Looking for advice on husband

[BiSubCuck]

He wants to see me with a black guy, just not all the way. That’s what he told me

Be open and honest with him. Tell him you would love to do this for him. But if you are willing to go this far, he should be willing to allow you to go much further. And remind him that you will be so wet and excited at the prospect of BBC again, and that it would be cruel to you and to the Black man to Not have freedom to enjoy eachother fully.

 

[sassy65]

So an update. He came home last night from work and once I put our ******* down, he started talking to me about it. So finally, I asked a question “ is this going to help our marriage or hurt it, because I kind of just wanna do this, so you will stop bugging me about it!” he told me he just wants to see me with someone posing. I asked him if he had somebody in mind, and he said that he confided in one of the maintenance guys at his building. I’ve never met this man, but he described him and said he was the type that was always able to go somewhere. Ughhhh

I took a couple drinks and finally said fine I will do it. I thought it was going to be for the next night or Friday night but I hopped out of the shower and Dude was here.

I just let him put his dick between my tits, kissed his dick, and let him cum on my neck, but I think I enjoyed it more than I thought. Thank you for the advice everyone!

If you want detail or photos, I would tell or send.

Might have to stick around here!

 

[belman]

Wow already an amazing journey

 

[CremeFrosting]

Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered

1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.

Thank you for letting me voice my problem.

Honestly, if you're not into it then it is probably not a good idea. Talk to your husband and be open and honest about not wanting to add a third person. Keep to the roleplay in the bedroom and what both of you are finding fun and enjoying.

 

[Sultryangel]

Yep baby boomer / Gen X generation were racists.

No gen X aren’t racist. That’s a stupid blanketed thing to say.Racism isn’t generational, it exist within people of different ages and cultures around the world.

 

[dickhurtz472]

Yep baby boomer / Gen X generation were racists.

based on what? how many boomers or Xers to you know?

 

[Keith Lawrence]

So an update. He came home last night from work and once I put our ******* down, he started talking to me about it. So finally, I asked a question “ is this going to help our marriage or hurt it, because I kind of just wanna do this, so you will stop bugging me about it!” he told me he just wants to see me with someone posing. I asked him if he had somebody in mind, and he said that he confided in one of the maintenance guys at his building. I’ve never met this man, but he described him and said he was the type that was always able to go somewhere. Ughhhh

I took a couple drinks and finally said fine I will do it. I thought it was going to be for the next night or Friday night but I hopped out of the shower and Dude was here.

I just let him put his dick between my tits, kissed his dick, and let him cum on my neck, but I think I enjoyed it more than I thought. Thank you for the advice everyone!

If you want detail or photos, I would tell or send.

Might have to stick around here!

Good girl, now show " dem " pics!

 

[kim&bobby827]

Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered

1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.

Thank you for letting me voice my problem.

1. Don’t tell your husband you don’t want to fuck anyone. It takes a lot of courage for a husband to share his fantasy with you. Have an open mind. Play mind games to stimulate him. Watching tv let him know you think a guy on tv is hot or sexy while you are touching him. If you are out somewhere with husband move in close and whisper in his ear that some guy would be your type. Play to the fantasy. If you do it with an open mind your relationship will get closer.

2 I do this with my wife, we look at interracial pictures and gifs and we have to say whether we think the see is hot. Just because you had one bad experience doesn’t mean they are all going to be bad. Just stay open minded to explore.

3 not sure about getting a bull for photo shoot, what zi do know is if you keep relating your husbands pleasure to the power of the black cock watch interracial porn and jerk your husband off telling him how hot the scene is or just role playing during sex. Your husband will be drooling for you to do more with a beautiful black man, trust me it’s all he will be thinking about.

4 you will get into this lifestyle for the great sex but you and your husband will get some great friends and a stronger marriage as long as neither one shuts down the line of communication, you need to communicate your feelings and make sure after every time you have your husband reclaim you and show him he is loved. The sex between the two of you after you were with a black man will be insane. Good luck and remember communication is key to making it all work.

 

[btmsbare]

Yep baby boomer / Gen X generation were racists.

