How did your brother in law take the news that his wife was pregnant by a black man? Did they keep and raise the baby? Did they have any children together prior to her going black?
My brother in law thought something was going to happen, but not entirely sure. My sister asked him to get a vasectomy and it did take some convincing on her part. He was NOT like, "Yeah, OK I'm a sheep. I'll do whatever you ask." It took some convincing as he had asked her to consider having another baby before this "black venture."
("Black Venture" is what she called her fun with blk guys. She's odd sometimes. I just called it getting fucked silly and not being able to walk normal the next day. . I actually used "F-Sil time" to Steve when I wanted to tell him I wanted to go see Brian or Bradley)
I'm not sure what my sister was thinking saying things like, "If you have it done, I can take my IUD taken out." Everyone knew Bradley was cumming inside her. I rolled my eyes at that argument.
She actually did get a diaphragm, but I knew and I think he knew that was a farce. She had to put it in every time and use it correctly. If you knew my sis, you'd know using it every time AND putting it in correctly was a bit of a stretch. I'm not even sure if she used it even once.
He did have the vasectomy done....... reluctantly.
Ken, my brother in law, took the news of Kara's blk pregnancy with a level of concern, but not shocked. Ken knew everything going on and Kara had a hard time keeping her underwear on once she had sex with Bradley a couple of times.
Kara was rather shy on meeting Bradley the first time. She did not really chat or engage with him much. Yet, the first time they met up at his house, it was supposed to be just more chatting. Then, they could be alone in the next room once Ken felt comfortable.
Soooooooo............in typical Kara schizophrenic style, she shows up to this met up in rather short dress (for her) with
no panties and wearing thigh highs. My "perfect" little sis NEVER had done this before that I recall. Pandora's box has now been opened......
They did keep the baby(s). Abortion would never be an option for her (or me) even in the case of *******. They had the means and love for more children. So, that wasn't an issue. I "broke the mold" on the stigma of a mixed race baby for a white couple around our friends and family. So, that was no issue.
My sis and her husband did have 3 ******* prior to her getting blk preg. Two were from Ken, and one from her prev marriage.
Thinking about it now, I think this was Kara releasing that repression of sexuality she felt for a long time. I obviously never felt that. I also pointed her in a direction to release that too. If I was totally into girls and not blk guys, I think she might have gone that way. I remember asking her one time
(when we were talking about my Bi relationships) if she wanted to be with another woman. Her stuttering, but telling response was, " I ahh, I ahh, really don't think I should do that"
Hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm