What drives the cuckold lifestyle?

The cuckold lifestyle split off around the 2000s. At first, swinging was real popular story. Then couples in which the man was monogamous stood out. That is, they initially tried to please the woman, but they did not real want sex with other wives. That's how hotwife stood out. Now, no one says that the woman does not watch porn. Only real conservative people believe in story that sex in marriage is only for two.

What has changed in our lives in recent decades?​

The popularity of the cuckold lifestyle has real increased, and you will find no story in any blog that tells about becoming in this life. Porn gave real freedom to married couples, and cuckold videos only confirmed that there is a real place for this lifestyle story. Why should women be shy about becoming a hotwife?

People tend to follow modern fashion, and the cuckold lifestyle is real mainstream. I think porn has helped a lot of couples understand that story of interracial cuckolding is for them. And hotwife finally relaxed and enjoy being married and not just watching porn.

I read in any blog that almost half of the men fantasize about watching story of their wife have sex with another man. This data is consistent with the fact that every year porn-related studies show that interracialcuckold porn is becoming extremely popular and becoming more popular.

Many have begun to talk about wives who get turned on by sharing their real fantasies about men with husbands. And what story do we see now? The big focus on the cuckold lifestyle has led to a shift from focusing on male sexual pleasure (why was porn invented in the first place?) to raising female desires. And this is precisely the goal of the cuckold lifestyle!

Now there are many places where hotwife women can meet a man, having already noted in advance that she is not monogamous.

What drives the cuckold lifestyle?​

I have asked this question many times. I'm leaning towards what's happening due to:

freedom in new world;

lots of amateur interracial porn with hotwife.

People have become more free to express their sexuality. The popularity of interracial cuckold porn has freed people from some narrow-mindedness. This amateur porn showed that there are families who do not want to live traditionally.

I think the concept of the real traditional family has changed. In the interracial cuckold lifestyle, the wife no longer has to suffer from her husband's real small size, or he no longer satisfies her. Amateur interracialcuckold porn helped someone's hotwife to liberate and understand herself. I think the time of porn for the pleasure of only men is over.
I think it drives to confusion to couples that want to explore new things to make it look that the only way for a wife to have sex with men other than the husband is that he may get humiliated,not being allowed to fuck wife,wear a cage!!! ( which for starts is very dangerous for a male's health) clean and lick other's men cum from the pussy...there is what some other couples like us do that is when the wife fucks other men with the aproval of the husband and that excites them both and also makes them love each other more
 
Very good article. Everyone should pay particular attention to the last part of the article.
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“For men and couples considering the issue of cuckolding, it’s important there be honesty, integrity, communication, mutuality and shared values,” advised Ley. “I’ve seen men who try to trick their wives into cuckolding them, and this never, ever ends up well.”


For couples who do decide to move forward, it’s important to take things slow. “The reality of watching your spouse have sex with someone else – or knowing they’re doing it, if you’re not there – is often very different than the fantasy. It can dredge up powerful emotions, so take baby steps and keep talking and communicating,” said Savage. “That said, the rewards can be amazing, according to couples who have successfully folded cuckold play into their relationships.” "
 
