Maybe there's just a cultural difference between Argentina and the US, but No fucking way I would let a guy treat me like this.
The hair, the arms behind the back...........nope. I'll strip for you, do a little dance, but you start pulling my hair and get my arm behind my back and I'm out of there.
A lot of women in the moment enjoy totally submitting to male physical power. Fact.
I know some do like it that way. I don't know what "a lot" is in this context. Certainly not a majority. Maybe do a poll!!!
I have had a close call and that "totally submitting" is just so unexciting to me.