I quite agree. Much of it is of course fantasy. But another way of thinking of it is as an ideal. Maybe impractical and riddled with anomalies which cannot be easily resolved. But yet.... huge steps have been made in the last 40 years, that is unquestionable.
So where can we push further? It’s surely inevitable that the number of interracial relationships will carry on increasing. Including those between the unmarried, marriages between the races, and those relationships we here are more involved in- those involving cuckoldry. The first two will just happen anyway. But how do we see interracial cuckoldry developing?
I see it like this: the interest in it will carry on growing. More and more will be tempted to try it, and we will start to see more references to it as a phenomenon. Gradually it becomes discussed in mainstream media, not as a one off semi humourous treatment of bizarre behaviour as it is occasionally now, but as something a lot of very ordinary people are finding to be a lifestyle they enjoy. More and more couples ‘ come out’ and don’t feel ashamed . The critical point will be when it becomes possible for ordinary people to be open about it. For a teacher say, to be able to refer to both her husband and her boyfriend quite naturally without people being shocked and wanting her sacked! And for it to be a natural assumption that the boyfriend will likely be black.
Its not impossible. A generation ago a lesbian woman could not have openly talked about her wife, and accompanied her to social and professional gatherings. I don’t think its a completely unrealistic fantasy to imagine groups of female friends being able to share gossip about each others bulls, as they do about every other aspect of their lives! In other words it becomes normalised as a fact of social life. Not maybe for the majority, but for a large minority.
I think the driver is something different.
Increasingly Birth Control is becoming an accepted part of a womans life. This social change occurred in my parents generation, and now, the current generation regards it as taking a vitamin pill or something else equally mundane.
With being protected from pregnancy, an increasing amount of women are not automatically shunning the idea of an affair. After all, men have never been restricted by this concern, and they've been having fun while we were still living in caves, why shouldn't we?
Looking at the greater picture, everyone in this forum is looking at affairs as a 'Black/White' thing. But there are an equal number of websites out there that are 'White/White,' 'LTR' or 'Bi/Bi' situations, not involving Blacks at all, or at least being involved with a Black guy isn't the primary motivator.
Same with cuckoldry. This site relishes in the idea of the submissive white male being intimidated by the superior black male. Nothing could be further from the truth. Of the percentile of men who share their wives with Black guys, a much smaller percentile is interested in being humiliated. That is fact, all you need to do is look around the various Stag/Vixen threads to see how many women actually prefer that sort of arrangement.
So, when you boil it all down, of all the women who are in to shared experiences, a fraction of them are only interested in Black/White situations. Of those, only a fraction are interested in Submissive White Male/Superior Black Male situations. But there are folks on this site who fantasize about it to the extent that they may even start to believe it's just around the corner.
Let me assure you, that corner is so far away that no one will see it in their lifetimes.