. 😶
 
Which is exactly why I said what I said! 🤷‍♂️

The best will always be homegrown events and activities. I have met and played with people ranging from the wealthy to the middle class here in San Diego and even well known porn stars and it was all free. Being selected in the private sector is all about looks, character, and overall quality and not about money. This is why most couples you will meet in the lifestyle will not have very many nice things to say about the clubs especially if they are very attractive! Especially if they are into interracial it is very hard for them to find what they want and alot of the wives said that they would have to quote "take one for the team often"! Not alot of wealthy guys are in shape and attractive but they have these gorgeous trophy wives.
I have found that private group settings work better for me especially if a few people bring a new swinger couple. My parties are usually themed .. Complete with wardrobe and small script dialogue. The 1860's slave era is a running theme. It works great for sex between plantation owners wife and daughters with slaves .. This past Halloween we wrote in an uprising and it was 3 gangbangs .. That was hot ... But if I want a stranger I may pop in a club once every Blue moon .
 
I have found that private group settings work better for me especially if a few people bring a new swinger couple. My parties are usually themed .. Complete with wardrobe and small script dialogue. The 1860's slave era is a running theme. It works great for sex between plantation owners wife and daughters with slaves .. This past Halloween we wrote in an uprising and it was 3 gangbangs .. That was hot ... But if I want a stranger I may pop in a club once every Blue moon .
Oooh love this, Would love to attend one of these
 
Oooh love this, Would love to attend one of these
You are more than welcome .. I think the next one is Valentine's day ...I wanted to move to a biblical theme ...its a lot of sex in that book .. i was going to be God and have my wireless mic upstairs so the guest will hear me give commands but never see me .. But no ...Everyone wants to keep the slave era thing going ... This friend of mine teaches Drama at Ga State and she does the scripts .. What shocked me is my voyeurism I've never been into watching but it's kind of hot its only one sex encounter at a time ...
 
I know what SNCTM is but what's TGC stand for
I've seen series on SNCTM, but I've never known or heard of anyone who has attended a party. It's hard to imagine many people out there who would pay $10,000 to $50,000 for a membership to attend swing parties? Have you attended one of their parties or know anyone who has?
 
Cuckold or just swingers? If you have 8 interracial cuckold clubs near you, i'm moving 😂😍😘
Unfortunately despite having 8 clubs for kink, there are very very few events specifically geared for interracial play at them compared to the other types of events they hold. Almost all of them are swinger events, gangbangs, dungeon 101 or general fuckfests. Only 2 or 3 well known hosts/host couples that I can think of that routinely hold parties catered specifically to interracial play. It's a problem that most people don't talk about.

If someone local has a different experience that suggests I'm wrong, please speak up and educate me. Id loved to be filled in.
 
There are many places that have group sex and single men are welcome because the women want lots of men and the husbands are cuckolds so they do not mind. It would seem easier to have a few people you have sex with routinely , less chance of disease and easier all around
 
Me and my husband joined an interracial cuckold club locally back in September. It was scary and unknown at first but it turned out to be AMAZING. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE. Best choice I ever made in the lifestyle.

But I noticed a lot of black men feel threatened by sex clubs. They never tell me why. Couples are the complete opposite, most every couple I speak with love sex clubs. They never have to worry about fakes, stand ups, surprises, etc...

However for black men (90% of them) it's a sudden deal breaker. I don't understand why but they will suddenly lose interest and I don't understand why.

Please give your opinion to educate everyone on different points of view. Thank you for your participation and look forward to reading all of your comments.

(No fighting, nobody is wrong for having their own opinion)

I think egoism and narcissism play a big role in this.Part of the black community does not look closely at any relationship with whites and that is why many black men keep their sexuality a secret.They are simply afraid of stigmatizing their community.
 
Me and my husband joined an interracial cuckold club locally back in September. It was scary and unknown at first but it turned out to be AMAZING. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE. Best choice I ever made in the lifestyle.

But I noticed a lot of black men feel threatened by sex clubs. They never tell me why. Couples are the complete opposite, most every couple I speak with love sex clubs. They never have to worry about fakes, stand ups, surprises, etc...

However for black men (90% of them) it's a sudden deal breaker. I don't understand why but they will suddenly lose interest and I don't understand why.

Please give your opinion to educate everyone on different points of view. Thank you for your participation and look forward to reading all of your comments.

(No fighting, nobody is wrong for having their own opinion)
Well....to be honest with you, it depends on the individual. I have gone to parties or clubs with my partner or alone...I loved it both ways and always had an awesome evening.

However, coming back to your point. Some people have performance anxiety, they good in private but cannot perform when watched etc or in a busy environment. Fortunately, for me I have no issues and enjoy private or club settings etc.

Hope this helped
 
No lo hacen, es solo uno que encontramos. Primero vamos a Club Joi, luego a Labyrinth, luego a SNCTM (todavía vamos), luego a Wonderland y ahora finalmente encontramos TGC, que es para la comunidad de cornudos interraciales. Es lo mejor hasta ahora. Al menos por mis intereses
interesante, me gustaría saber más si es posible?
 
Im 50 as of thanksgiving and thought sex clubs and the like were a myth. Ive never heard anyone talk about any as well. Maybe there not in LA or Florida could be why
If by LA you mean Lousiana, then there is at least one really good one, colletts in New Orleans, had some of the best interracial experiences there and with guys we met there.
 
That was very interesting response, I do not know how to respond. A lot going on there. 😶
This is so hot. Can you tell us more about what has gone down at these clubs?

How many men have you been with at once? How many times did you orgasm? How many creampies did you take?
 
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