Me personally and I'm speaking for myself. I had my first IR experience kind of late. I was 27 and she was 36. . I was a stock broker here in Atlanta and she was my client. Who owned a high end Salon divorced from a noted Nascar driver. It was her first and when I tell you it was intense and very explosive. It opened up a new world to me . Black women saw me as prime marriage material so they dated me different. Wanting me to wait 3 months to fuck so they didn't appear slutty but They were fucking there ex from college or the vending machine guy at the office or the bartender. Fuck that ,white women had one rule. Which was there are no rules. So I started frequenting the bars and clubs with white patrons. And sometimes it would have been easier to get a kidney from my friends than to go to Techno clubs. So I hunted alone. I only had to obstacles.(1) white guys. nothing I couldn't handle id sit at the bar and let the women choose me. (2) I had a learning curve have to differentiate if the lady was just trying to prove she was not racist and being friendly or actually giving up play.. With white girls its hard to tell sometimes . My point before I went all war and peace is Every young white woman I fucked was a BBC virgin. It's the look in there eyes where every emotion is revealing itself in a sort of sweetly transparent way .. Fear , excitement , guilt , pride , passion , lust , curiosity . This process I found arousing and it usually only happens the first time. Then you soul fuck them and see that surrender . The inner turmoil of them realizing they can never get fucked like that from Tyler or Chad or Biff .. So I had to introduce them to my friends and ultimately they would fuck them while I went through her friends all bbc virgins ..