Technically yea, because if you're not comfortable going through with something I'm sure your wife would wouldn't either. Thats why you both get this experience because youve come to an understanding that this would be great for you marriage and love. From the couples I've been with it's the husband's generosity and encouragement which let's the wife have her fun, in most cases without that she's not doing it and we as bulls aren't doing her lol. With that being said though, once we are in bedroom and in agreement of playing, you as a cuck aren't calling any kind of shots. Your wife is mine to do however I please. You sit in corner, shut up and enjoy the show