We're in the 21st century now, not the 19th or early 20th century. Modesty went the way of 8-tracks & tube tv's ... you get to test drive your prospective spouses before you marry them with absolutely no reluctance. So, if my prospective wife was to say "I don't suck cock" "I only fuck black cock" ... then if her statements concern me, she's do longer a prospective spouse. And anyone who would marry into such a deal, against their better judgement, has got to be a few eggs shy of a dozen in the head. Certainly no room to complain to others ... because we don't give a crap.