It’s funny how thing that turn you on the most in this lifestyle, change with age.
when we first started , just swapping with other young couples on our new housing estate, and finding that We both enjoyed sex with others, then getting the problem of jealousy ( Almost always the Husband not being able to handle it ).
Because of difficulties with people we pretty much saw every day or so, caused problems.
Because We both enjoyed the lifestyle, We broadened our Horizons, and because in our day it was not as easy to find suitable like minded couples, We decided to go to swinger,s clubs which were just starting to become available.
Now My Wife and to some extent myself were in pretty good shape, My Wife loved the gym and swimming and cycling, and I was always complimented, on what a lovely looking woman She was, She was always one of the first to get fucked if We were at a club.
We had by now developed a complete trust in each other to the point, She would go on dates with other Men, and Me with other Woman.
We always thought the exciting bit for us was our Sex together after either one of our sexual adventure , ( At this time only white on white only ).
I had quite a few liaisons with other Wives and Single Girls over the years and was blessed with a reasonable size cock, which seemed to be enjoyed by both my Wife and other Woman.
However my Wife was always getting Hit on, I guess because She was very fit and also had developed a personality that was considered adventurous even by todays standards.
She clearly enjoyed performing sexually for others and never minded being watched, I would also add She always let Her partners come off inside Her and would swallow anyones cum that wanted to shoot it in Her mouth.
By this time in our life at around 48 Her and Me 51, We were invited to a swapping at a large house in Radlett Hertfordshire where regular swap parties were held at the time.
We had a dip in the swimming pool , and had a nice fuck watching others being fucked and fisted , which turned us both on.
We got out and a younger couple asked If I would like to join them in a MMF session in one of the smaller rooms.
My Wife said She would carry on talking to a couple of Woman there, I went off and had a nice time with the young couple.
When I came back to the main area there was quite a large crowd gathered in the room of other couples and single males and females all gathered to watch, two extremely well hung black guys doubly fucking a white woman.
Yes it was my Wife, they all seemed to be enjoying themselves and my Wife was moving against their thrusts and clearly enjoying the sex and people watching Her.
They changed places and both came inside Her leaving a nice wet patch underneath Her.
She cleaned both cocks up with Her mouth, and by this time ( 4.00 am ), We came home.
On the way home She said how much She had enjoyed the BBC experience and that She did not want to go white on white swinginging, any more and would like to have more black guys, If that was ok with me.
I had no problem with this at all.
So we stated searching for black partners for Her, She always asked for a certain endowment as She absolutely loved big cocks.
On one or two occasions We found a young guy who had a fairly large cock come to our house, ( While our ******* we’re at their Grandparents ) She couldn’t get enough of Him, until eventually He returned to France.
We got invited to a gang bang party in Tottenham London,along with 3 other white couples, She was hit on immediately, When the group of guys saw Her tattooed arse and pussy, and then spread Her legs and found Her pierced clit, pretty much all the guys wanted to see it. ( Peircing and tattoos were not in any way as popular as nowdays ).
In fact the guy who done the tattoos and piercing, said to Her She was the first He had ever done ( this was 33 years ago ).
I would add She went and got it done on Her own without me knowing.
She was on the night a very big hit with the guys there, She had 1/1, 1/2, 1/3 and One of the other wife’s fist Her, with everyone watching.
We had quite a few experiences in the Tottenham guys company over the years.
So My Wife I would consider was an experienced slut. ( I loved Her dearly ).
The most significant development in our swinging lifestyle, happened when We went to buy a new car.
The young salesman was a good looking coloured guy, I would add that Wifey was still a fitness fanatic and still a good looking Woman at about 48 years old, He was clearly flirting with Her, and when He went out of the office to print some paperwork, She looked at me and said “Wow I could fuck Him “.
When He came back , I asked where the toilet was and excused myself, leaving them alone for a few minutes.
We signed all the paperwork, and left.
The following Thursday night we ******* some wine and went to bed and had a beautiful loving sex session, after which, She said “ Would you mind if I went out on my own Friday “ , I knew immediately She had arranged to meet the young coloured car salesman.
Friday came and She got Herself Showered and dressed, and as always before leaving me Kissed me and told me She loved me before leaving.
Its funny the feeling you always get when your Wife leaves you , knowing that another man is going to fuck Her, I cannot describe it fully I guess a cross between excitement and fear of Her enjoying it too much and wanting to leave you I guess, It’s very hard to describe, but I am sure other guys in the lifestyle will understand, and perhaps can explain it better.
At around I think She came Home,came upstairs to bed,kissed me and I could taste that cum stained kiss that I had experienced meany times before.
We started to to fuck, that wet sloppy seconds fuck,She started to tell me the details of Her night, I asked if She had enjoyed Herself ( This was always important to me,as I always wanted Her to be honest and say if it was good or not which She always did ).
On this occasion though I felt by Her body language, that something was different.
While being Inside Her I asked the inevitable question ???
How big was He, She kissed me and looked me in the eye and said “ He is the biggest cock I have ever had.
Now that in itself spoke volumes as I know She had had some pretty big cocks since We were first married.
She explained She thought it Was about 10 ins long and very fat.
She said She would like to see Him again if it was OK with me, ( Like I had a choice ).
He became Her regular go to fuck for around 91/2 - 10:years.
He was married with a young family, and had a wife that was a bit conventional.
On the conversations I had with Him He often said to me,She was the sexiest Woman He had ever met, and never said no to any sexual adventures He arranged for Her along with my help.
Sadly as I have said on here before, there is no beating ******* Time, and all good things must come to an end, Now in our mid seventies obviously age calls time on a lot of things.
I would describe our Marriage together as “ A deeply loving wild ride together “.
😜👍
Footnote I have posted on here before, but one of the things about getting old is that you forget dates and times so if anyone reads previous posts by myself or my wife, please forgive us if they do not marry up, however all,of what We have both written on here is true, and as we now have adult grandchildren we are conscious of the possibility of them finding this site.
 
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Nowadays, shame around the topic of sex and porn has decreased. People already understand that there is a lot of diversity around, and that sex story is no longer just a man + woman, and marriage is not just 2 people. I agree that porn is more liberating for people, the information in any blog clarifies the cuckold lifestyle. Now is the time for self-acceptance. This applies not only to the family life of the wife and husband, but also to sexual minorities.
How wonderfully put 👏🥰
 
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