What drives the cuckold lifestyle?

@bobbyhotone2 i could not agree more. I think theres a huge feeling of acceptance and belonging, when a woman holds her cuckold and she finally embraces her sexual freedom and enjoys better equipped Alpha men. And Black men overall just seem to do this job better than white, irrespective of cock size, although that obviously helps.
The humiliation aspect is very interesting, but i think it goes hand in hand with wanting acceptance from all those around us, and our woman feeling proud of us for helping her be her most sexual. And i think when a woman goes Black Only, it is THE most proud a cuckold can feel.
Nice to know that you agree with me. I think it is clear that the happiest wives are married white slut wives that enjoy being fucked by black men, often knowingly used as a fuck toy and cum dump by black men; and their lucky white cuckold husbands make sure their slut wives know that they love them very much and enthusiastically support their desire to be sluts for black men and that they are proud of their slut wives. Since we want our wives to have the best sex, we help our white wife to enjoy being fucked by Alpha black men.
Having a Black Cock Only white wife does make cuckolds like you and I feel the most proud except for having a Black Cock Only Slut Wife that has had a black man's baby fucked into her unprotected married white cunt and womb in front of her lucky white cuckold husband.
 
I picked this up and am a few chapters in. So far it's really good. Study on cuckolding throughout history and interviews with some modern people engaged in the lifestyle written by a psychologist.
 
I agree with you.
I read a story in which the author stated that natural selection operates in all species, including humans. The alpha males fuck and breed the females. The other males do not get to fuck the females but do support their needs for food and whatever else they need. This is to insure the propagation of the species, including the human species. So, it is a normal part of nature that the inferior males, like you and I, are cuckolds and do not get to fuck the females. The Alpha males insure the inferior males do not fuck and breed the females through intimidation and fighting if necessary. Human culture has modified natural selection so that even inferior males can fuck and breed females.
So, cuckolds, like you and I, have overcome our culture's conditioning that we should act like Alpha males, even though we know we are inferior males. We learn to accept that it is normal and right for Alpha males to fuck and breed our wives, since it helps to insure the propagation of our species. We also like being a cuckold because we no longer need to pretend to be something we know we aren't, an Alpha male.
Maybe this is where our enjoyment of humiliation fits in. We enjoy being sexually humiliated, not all humiliation, because it is right and natural for us to to enjoy watching the Alpha males fuck and breed our wives. We are living our lives the way nature intended us to. All of the other inferior males that do not want the Alpha males to fuck and breed their wives, are the ones that are living their lives in a manner that is not the way that nature intended. We felt humiliation, rather than the pride we should feel when Alpha males fuck our wives, due to our cultural conditioning as we grew up.
I said something like this in a different thread.

"Correct. These are the the first steps to open cuckoldry. Explicit sexual presentation to attract fit, attractive, dominant men at the blatant expense of the beta men around them or their beta partners. This is natural though. Beta men are naturally cooperative. Society is slowly being deprogrammed of its vestigial ways. People just need to realize that giving dominant men unfettered sexual access to all women is mutually beneficial for everyone."
 
the following are conversations I have had with Suzi which I think shed some light on guys liking to watch their wives fuck other guys, especially black guys...

Conversations with Suzi soon after started dating…
I had met Suzi st the restaurant and fish market where she was working. She was working there and also translating Thai for the courts, teaching French at Berlitz and modeling (she was a beautiful girl and was on the cover of a magazine when we met). Suzi was 18 1/2 when we met and had only graduated from high school (at 17) the year before. I ate lunch there a lot and occasionally we talked, She almost always wore mini skirts with no panties (I could see her pussy sometimes when she leaned over) and tops with no bra that showed off her small tits (at that time). One day she called on her day off and invited me to come have lunch with her, I had already eaten but met her and had a cup of coffee while she ate, I took her home and fucked her that afternoon and evening, I began fucking her regularly from that point on, sometimes several times a day. In facf, after just a few days she moved in with me. She was such an easy fuck after a few months I asked her how many other guys she had fucked. This is the conversation -
Me: How many guys have you fucked?
Suzi: I don’t know; I can’t remember them all.
Me: Give me an approximate number.
Suzi: I don’t remember them all, some I don’t even know their name.
Me: You don’t even know the names of some of the guys you fucked?
Suzi: There are too many to remember them all. What do you mean? Do you mean how many I just fucked or how many just sucked or those I sucked and fucked?
Me: I was talking about fucking but tell me how many you fucked and how many you sucked and how many you sucked and fucked.
Suzi: I don’t know. I can’t remember all of them now. It was probably about 25 to 35 that I fucked, maybe a little more. I don’t remember how many I sucked, maybe 40 guys. I can’t remember all of them. I usually sucked and fucked a guy when I went out with him somewhere nice, but I didn’t fuck everybody I want out with. Sometimes I just sucked them. I probably fucked between 25 or 35 guys. I don’t remember how many guys I sucked. Most of the guys I fucked I also sucked and there were some I sucked if I didn’t fuck them.

Me: How old were you when you first fucked?
Suzi: I think I was 17 or maybe 18. I fucked a guy I was giving French lessons to. I was still in high school but almost graduated. I fucked him on and off but we didn’t go steady. I was fucking other guys, too, not just him.

Me: Out of curiosity how come you never suck my cock? I’ve been eating your pussy for a couple of months now but you never suck my cock.
Suzi: I used to suck cock, but I don’t suck cock anymore.
Me: When did you give up sucking cock?
Suzi: A couple of months ago.
Me: Thats when we first went out.
Suzi: Yes, about then.
Me: So you sucked everybody else’s cock you went out with but not mine.
Suzi: I sucked a lot of cocks. I used to suck cock, but I don’t want to suck cock now. I don’t really like it so I don’t suck cock now.
Me: Did you always fuck a guy or suck his cock when you went out?
Suzi: Most of the time I fucked him and usually sucked him before I fucked him. There were a few guys I went out with who I didn’t fuck. I didn’t fuck every guy I went out with. Usually if I didn’t fuck a guy, I sat least let him feel me off and gave them a blow job.

Me; Tell me about some of the guys you fucked.
Suzi: I can’t remember them all. Some I don’t even remember now. I can remember about 20 or 30 guys but can’t remember all of their names and there are some guys I can’t remember at all now. Most of them I just fucked once and never saw them again.
Me: Tell me about those you can remember.
Suzi: Well, there was the first guy. I fucked him on and off for several months. Then there was a pilot. I fucked him every time he came thru town. He would call me when he was going to be in town and I would meet him at the airport. We would fuck until he had to leave again. Actually, there were several pilots I fucked. Maybe 5 or 6 and some students learning to be pilots, too, I like fucking pilots. And there was a German guy with a huge cock but I only fucked him a few times. There was this guy who I met at a bar and I fucked him a few minutes later in his car. I think I just fucked him that one time. Then there was the married guy who I just fucked a few times. He would take me out to eat and then we would go back to his place and fuck. Actually, there was another married guy I fucked, but I only fucked him a few times. Maybe there was another married guy but he was separated at the time. We stopped fucking when he went back to his wife. There was the guy I was fucking when we met. Sometimes tho he couldn’t always get it up, I finally stopped fucking him when I went out with you. Then there were two or three guys who I was fucking, and I think probably gave me the STD but I didn’t fuck them after that and am not even sure which one gave me the STD. There was this guy in New Orleans who I met at Cafe du Monde. He took me to his home that night we met and I fucked him during my visit to New Orleans. I fucked him the whole time I was there but haven’t fucked him since. There was a guy who picked me up at Caravan of Dreams. I met him and he asked me if I wanted to leave. I was playing with his cock after leaving Caravan of Dreams and we were so horny we pulled off the side of the road and fucked in the car before we got to his home and fucked some more. I can’t remember all of the guys I fucked. Some I only just met or picked up at a bar. I can’t even remember some of their names. Some I never even got their names; we just fucked. Whenever I had anything to ******* I wanted to fuck.

Me; What is the biggest guy you fucked and sucked?
Suzi: It was the German guy. He was really big, probably 9 or 10 inches and thick. He had the biggest cock. I like big, thick cocks. I loved fucking him.

Me: What was the quickest guy you ever fucked after meeting him?
Suzi: A guy I picked up at a bar. About 5 minutes after I met this guy in a bar I left with him and we fucked a few minutes later in his car. Total time from saying hello to this guy until we were fucking in his car was probably just 5 minutes. There were a few quick fucks like that on guys who picked me up at a bar. If the bar was closing and I had had something to ******* I usually went with whoever asked me to leave with them and fucked them. Drinking makes me horny.

Me: How did you get you STD? Who was it?
Suzi: I don’t know; it could have been any number of guys. I had fucked several guys between when I didn’t have it and when I noticed I had it. I think it was one of 3 or 4 or maybe 5 guys who must have given it go me but I don’t know which one. Maybe even 6 or 7 guys I fucked during the time I first noticed the STD. I am not sure which guy gave it to me.

Me: Tell me about more guys you fucked. So far, you have only told me about a dozen or so.
Suzi: No, I am not going to tell you about any more of the guys I fucked. You just get jealous and mad at me and call me a slut when I tell you about them.
Me: You are a slut. Any girl who began fucking when she was 18 and admits to already fucking 25 to 35 guys, probably more is a slut. A girl who has sucked so many guys she can’t even remember who they are or how many of them she sucked is a slut. And 25 to 35 is how many guys you admit to fucking; God knows how many there actually were. You admit to fucking a guy less than 5 minutes after meeting him. Only a slut does that. You admit to picking up guys at bars and fucking them. You admit to routinely putting out on your first date. You admit to meeting a guy at Caravan of Dreams then letting him pick you up, then pull the car over and fuck you in the car on the shoulder of the road. You admit to fucking married men, You admit going to New Orleans, meeting a guy at Cafe du Monde then fucking him all week. You admit to getting a STD and not knowing who gave it to you, that it could have been any number of guys who gave you the STD. You said you fucked several pilots, that you met them at parties and always fucked one after the party.

Me: You ever fuck a black guy?
Suzi: No, I don’t know why I haven’t fucked a black guy, but I never did. I guess no black guy ever asked me. I am attracted to black guys, there are some good looking ones who I would have fucked, but none has ever asked me. If a black guy is cute I wouldn’t have a problem fucking a black guy. I have heard they have big cocks so I think I would like fucking black guys.

Suzi lost her job at the restaurant (she was so busy fucking me all the time she couldn’t get up to make it to work). She was working as a cocktail waitress at a bar and came home one day and told me about running into a married guy she used to fuck -
Suzi: I ran into a guy at the bar (where she was working) I used to fuck.
Me: Who was he?
Suzi: He was a married guy who took me to dinner a few times so I fucked him when he took me to his place after. I don’t think I fucked him many times after that. We only went out a few times so I only fucked him a few times.

Suzi: I like to fuck pilots. There was one pilot who whenever he would come thru town he would give me a call and I would drive out to the hotel at the airport where he was staying and fuck him until he had to leave for his next flight. I fucked him every time he came thru town.

Suzi: Will you get me a boob job?
Me; Sure, why do you want a boob job?
Suzi: I want to attract guys. Guys like big boobs and I want to have big boobs and have them look at me and want to fuck me.
Me: If I get you a boob job will you show them off for me and let guys see your new big boobs?
Suzi: Yes I will like showing them off.
Me: And always go without panties and wear micro mini skirts when we go out?
Suzi: I do that anyway.
Me: Not always
Suzi: OK, if you get me a boob job I will go without panties whenever we go out and show off my tits and pussy to other guys for you.
Suzi: Why do you like me to show off my pussy and tits to other guys?
Me: It turns me on. I like it when all the other guys look at you and want to fuck you.
Suzi: OK, I will show my pussy and tits to guys if you get me a boob job.

A conversation we had much later when I began to want to watch Suzi fuck black men…
Me: You ever want to fuck black guys?
Suzi: Sometimes, They have big cocks and I like big cocks. I think I would like it, lots of girls do. Many white girls love black cock and some Asian girls do, too. I have some friends who fuck black guys. My aunt in Switzerland has a black boyfriend and some of my cousins in California fuck black guys. My sister used to date a black guy. She went with a black guy for about 6 months and she said she loved having sex with him. I have friends who have fucked black guys and they say they like it, but I worry how it might affect us, our relationship. I wouldn’t want to put our relationship at risk.
Me: What do you mean?
Suzi: I might like it too much and want it all the time. I may not want you any more; I might just want black cock. What if I love it and want black cock all the time? What will you do then?

Me: If I take you to the Caribbean will you fuck some black guys there for me?
Suzi: Yes I will fuck some black guys for you if you take me to the Caribbean. I want to fuck a black guy on vacation, not here for my first time. I want it to be spontaneous when I fuck a black guy, not something set up by you. I want it to just happen vs planning it out. A vacation with nothing else going on would be the ideal time for me to fuck my first black guy.
Me: So you promise you will fuck a black guy(s) if I take you to Jamaica?
Suzi: Yes, I promise. I will fuck some black guys for you if you take me to Jamaica.
Did you get your boob job how big and did you get black fucked in.Jamiaca
 
After being married 30 years and my husband and I have been swinging. My husband understands I very much like to fuck and I really get off being fucked by another man. he also knows I only want you have a black cock in my pussy
 

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You probably already know that the size of a man's cock is not the most important thing to most women.
One evening I asked my wife "not counting me, who were your favorite guys in bed". She told me the two I expected her to say. Then I asked her "who's the biggest guys you've been to bed with". She then said the same two guys. So I said to her "if size isn't important, why is it your two favorite guys, are the two biggest guys". She was very surprised because she had never thought of it like that before. I think she realized she was a bit of a size queen after that.
 

What drives the cuckold lifestyle?​

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My wife first cuckolded me in 1978. So this has been a thing for a long time, but I believe a lot more women do it these days to show they aren't racist. What better way for a woman to show she isn't racist than to fuck a Black Man, and for a cuckold to approve of his wife's affairs with a Black Man. (Although the cuck should have no say in who his wife fucks.)
 
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