As someone else already said, this is not a bar, or wherever you usually hangout. This is a place where people are free to say what they want. And trust me, there intelligent, and cultured people who also just want to be primal. This place gives them that. Go to eharmony or one of them Vanilla bullshit websites. This place is not for you. This site is not geared for you to find someone to marry, but if you do, then that's fine too. It's fucking annoying when you females who don't know what the fuck your want, go about trying to set standards here. You come to a carnal site, you want carnal attention. Stop the bullshit! No one cares what degree you have, whether you are a member of a country club, whether you are cultured, etc. People came here to be free to pursue their sexual desires. Some people's approach, you may like. Others you may not. Select the ones you like and proceed. Keep you prudish nonsense to yourself, we can care less what you think. Better yet, go sit on something hard. I just despise seeing prudes wanting to dictate terms in a place that is supposed to be about free carnal, and legal expression. GTFOH.