I have developed feelings for several men that I have seen regularly I think it happens
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Sounds like our situation I always tell him later as well
It's the fantasy! She doesn't really want you but she wants the excitement of cheating of living dangerously, sometimes husband's set it up because of the thrill, a husband will want you to Date his wife for his thrill she wants you alone for her thrill , the drama is the problem so I understand your predicament. As a bull you have to please both partners! My advice would be "you don't need the drama and bad karma"
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Sounds like you're a special guy. Those gals are looking to either cuckold their husband, hubs usually knows. Or they were never happy in there marriage.
Fell hard for mine and I'm now his.
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All humans are emotional
the idea that you can just turn them off is nonsense
This right here
if this isn't about friendship and affection I DON'T WANT IT. Find good people and stop letting bad yt people use you! There is a difference! For instance, stop this "Bull" ish! We're not animals
every time we follow their imagination we end up subhuman or animalistic or primal at best. Really look at this fetish, if they not interested in being yo friend chances are they just use black men on a consistent basis
probably don't even remember your name
All humans are emotional
Well saidThis right here
We agree. My wife had feelings for her lover long before we married, but he was married and none of us wanted to break up marriages. We all agreed on that point. We knew her lover and his wife and were all friends. My wife tearfully shared with me that she had "caught feelings for him" after a 4 day business trip when they stayed together. Like I didn't know..... but that only made it hotter for me. And she was always clear that she needed "a connection" to a man if she was going to sleep with him on a regular basis and have him in our marital bed. Travel with him, etc. She made it all work and the relationship went over ten years, during which all of us (including his wife) experienced what we we wanted. It only ended when her lover's wife grew uncomfortable after we thought my wife was pregnant.
From one Australian couple to another... can we borrow your bull at some point?
You are handling it properly. Never cross that line. You are here to add to their marriage not fix a broken one.
This is the gold standard for any third. It was very well written by a man of experience. So many on here have no idea what they are doing.Yep numerous times! As a Bull a real Bull YOU SHUT THAT ******* DOWN IMMEDIATELY!!!
.A real Bull understands that he is an honored guest who has been invited into someones relationship and that his first responsibility is: to be a friend to the both parties, respect both parties, earn and uphold the trust they give you, and do your part as the Bull to help them fulfill their fantasies!
.Your second responsibility is to provide the best possible experience and leave that woman well satisfied beyond their expectations and leave her wanting more! Much more!
.The number one golden rule of swinging is "No cheating"! There is absolutely no reason to steal from a man who is already openly sharing his treasure with you!
Now here's my thing and why I have experienced this numerous times. When I fuck I try to be her best partner ever. Like those old arcade games where you have 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place where you get to input your initials in the game. When I fuck I'm aiming for that 1st place in her mind. I'm deliberately trying to knock that guy out of the first slot and take his place so that's the energy and effort that I'm putting forth. Yes it works but it will also have some women losing focus and in their feelings.
Next thing you know you are fucking them and they are whispering how they are falling in love with you. I immediately tell them "Stop"! "Don't do it"! Most of them were able to pull it together and we continued having fun and some decided to stop seeing each other altogether and that's fine too!
Just an example of how creeping behind hubby's back can go I had a hispanic couple and the wife started creeping with a Bull behind her hubby's back. Since she was regularly only seeing me and the other guy when her hubby caught on to her cheating for some reason he thought it was with me. He came to my house late at night and called me to come outside and he didn't sound happy. When I met him out in the street this guy said "man to man, be honest, are you seeing my wife behind my back"? I told him that I wouldn't do that to him because of respect for him and his wife, and that there is no need to sneak around with her either! Then he just said "OK then it's the other guy then" and he got in his car and left! I'm telling you if I had been cheating with his wife and said yes we would have been out on the street trading punches!
When I am asked by someone's wife or girlfriend if I would I see them in secret behind their mans back I say No! If a woman starts expressing feelings for me during our play time or any other time I tell them to stop️ that I cannot accept that from them and that I am not going to violate the trust of her man. See as a Bull you may have to think straight for the both of you if she starts slipping emotionally then you are the last line of defense!
Hard to tell what can happen between a woman and a man who fucks her the way she needs !
Not easy to follow the rules, even if they seem fair
yes, a wif e can fall in love with her Black Lover, even though it was not on her agenda
Not easy to follow the rules, even if they seem fair
yes, a wif e can fall in love with her Black Lover, even though it was not on her agenda
That's because many of the men that are used as Bulls, or who are getting lucky to get laid by lifestyle women, are not actual lifestyle Bulls!
If a couple meets a guy while they are out at clubbing and bring that guy home or to a hotel for fun that guy is likely not going to be an actual lifestyle Bull. Even if he happens to go along and participate with the couple's fantasy of a threesome or hubby watching his wife get fucked by this strange guy from the club the guy might find the whole idea of hubby being present while he's fucking totally weird! The only reason why he is participating and tolerating that whole situation is just to get laid!
This is why you have guys coming on to a platform like this and start talking about feeling used when they are running around pounding peoples holes!
FAKE PROFILE!!
