Got some questions but I realize now I'm kinda into this type of Fantasy

I noticed that everyone has their own rules that apply to them and their Partner. I Am somewhat interested/Turned On by this. My Wife and I have talked a lot about Fantasies at the beginning my top one is a threesome With FFM I would like her to start out with other Female Making out in a Twosome she said she wants about 30 min's with her and other woman then she would cue me in to join them. We also talked bout other Fantasy's like swinging, role-playing, dominant/Submissive, orgy's/group sex, also the Stranger fantasy.
At first she wasn't keen on MFM Threesome, not until she watched the movie Savage's then she said if we did a MFM Threesome it had to be like that way where the one guy was rough not too rough A good kinda way and the other guy was loving easy & passionately slowly stroking easy n soft.
So I wanted her to feel very comfortable so I told her she could be in Charge of our Fantasy list and for all Fantasy's she be in charge and allowed to set all the rules. Her eyes lit up and she was thrilled about that. At the beginning She told me that the FFM threesome the only rule was that I could never penetrate other Female. (For she was not open to that but everything oral was good. After talking about MFM 3-some later we add that to our list however I waited to hear the rules on that one she said the guy can only penetrate her in one position doggy style and she wanted me to start out to calm her nerves after 5-10 min's new guy come join in. After several weeks like almost 2 months I told her hey let's write down all the rules for 3somes, swinging, & dominant/submissive. I first started with FFM the rule still applied no penetration at all, Everything oral and toys, I told her I totally respect that and I loved her unconditionally and being inside her sugar walls was my ultimate fantasy!! (Then we went over Swinging, dominant/submissive, then roleplaying & Stranger Fantasy. I saved the MFM Threesome last because at this time we were pretty hot then getting her really hot with me mentioning the movie Savage's and I told her I'm okay with another guy as a threesome because when i thought about it it was only fair of me since I was getting the FFM Threesome first. I even told her I replayed it in my head with a faceless guy. So the rules she said now was the other guy is allowed penetration only 2 sex positions maybe 3 depending on her mood (1) doggy style, (2) Spooning because we hardly only twice the 2 years we been together and (3) maybe if she was getting into it She would get on top of him and ride him and reverse cowgirl style and for Kissing just real lightly no Moderate or Heavy Passionate Kissing towards the other guy that was for me. I was so surprised when she allowed a few more positions and light kisses but I played it so cool and okay that sounds good and fair. Last part was a total shock I mentioned I know you in the FFM 3-some you know I want to watch you make out with old girl and you said u want the Twosome to Last 30 min's so knowing that do you want One on one with other guy for 30 min's too she kinda quickly said no only 10-15 min's and for me to join in. I said that's cool but I don't mind if you want 20-30 min's because I don't mind watching that long because you know I like watching you especially with the other female.
She continued to say I know baby then I said how about this: what if i give you a signal of me coming in at the 12 minute mark and if you still want more time signal me back like i'm thirsty baby need my dr. Pepper then I know I'll go get it might take me 7-8 min's which means 20 minute mark knowing you have 10 more minutes and just tell me Hey Baby come join in and I will just wait for you to say so and not say anything bout the time but wait for your voice to say join us.
Here is my question I definitely want to see her with another man. I also would love to watch her get pleasures from another man besides Me. So let me say this if 35-40 min's go by and she doesn't Tell me to join in (she forgets about the time (should I join in after 40-45 min's allowing the extra 15 minute cushion //or// she might remember Hey Baby get over here now and join us // or// should I let them go at it until him/her slow down or be respectful letting him finish With her and then come in after he leaves then it's just me and her finishing up. (And if she ask where we're you and i politely say you Never signaled me in Baby? She says sorry baby I forgot)
I know I have a few Q's in there my apologies. Understand this we can have a bull or another Guy playing the part but the Bull must be a gentle lover and patient and not like BIG or HUGE!! This is what my wife said and wants! For the guy he must be at least 5" but no more than 6½" in length, Girth can be Average to kinda thick but no more than 5½ ( obviously if it's like almost 5¾" that's not a deal breaker.
My Q? Does this count as Cuckolding I want to see my wife get pleasures and I wanna watch my wife enjoy having another man inside her and like being connected to another man while he fills her up and I watch her & masturbate/ rubbing it very slowly. Another reason is I want to see if another man can please her the way I do and she also wants to know too. We also talked about our favorite positions Being off limits. But I Wonder in the heat of the moment would she allowed the guy to do her any way he wants especially if she's having an orgasm and he puts her in one of our favorite position would she say no or will she like it so much and overlook that because she will be in the Zone (concentrating on how big this orgasm might be and continue to keep getting into it? I know she said light kissing not passionately kissing him. She loves to kiss passionate when she is about to have a good orgasm she will sticker tongue into my mouth to Pace herself. So if I see one of these happening (her/him in our favorite 2 positions (missionary & Wheelbarrow) or ( passionately kissing moderate/heavy) or BOTH. Should I mention it after he leaves and say lightly & innocently well there went that rule or both. (Teasing her but letting her know it's Cool baby I definitely understand. //Or//. Should I not say anything to her about it (act like no big deal/Pretend to think it wasn't a rule //or// don't say nothing unless she mentions it and says Baby I know one or both of our rules got broken. I respond saying no problem I completely understand and hey guess what you can MAKE or Change the rules anytime! So do you think it's best to allow that just in case it happens again ( letting her know if she really enjoyed another man doing her in our 2 favorite positions it's Cool with me I support you % or she wants Heavy Passionate Kissing to not be off limits so she doesn't have to worry about it and sometimes she might Treat the guy With her passionate kisses because he deserves it.
 
