My wife being with a black man was never a fantasy of mine, but I think it was for my wife. It took only a little prodding on the part of one of her friends and she started hooking up with a black boyfriend after we were only married for a year. I even recall a conversation between my wife and her mom that I wasn't supposed to hear where her mom told her how wrong she thought it was for a white woman to be with a black man. My wife snapped back at her mom and told her that it not only wasn't wrong but it was good and perfectly natural. Weeks later my wife was pregnant by the black boyfriend and her mom began to embrace an interracial world.