That is the best definition for both that I have heard ever. Thanks
Hotwife may describe some of us better
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I think sometimes we do put way too much emphasis on labeling people and things. I would consider myself to be a hotwife and say my husband and I have an open marriage because he is not a cuckold in my mind and I don't degrade him and him and I still have sex. There are some people though that tell me simply by him knowing I am having sex with black men and allowing it that he is a cuckold. I guess the best way to say it is we are just us and I am not sure one specific label fits.
Yep, that's what is happening to us.
And you are so fine to look at and enjoy your wild ways .
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I can’t wait for my husband to see this new subject forum. This is what I think we have been needing to see. As soon as he gets home, and I get home, we are going to start reading together all the threads here. A most excellent idea put into use by the owners and staff of this site. Congratulations on a great idea come to fruition! I 
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I think what this forum recognizes is that people may have different motives for being here. Yes, there are a lot of couples with a D/s dynamic who engage with BBC bulls, but there are plenty of others where that's not the case.
Never heard of a "queenofspades movement". What would that be? *wondering*
And who is that "founding member" you are referring to? Can you provide us with a name, please?
For the latter sentence... agreed. - Just ask Sheryl and Greg.
In a newer modern term that can simply and rightously be described as "fake news."
The "Queen of Spades" symbol was invented somewhere around 2003, before Sheryl and Greg began their pioneer work, selling the temporary tattoos. Gorgeous @Greg69Sheryl, could you please correct or verify this statement? Thx.
The term "Hotwife" was coined around 1998 by an erotic writer wrongly purporting to be a scientist with a university degree, on the shortly - only about two years - after closed domain theinternetcollege.net. The content of that website, a twenty-something-chapter manuscript, was remarkably titled "The Hotwife Phenomena." It successfully introduced terms like "hotwife" and "cuckold husband" to the context of marriage and the sexual lifestyles.
However, the main theme seemed to be women`s sexual liberation within the context of marriage with the monogamous husbands` approval and support. In it`s first version there wasn`t even a chapter included dealing with the (unnecessary, yet possible) "interracial" aspect of "hotwifing", but it was added later as a sidenote.
Starting from 2001, after that domain had no longer been available, its content was partly "moved" to and distributed by different other sources, some of which are still online and available today. Those kept different pieces each, of a meanwhile multiple times rewritten and updated manuscript. Some of the changes include the mention of the term "bull" for a hotwife`s lover, the expansion of the "interracial" portion of the manuscript, and, most recently, the introduction of the term "stag" for a "cuckold" who takes on a more dominant role.
Bits and pieces you can find on a wordpress blog by "cuckoldcouple", http://www.hotwifeletters.com/, and on http://www.hotwifecompendium.com/, for instance.
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I would agree that a hotwife title describes me better than calling my husband a cuck.
Can't agree more. My husband is totally not into any form of humiliation - at all! We have regular, passionate and intense sex, never 'cut off' or ignored. That being said, he really does love seeing me with my Black Bull and this has become an integral part of our relationship.
However, if other couples enjoy the humiliation aspect, or embrace the concept of male chastity, that's great! Whatever works for them, just not our particular cup of tea - we never judge!
some really good posts on here , my husband and I have a fantastic intense loving sex life , married 11 years he is my soul mate , I would never consider having a relationship out side our marriage with out us both experiencing new partners together , whether in a MFF or MMF as long as its respectful and we play together I have always been bi curious my husband is most definitely heterosexual straight but really relaxing and charming , he knows exactly how to bring me to the point of ******* and loves experimenting . sometimes it drives me crazy bringing me to the point ...then teasing ... I always get my own back , we are not in to cuckolding or humiliation but its cool if its other peoples cup of tea just not for us . We were watching a porn movie one night & I was really turned on watching two girls together with a guy it got me really worked up I really wanted to experiment but also wanted to watch my husband teasing another girl, bringing her to the point of orgasm . so I decided to surprise him on a visit to Sochi , we visited a gentleman's club and I told him it was going to be his birthday surprise to have another girl join us . The girls were amazing , and we both really enjoyed the experience although it was over too quickly , I was really turned on watching him fuck another girl and I loved the experience touching another girl , although I don't think she was really bi , I was longing to make love passionately away from the night club. Then he said it was only fair that I should experience having a guy join us , we both were turned on by interracial porn . so we joined a few swinging sites and eventually after along time communicated with a really cool black guy , We were chatting over Skype when suddenly my husband raised my top and started to massage my nipples , the guy got very aroused and took his cock out , he was well endowed it was very erotic watching this stranger stroking his cock while my husband made me all hot and horny ........
so we arranged to meet , its always a challenge because we have ******* , so had to make arrangements to find baby sitters and the guy was a fair distance away , My husband had bought me some really sexy high heel shoes and sexy stockings , it was a real turn on watching this guy get undressed with my husband with both their cocks standing to attention . I decided to get my own back so performed a sexy strip in front of them . We had agreed before hand to make a movie and take some photos . My husband told me he was really turned on watching this guy rub his cock around my pussy lips .. with me groaning in *******. , I lost count how many orgasms I had over the weekend , but it was a fantastic experience.
So that was our two encounters so far , now we would both love to meet a sexy interracial couple for a foursome , I would really love to experience a petite bi girl someone like an Ivana Sugar look alike and another black guy , ideally for a week end break , where we could have sex outside as well . With my husbands work commitments overseas now that's going to be around October ...we will keep searching thanks
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@Idowives0763 is really doing a great service, if nothing else but by seriously and calmly addressing aspects of "this thing of ours" and breaking it down with respect and recognition of humanity's varied sexual appetites.
@Idowives0763 is really doing a great service, if nothing else but by seriously and calmly addressing aspects of "this thing of ours" and breaking it down with respect and recognition of humanity's varied sexual appetites.
Thank you for the kind words. It's always nice to be appreciated.
You are!