We are New would like input I only want one rule couple of safety precautions and She has extra's I told her I support her I know some of her Rules Will be broken but I can't tell her you Know what I mean?
I Told her whatever she wants in our Love making/Sex life She has % control. Means she knows what Fantasies I like and what she likes. So What ever Fantasy she wants I will let her do!! She has total control. I have one 1 Say-So better use it wisely
 
Yet another fake profile, unless you're gullible enough to believe the poster is someone for whom english is not his first language, plus he is clueless about the rules pertaining to constructing a proper sentence, grammar and punctuation.

This is fake/BS to the max.

It's a pity he chose this section of B2W to taint with his imaginary scenario and fabrication.
 
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Plus we are still getting it together.
And last part of it was me just fant
Yet another fake profile, unless you're gullible enough to believe the poster is someone for whom english is not his first language, plus he is clueless about the rules pertaining to constructing a proper sentence, grammar and punctuation.

This is fake/BS to the max.

It's a pity he chose this section of B2W to taint with his imaginary scenario and fabrication.

WOW REALLY!!! ARE YOU ALL ABOUT ENGLISH WRITING SKILLS, PROPER GRAMMER, AND PUNCTUATION. LISTEN ALL I WAS ASKING IS FOR INPUT, MAYBE GET SOME QUESTIONS ANSWERED, AND SOMETIMES ON A PHONE I HIT A WRONG LETTER OR SYMBOL EXCUSE ME BUT THIS IS A SITE TO TALK OR COMMUNICATE. I DIDN'T KNOW I WAS GETTIN GRADED FOR MY ENGLISH POST OR ASSIGNMENT TO COVER YOUR OWN ANSWERS BECAUSE YOU HAVE INCONSIDERATE >>> B. BROWN (MALE) . DON'T CRITICIZE BE RESPECTFUL, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR OUT IN PUBLIC OPEN THE DOOR FOR YOUR ELDERS, WOMEN AND DON'T LAUGH AT OTHERS WHO ARE DIFFERENT. ONE LAST THING BE MORE COURTEOUS TO OTHERS WHILE HAVING RESPECT FOR VETERANS AND THE ACTIVE MILITARY.

So let's Review the following message he was getting through to you. (I'm going to help you on this one because I'm a gentleman)

1. Don't be Judgemental
2. Try not to criticize others without knowing who they are, where they come, and maybe the serve their Country (USA) a veteran.
3. Be RespectfuI to your elders, all females, young *******, veterans, all military personnel.

Ask yourself what should you have done differently?

#1 for starter's hey I say your post I understand your frustrations, however not to sound rude or disrespectful. I think you might read your post again because I'm not sure what you like to know and plus some of it is like messed up or left something out.

OR

I saw your post I'm not quite sure what your wanting to know if you want to make it clearer feel free to ask me any questions I would not mind helping if I can.


I hope I didn't have any spelling, or grammar mistakes if so I apologized because I just like to relax and chill.
 
Do you two carry stop watches with you? Whats up with details down to the minute? You will have the worst time if events are scripted down to exact time frames.
You two are also over thinking to the extreme. Mame badic ground rules and enjoy.


Look that long post I was having problems with internet service plus I haven't had enough sleep, anyway it's always good to analyze everything. I have done that all my life since I went into the Army after high school. They taught me a lot one thing was pay attention to detail. (Maybe you should blame the military) oh yeah they taught discipline and Respect.
One thing I know is I am always Respectful to everyone even if they don't like the way I look guess what I respect them and not get to close to them give them there space. What about the way I think we'll I am my own man my beliefs are never shoved down others if they ask I tell if their uncomfortable with certain ones guess what we will Talk about who won the UFC BATAMNWEIGHT CHAMPIONSHIP FIGHT? OH AMANDA NUNEZ
 
Do you two carry stop watches with you? Whats up with details down to the minute? You will have the worst time if events are scripted down to exact time frames.
You two are also over thinking to the extreme. Mame badic ground rules and enjoy.
Yeah, let things flow naturally. Have a safe word or something to let each other know if either want to stop. Just make sure whoever you meet knows whatever rules you two have upfront. Don't jump from vanilla to something too extreme the first time. Its so much more fun to start slow and find out what you really enjoy and can handle versus fantasy. Its a huge difference from visualizing it and watching your wife with another man. Our first two times I stopped even though I had set it up etc. You have to find each others comfort levels but for Gods sake put the stopwatch away haha
 
Yeah, let things flow naturally. Have a safe word or something to let each other know if either want to stop. Just make sure whoever you meet knows whatever rules you two have upfront. Don't jump from vanilla to something too extreme the first time. Its so much more fun to start slow and find out what you really enjoy and can handle versus fantasy. Its a huge difference from visualizing it and watching your wife with another man. Our first two times I stopped even though I had set it up etc. You have to find each others comfort levels but for Gods sake put the stopwatch away haha


Well may seem we have stopwatch but our sex sessions unusually last 1 hour to 4 hours some longer.
Average love time about 2-2½ hours.
Sorry quickies 30 min's to 45 min's
Trust me no stop watch more like taking, making sure we cover everything.
 
Yet another fake profile, unless you're gullible enough to believe the poster is someone for whom english is not his first language, plus he is clueless about the rules pertaining to constructing a proper sentence, grammar and punctuation.

This is fake/BS to the max.

It's a pity he chose this section of B2W to taint with his imaginary scenario and fabrication.
Very well stated! Reading that drivel was almost painful.
 
Very well stated! Reading that drivel was almost painful.
He joined in May 2018, by August 2018 he was gone. Not gone altogether, mind you, because he has probably dozens on profiles on here. Can't miss his signature. His poor English is the dead give away.
 
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