Had a guy reach out to me on a swinger site. We chatted over the course of the last couple weeks. Things seemed to be going well. He was respectful. Then out of the blue yesterday he talked about coming to Montana but only if we would host him. I said we would be glad to help him with a hotel room. He said He wanted to be welcome in our home and wanted to take me in front of my husband in our bed. I reiterated that was a hard limit for us and that we will never mix our personal life with this. He commented that I obviously didn’t want his “black dick” very badly. I politely told him to fuck off and blocked him. I just don’t get it. I understand fetish’s but that attitude towards someone’s private life is unacceptable. For me it’s a safety thing. There is nothing we can’t do at a hotel and I maintain my discretion. Hotels are great. You can make a mess and you don’t have to clean it up. lol
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