That's a bullshit comment.

 

[dickhurtz472]

That's a bullshit comment.

it's just a rhetorical comment. he won't answer any questions about it, or justify the statement.

 

[btmsbare]

it's just a rhetorical comment. he won't answer any questions about it, or justify the statement.

I wouldn't expect him too. I'm just calling it out as bullshit.

 

[ScottandKrystal]

And I’m not terribly turned off by it, just confused. I don’t want to cross a boundary

You definitely will tho

 

[dickhurtz472]

there were two more comments between the racist Xer, dellva ,& me. somehow they both disappeared.

mine was factual & non-specific. he called me every name he could think of, as any coward would.

he being from chicago should tell us all we need to know.

 

[samberg63]

Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered

1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.

Thank you for letting me voice my problem.

Hi I'm Steve and you my dear are in a pickle! I'm white and live in Pennsylvania near Philadelphia! If
we are close I will certainly respect both of your wishes! And as far as #5 goes, You have the goods! Congrats on your 3 year old! I'd love to help! Best of luck!

 

[robbiewillsuck]

Hi I'm Steve and you my dear are in a pickle! I'm white and live in Pennsylvania near Philadelphia! If
we are close I will certainly respect both of your wishes! And as far as #5 goes, You have the goods! Congrats on your 3 year old! I'd love to help! Best of luck!

talk smut while he is pegging you with a toy

 

[30yoCuckold]

To be honest it seems like you’re not that into it so don’t think it will work, in my experience I’ve seen very few relationships in this lifestyle work unless the desire is driven by the wife.

Being uncomfortable with it, taking time to get comfortable and getting the reassurance you need from your husband are all normal things that every couple in this lifestyle will go through but if it’s not making you incredibly wet the thought of having a bull then probably move on to something else that does get you both off.

Surely if you’re going to bring another person into your relationship it’s for mid blowing orgasms your husband can’t provide, otherwise I don’t see it being worth it

 

[Shavedguysa]

So an update. He came home last night from work and once I put our ******* down, he started talking to me about it. So finally, I asked a question “ is this going to help our marriage or hurt it, because I kind of just wanna do this, so you will stop bugging me about it!” he told me he just wants to see me with someone posing. I asked him if he had somebody in mind, and he said that he confided in one of the maintenance guys at his building. I’ve never met this man, but he described him and said he was the type that was always able to go somewhere. Ughhhh

I took a couple drinks and finally said fine I will do it. I thought it was going to be for the next night or Friday night but I hopped out of the shower and Dude was here.

I just let him put his dick between my tits, kissed his dick, and let him cum on my neck, but I think I enjoyed it more than I thought. Thank you for the advice everyone!

If you want detail or photos, I would tell or send.

Might have to stick around here!

Congratulations! That's a big step for you to do, and sounds like it made you feel sexy too! I can tell you that you made more than two guys happy!

You made an offer of more details and photos here that I'm surprised no one has taken you up on. Personally, I'd love to hear more details about it, and how much you enjoyed it. Have you been thinking about doing more? How did your hubby enjoy it? I'd also to love see any pics you wanted to share! Hopefully you will stay around.

 

[dirtylauren]

He’s weighing up the situation , as soon as you get with a bbc he will want you to jump on the bbc and destroy it

He wants to see me with a black guy, just not all the way. That’s what he told

 

[MrDiscreet]

Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered

1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.

Thank you for letting me voice my problem.

I’m interested

 

[Jimmydong]

What kind of man wants to see his wife pose with a black dick and have it titty fuck her until he cums on her neck, but doesn’t want to see her actually pleasured? I call bullshit on this whole thing. This is some slow played fantasy trash just like 98% of the posts on this site. I’m sure in a week she’ll have become the town slut and getting gangbanged by all of the maintenance workers or something.

You and me think alike and that’s why I love seeing your posts. No doubt most of the stories here are bullshit and that’s a bummer because I wish there were more real ones. Real stories don’t sound as exciting as the fantasies but knowing they are real is the turn on for me.