Men are obsessed with cock-size because it's the equivalent of beauty in women: it creates an unavoidable pecking-order. The nerdiest dweeb with a huge dick has it over the strongest jock with a smaller one. It's just the way it is. Just like the high school beauty queen has it over the plain but brilliant chick. I like most of what you've written here and elsewhere, and agree with a lot of it, but women -- many women -- do discuss cock size among themselves, though I grant you not all are size-queens. However, they will almost never say "I prefer them smaller to bigger."
All the way in - great comparison. Dick size to men is beauty to women. Except you can’t do anything about it. It becomes a preoccupation because it’s perceived in society that “you are better” if you have a big dick or perceived as beautiful for women.
But a lot of this preoccupation is based on where you go for your information. For women they are inundated with illustrations of what they should look like since they were young and they see how boys/men respond, so they are in constant ‘I’m not good enough’ mode.
Men get this when they see a big dick dude in the locker room and then they wonder....then if they watch porn, their fears are validated that women seem to response better to bigger dicks and then they become obsessed with the question ‘is bigger better’? ....and when they see women giggle and kinda agree that they love bigger dicks, it’s like the girls seeing the boys in school stare at the big titty girl or the hot blonde.
Women tend to internalize the pain that they might not be as desired as other women and may get sad about it (some men do to) but a lot of men externalize the pain through hating and jealousy.
I’ve seen white men and Black men hate differently with BBC dudes. White men will normally poke fun at the dick, “are you dizzy with how much ******* goes into that thing”, “when you get hard, do you get off balanced”
Black men are like, “Don’t bring that dude around my woman”, “I don’t trust that dude”. We know the power of the Big dick and we don’t trust anyone with a big dick around our girl. Now we don’t mind BBC around other dudes girl but I don’t trust that BBC around my girl.
Da Facts are - women, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Da girl with the big titties has a horrible personality, the hot blonde doesnt have that good energy. Great personality, good energy, hard working woman, and confidence in who you are will make you look more beautiful. A selfish ass woman will not look as good after the first night.
Dudes, if you got an average dick you can please your woman. Trust me. You just have to learn how to use that thing. Know the pleasure spots, know how to move your hips, be confident and dominant, know how to last, kiss and fondle as you have sex (use your all of your senses to connect), stop burying your head into her neck and pumping like it’s as AC/DC song. Plus there is more to sex than just the in and out - give massages, know how to talk. All that good *******.
But realize dudes like JLongDaddy is going to stroke your girl better than you because he’s got the equipment and experience and can get to the magical posterior fornix in any position. And any woman that has experienced that is always going to crave for that. It’s the same way, men crave for the girl with big titties and ass that just walked by them.
I’m a good size - 8x6.5 and provide great pleasure, but if JLongDaddy is around my girl, Im not thrilled and you best believe that I’m going to hate on him to my girl as soon as he leaves. Hahahahaha.
No offense JLongDaddy - you know how it goes.
But if my girl saw me with a big titty woman laughing and *******, I already know the conversation I’m going to have when I see my girl. It just is what it is .
JLongDaddy- your white friends are hating on you but porn makes them curious and they might want be signing up for this site and asking for your services. With the White girls - curiously kills the pussy cat. Once they are exposed to this idea, the become curious and nervous at the same time, and all that is needed is encouragement, whether from their girlfriends or husband and once they experience the euphoria of it. The pussy cat has been killed.