Craig Rudd
Male
I know it happened..... more for how she feels than the kink.
Is it socially acceptable to be a real man, and still enjoy watching your wife in action?
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“Socially acceptable” is too broad of a term. Maybe community acceptable as in this type of community is more specific and appropriate. And I think the answer to that question truly depends on who you encounter.
I can only speak on my behalf. What does socially acceptable anyway mean on these days...There are many things I cant do. Like I cant fix my own car, I cant build my own house by my own hands, I don't know how to hunt food for myself and for my wife, I am miserable lover and can' t satisfie my wife with my tiny dick. Also, I do believe that my genes are not good so it would be much better that somebody else would inseminate her. However there are many things I do know how to do and Im good with. After all, i dont feel myself less man than any alpha male bull. In some circles Im sure I might be treated just as half a man. But in other circles or cultures things might be diffrent
It's our private life, so you are mixing things up here. My hubby is very much a real man in public
MarriedWhite
Couple
Where social acceptability is concerned we couldn't care less. We do this in our PRIVATE life and only share it with others who are of the same mind. We are close friends with several other white couples who share our sexual likes and dislikes, and they are as firm about personal privacy as we are, so we talk openly and freely with them, which is really very erotic. As long as WE accept it, we being us and the men we met, it's not the business of anyone else. (Forgive the runon sentence! LOL)
A real man makes sure the needs of his loved ones are met. That doesn’t always mean he does it himself. Are you going to homeschool your ******* yourself or are you going to make sure they get an education in a private or public school? Are you going to fix your wife’s car with your own hands or pay to have a mechanic do it? Are you going to build the house your family lives in or buy one?
I actually built our house. I fix our cars. I have a bigger dick than most of the black guys that post here and I know how to use it. My woman gets off on an occasional threesome or gangbang and the taboo aspect of interracial sex really turns her on. I’m always there. I’m an active participant. Helping her get her needs met makes me a real man. Period. You’re an idiot if you think otherwise.
Western feminist legal environment? Are you in Saudi Arabia or are you the fucking Unabomber, living in a shack with girls you’ve abducted chained up in your basement? You’re not a real person. You’re a troll on the internet projecting a persona.
I think there’re is something manly about a man being comfortable and confident with what he enjoys AND being able to take fulfillment from the sexual satisfaction of his wife.
Not too sure what defines are 'real' man, but my hubby has the physical, mental, emotional AND moral strength to be a real man. Yes, he has a small penis, and yes, it doesn't satisfy me sexually but he is perfect in every other way. My ex-husband had a large cock, was an alpha, a soldier in the army but had none of the above mentioned qualities. We get around the sexual incomatabilty by playing with other men/ couples, but you can't order in, humility, integrity, stability etc. Don't buy into this 'real' man thing at all. Just like 'real women' have curves bullshit. No, real women have vaginas, the rest is all bullshit.
I agree. I am a big, muscular and very masculine guy. I just happen to have a small penis and very little sexual stamina. I feel it was a matter of maturity and strength for me to accept these shortcomings and help produce a better sexual lifestyle for my wife and me.
How big is he if I may ask?
Poor guy. I’m slight better off being between 5 and 5.5, but I feel his pain. I’m also uncut which hasn’t helped.
My husband has watched me having sex with two black guys so far. But he's a great lover in bed and well endowed. He's successful in his professional life and many colleagues consider him to be a tough player. And he's good at showing he's got the power to decide. Now your original question is whether both things are socially acceptable? The direct answer would be no. And that's why we keep it carefully secret.
Now, in regards to humiliation that depends on the point of view. He understand the nature and rules of this experience. bulls may see him as weak and getting humiliated by what I do with them. I don't see him that way.
What we do in the lifestyle is for fun. But he keeps control on me and who I meet. The moment any of my 'bulls' does a wrong movement that one is out.
Dan&Debbie
Couple
I totally get the difference, but I was meaning about people on this site.
Sometimes I feel like a fish out of water, on this site. I'm not here to judge or be judged, but I wish the site had more of a balance to it. Mostly what I see is guys trying to out-cuck each other.
Bob: My wife has four regular bulls.
Steve: My wife has 14
Larry: My wife has 136
Martin: My wife almost never let's me fuck her. Maybe once a month if I'm lucky.
Barry: My wife has had me kept in a cage for five years, you're lucky.
Tom: My wife cut my dick off and fed it to the dog. You guys are both lucky.
I read a post on here where the "wife" said she was going to move her husband into the shed out back, and move her black bull into the house. Really? I believe in all my heart that 90% of married guys fantasize about seeing their wives with other men. I just wonder how many guys fantasize about living out in the shed, next to the lawnmower?
Dan&Debbie
Couple
That's the part that bothers me the most.
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