I always wondered as I’ve had a fantasy about my partner being fucked in front of me. Thing is I know what I’d want to happen and if we discussed together she wanted to put the best show on. Will a bill listen and act accordingly or try to abuse his role? I’m just shy of 8 and quite thick so I’m not wanting to be belittled or be a sissy not that I have any problems with anyone’s sexuality and wants as long. As they are legal. I just want to see my partner sit on a pornstar thick cock on top and ride until they both cum.
Is the watching male ever in control?
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To answer your question, no. You are not in control, you are just there for the show. Sure you may say things that might make you think you're controlling the situation but in reality you're messing up the vibe.
Yeah I figured so, maybe I’m more into sex than the cuckold part. Maybe mor mfm or even mmf if the vibe was right. My partner knows about my thoughts but she cuts me down on uncomfortable reasons but I respect that and don’t pester or bug. We have bbc dildos which she cums on and I’m pretty sure she knows what I’m thinking when she’s got seven inch of girth in her, and I love cleaning her up when she’s cum and she’s always eager for me to do so. I’m happy she will do that much for me if I’m honest and maybe once day we will discuss further.
Well it sounds like you have a decent healthy sex life. Give her time. It took me years to accept the Hotwife LS. Baby steps. If it happens just be cool and let them have fun and enjoy the show.
franklyn17
Male
You can find a bull who will listen to your wants and needs and your wife will be the final decision maker so yes you can have some control of the situation but in the end it’s all about your wife not you or the bull. Don’t believe all the stuff you read on here if your wife loves you she will not want you pushed to the back and if the bull doesn’t like it find another one, your wife is the prize not the bull
Thanks yeah we do she’s pretty fucking amazing actually it’s not a deal breaker if not! Obviously it’s taboo too doesn’t help
Like I feel like if somebody sleeps with my partner it’s gotta be a mutual chemistry that decides it but also I’d like to get along with them too. I do t want to be looked at like I’ll say it as it is less of a man by the bull. We have great sex we are both very happy I just have a fantasy and love sex and the thought of seeing my partner having sex and getting empowered in her sexuality is just a beautiful image for me.
To be fully honest I think it will stay fantasy but time will tell. Tha k you for your reply.
franklyn17
Male
I know what you’re feeling it’s the same between me and my wife it’s my fantasy and not hers. She can’t understand why, she actually thought she wasn’t satisfying me and I needed something else.
Yeah! That’s what happened too. Weird part is I just like to see her satisfied. We have good sex I’m not being big headed either, I love her we have children I adore her. I am there emotionally as well as the rest. I was so shocked when she was so cut up. But that’s a mans mind. We don’t get it coz we are male. I respect her decision, she did say she was maybe open to role play one day with it so it’s little bits here and there.
franklyn17
Male
I know what you mean we are an older couple married 39 years and we’ve been together since High School. I was her first and only until now. She is a great wife and I think she deserves to try something different if doesn’t have to be bbc there are plenty of bwc out there too but she still considers it cheating and doesn’t want to step outside our marriage
Is that because of the cheating title? Or just really into monogamy?
franklyn17
Male
She said she’s happy and content and to her having sex is more intense when you are in love with the person and she will never love another man. She also says she knows me and even though I say it’s what I want I’ll have regrets and so will she
franklyn17
Male
But she is definitely all about monogamy and staying true to her vows
franklyn17
Male
She hasn’t totally said no because she said if this is what I really want she’ll at least think about it but I told her she needs to want to do it for her not for me. I will be fine either way I adore this lady
You can’t say anything to that, maybe try to incorporate some fantasy into your play? Openness for me to a comfortable point we spoke what she was comfortable with and not. The first time I asked her opinion on telling me to clean her when she’s cum she thought I was gay. Asked me outright. But we spoke and now it’s a comfortable part of play. I never tell her what is exactly going on in my mind when I’m doing my duties but she knows from discussions the gist of it so I can only say openly discussing helped get some sexual satisfaction from my fantasy.
She sounds open but your right it’s about her wanting to do it forsing is just asking fir problems I would say.
franklyn17
Male
Yeah we do get adventurous and we definitely talk openly what she seems more open to is another couple I think in her mind if we both step out it’s more acceptable
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small steps is the way I hope it works out well keep me posted!
franklyn17
Male
Same here good luck. I’m pretty sure mine will be restricted to the fantasy though and that’s fine our sex life has actually gotten even better. Here’s something for you to look forward to the rumors are true women get hornier when they are older
Haha thanks bud, just out of curiosity, does she know your on here?
