No protection for us!! J wants a pregnancy with somone else, and I support her desire for this (yes we know its a REAL person and we have 18 years+ committment and are WELL prepared to do so) so she has taken numerous chances over the years.
WIth Black Lovers, she has virtually NO control and if they want her bare and unprotected, that is what she does. She only uses a diaphragm for birth control, and is easily talked in to removing it for them (the reason is always they can feel it and its preventing them from getting ALL the way in) or she never puts it in at all if the discussion about birth control doesn't come up.
She has a tipped uterus, which makes it difficult for her to get pregnant, or we would be raising a tribe fathered by other Lovers!! CW