franklyn17
Male
She only knows I’ve checked it out not that I’m on here daily what about your wife
Is the watching male ever in control?
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No she doesn’t, it’s something I’d like to tell her about but I’m afraid it would be a step too far. Especially as I’m happy for white or black or whoever the chemistry picks, but this is pro dominantly to get a bbc experience I’m happy with Any!
franklyn17
Male
Yeah if my wife ever read the ******* some people spew on here it would definitely be game over
Does get a bit heavy some of it but it’s hot af tbh I won’t lie about it. I just love sex and all the adventures it can bring. It’s all a hot experience.
franklyn17
Male
Yeah the I own your white pussy now and your husband can’t fuck you anymore would totally turn her off though
Agreed there. It wouldn’t be about ownership and I sure af would be fucking still. It’s all about my partner and her feminine control not the bull for me.
So true, I do what they say, anything they say
Yeah seems that way with the cuck side doesn’t it. I suppose somebody ducking your wife Is all cuckold but the females power is the sexy part for me. The bull is just a cock basically for me. The experience is her treating that cock to her body.
So your not involved at all? Or do you get involved sometimes?
The short answer is no. I thought I would have some say about what would do down when I first shared Amie with a black man. I was nervous but excited about seeing her with a black man. First of all, I had assumed it would be one on one but he brought along three of his friends. I weakly protested but it happened. I had also brought along a bunch of condoms, assuming they would be used. Not one was used by any of four black men. I tried to get them to use the condoms but I was ignored by the men as well as my wife. I was also shocked with some of the things she did sexually for them, things she had never done for me in several years of marriage.
Are you ever in control? Perhaps in your case but from my experiences, no. In the heat of the moment ******* happens, sometimes unimaginable *******.
Well depends on the couple. I am in control. I'll let them have their way with her. But I've had a couple try and run how things were going to go I killed that immediately. It's my way or no way. But once u establish who is running tho show everyone has fun. I love to share and show off my woman she enjoys it and I love it especially when it's a BBC she is getting. But I don't think that has to make u a weak pathetic loser unless that's just your thing. My wife isn't BBC only and I'll never not fuck my wife. But I'm fine with my dick being the only white one she gets but she likes to mix it up. She actually tries to act like she just does BBC cuz she knows I like it. But u watch the videos and u can see plain she loves big black cock 
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No the man watching is never being to be in control. Its all about her. The though that you are even talking about it, or discussing here, its clear its about her and her having a good time. Her pleasure is paramount and that makes you give her up and reduce yourself to just watching.
Bootneck71
Couple
I agree. Love how us say he says things thinking he is. But the black alpha is too dominant. Then I am. Then my white husband. That’s the order of power. It’s so natural. Love this aspect just as much as getting fucked all night.
My very first statement is that EVERY interaction is unique unto itself. To the original question, no he does not have control, but he does have overwhelming influence. The scenario where a couple agrees to meet a guy and he brings his friends is one of exactly three things: 1) bullshit (most likely) 2) subterfuge (half of the couple agreed to it already) or 3) It's *******.
Lastly, the absolutely worst experiences come from that 'control' person that tries to be the "move by move" director. It interrupts the flow between the participants leading to killing the enjoyment for them.
Most men suffer this illusion at one time or another...the real truth is she's in control, her pussy. NO man gets in without her permission except No. 3 above. I'd advise you to lighten up on that "let" at least in her presence; you wouldn't want her to challenge that perception.
Lastly, the absolutely worst experiences come from that 'control' person that tries to be the "move by move" director. It interrupts the flow between the participants leading to killing the enjoyment for them.
There watching male is in more control than you would think. Remember he is also the one that is allowing this to happen. Although this may be her or their fantasy, it probably doesn't happen if he doesn't allow it.
Well the move by move thing I get but what I'm saying is if something is suggested or said that I don't agree with, It will not happen we do this for the lust of it. I am and will always be number one no third outside person will ever be in control of me or my wife. That's why I say I am in control I'll shut it down right during a session if I feel disrespected by the guess.
What happens if your wife wants something that you don't?
What happens if you want something she doesn't?
Finally... Someone who makes sense.
If you are watching and something happens that you don't like your wife can say "Stop" or her little magic word. No is No and Stop means Now. Other than that i could be noted as...
A. She is being Raped... Do something about it or
B. Your wife is breaking the rules the 2 of you made in the beginning and she no longers listens to you... So walk out and don't look back.
I stop when my husband is not happy... Even though I'm having sex at the time it is still "Just Sex" I love my husband and would NEVER do ANYTHING that would destroy our marriage. The only reason I do it is because we BOTH ENJOY IT & Haave Fantasies that we wanna live out. I let him (and me) sleep with girls while i watch.
It should never be one sided... If you have jealousy??? Then this life is NOT for You.
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franklyn17
Male
You are a breath of fresh air and a fantastic wife. Your husband is a lucky man. I can’t believe some of the things I read on here but keep in mind a lot of it is pure fantasy. A husband and wife should always put each other first, and take it from someone who’s been married 39 years, if you don’t put each other first the marriage is not working.
