First Time should he watch?

[ThePerrys]

So we are taking our first tentative steps in the world of Cuckolding. Being new to this I would like your thoughts & answers

When the time arrives for the 1st (of what we hope will be many) meeting should my Husband Watch?? Listen behind the Closed Bedroom door or wait elsewhere for me to return & give him the juicy details/pics/video from my phone???

 

[Funwife2022]

So we are taking our first tentative steps in the world of Cuckolding. Being new to this I would like your thoughts & answers

When the time arrives for the 1st (of what we hope will be many) meeting should my Husband Watch?? Listen behind the Closed Bedroom door or wait elsewhere for me to return & give him the juicy details/pics/video from my phone???

Yes he should I love it iv shared a ex wife and two gf and have love sharing my girl since a long time ago

 

[mistercuck]

I think that's completely down to you and what you would feel most comfortable with. If it were me and my gf was going to make me a cuck I'd probably prefer her to be alone for the first few times, but if it would make her feel more confident for me to be there and more safe then definitely I'd do whatever made her more comfortable. This is coming from a wannabe although I've done a huge amount of research over the years.

 

[Beltoncouple]

First time Alone till Cucky can hear You then He should Quietly Come into the room Keep His Mouth shut and watch how A Real Man Makes Her Satisfied.

 

[SissyStag3o5]

I think watching is always the first step. he'll need to get used to processing the idea of someone else inside what is suppose to be his pussy. he'll get jeoulous but like it and hate it. but once he see's your excitement and how much better you cum (hopefully), he'll want details. we did that. we started with old boyfriend and orgy stories, then we brought a guy home with an amazing dick. Then she would tell me of her hook up stories with a guy at work, where I would cum by just listening, and the rest is history. she now dates on her own, I'm her sissy and we're both very happy.

 

[NJHubnWife]

We are a couple, everything that we do in the lifestyle is as a couple. Whether it be a MFM, FMF or MFMF.

 

[Sharon and Dav]

My first time my husband watched me I think they all should watch their wives get fucked by a big black man with a huge dick and since then he always punch he said seeing a big black man sucking me doggy style looks so beautiful

 

[ShayMayday]

I'd say.. give him a show

 

[SCBlknNsty]

So we are taking our first tentative steps in the world of Cuckolding. Being new to this I would like your thoughts & answers

When the time arrives for the 1st (of what we hope will be many) meeting should my Husband Watch?? Listen behind the Closed Bedroom door or wait elsewhere for me to return & give him the juicy details/pics/video from my phone???

First, I appreciate an intelligent post not driven by porno lust.

Bottom line, the wife will choose the scenario/timing and that takes me to what you said "of what we hope will be many". That suggests you collectively do have some picture of where you want to go with it. That's the shape for your first experience. Less will be also less satisfying.

 

[Debman]

Speaking from experience, it was always left to my wife as to what she wanted. In most cases, we found that I was a distraction during the first few encounters. Looking back on the experiences, I found it more erotic to listen from an adjoining room. Would my wife make sounds that I was not familiar with. We also considered her safety. How well do you know/trust your bull? Of course our actions would likely be looked upon as "old school" as we never allowed penetration by our bull during the first encounter. This was always an oral session and our bull knew that as part of the encounter. My wife was quite reserved so in our instance it was best to let her go at her own pace and enjoy her bull as she wished.

 

[BiSubCuck]

It of course depends on the woman's wishes. But, they can so often say what they think we want to hear. And they feel we should be there so it's something we are doing together. Blah blah blah.
However...... that first time, there really should be chemistry built and like a first date, she and he should be taking it slow, exploring and getting to know eachother's body and mind. And a cuckold sat in the corner or lay on the bed, can be hugely distracting. And speaking as a cuckold, the feeling of being a useless spare part, not required, well, i can live without that!
It is very exciting waiting nextdoor, or back home, and await her happy face, the smells, tastes and her tales of the encounter. And..... when she and he have planned to meet again? This is VERY exciting!!

 

[Lararr]

We are a couple, everything that we do in the lifestyle is as a couple. Whether it be a MFM, FMF or MFMF.

This

 

[Ezekiel]

We were in it together from the first time. I was always there with her and watching for her many new guys. She said she was always sort of performing for me also and was always aware of me and did/said things she knew turned me on. Eventually I wanted her to experience the pleasure of her young BBC for herself only and we set up a date with a new man for her only with her choice being whether she took him to her room or not. She did and he spent the longest horniest night of my life with her. We do not do pics or video so it was left to my imagination in another hotel room near hers. I did not sleep at all thinking about him in her. She said she did not sleep much either with him IN her. We were both turned on by it and now do both. We enjoy being together when she is having sex and I am happy for her and she enjoys being solo also. It is all good as long as it is agreed with both of you.

 

[Marc_cat]

I'd say.. give him a show

I love to show off and hubby likes to show me off. Turns him on when I strut and flirt. I’m a natural flirt. Same with my black lover. He enjoys showing me off and I get excited knowing that others are imagining this beautiful black man is fucking me.

 

[ustwoforfun57]

We do everything together I wanted to watch her very first time even though she was nervous and wasn’t sure how i would react but to be honest with the right bull he and my wife made it the best experience ever I didnt need to have sex with her watching them both was awesome she put on such a show and really enjoyed herself which I always knew she would

 

[The Arranger]

First time meets. Yes hubby should be there.
1 Company in case the guy does not show.
2 Help Keep the Wife Calm.
3 Security. In case of Drunks, Druggies and those that Bring their Friends to Play as Well.

 

[Mellowm]

I agree "Watching". Also, let him be the camera man, so the couple and Bull can see later.

 

[Rodgersmith1]

I feel If you want you wife to have the best experience of extremely exciting heart beating and absolutely wonderful sex it should be with a very nice and good looking Black lover that’s she is very comfortable with … it should be just them all alone in her marital bed husband at work ….no condom no pulling out

To bring the excitement to the Mount Everest level do this during her ovulation time with the real chance of her getting pregnant…Have him slip off her wedding ring during foreplay and place it on the night table….then while kissing her neck lovingly he slowly slips deep inside her unprotected….That very instant moment she feels his warm fertile seed throbbing and shooting deep inside her will be a moment she will never ever forget and she will always remember… they do it several more times before she gives her husband the all clear to come home.

Try this, life is short and we need more pleasurable unforgettable moments like this in our lives….I dare you.

 

[aprilmay]

My husband often likes to listen from the next room.

 

[ustwoforfun57]

I feel If you want you wife to have the best experience of extremely exciting heart beating and absolutely wonderful sex it should be with a very nice and good looking Black lover that’s she is very comfortable with … it should be just them all alone in her marital bed husband at work ….no condom no pulling out

To bring the excitement to the Mount Everest level do this during her ovulation time with the real chance of her getting pregnant…Have him slip off her wedding ring during foreplay and place it on the night table….then while kissing her neck lovingly he slowly slips deep inside her unprotected….That very instant moment she feels his warm fertile seed throbbing and shooting deep inside her will be a moment she will never ever forget and she will always remember… they do it several more times before she gives her husband the all clear to come home.

Try this, life is short and we need more pleasurable unforgettable moments like this in our lives….I dare you.

I agree with all you say except the wedding ring my wife likes to keep hers on says it shows what a true slut she becomes when she’s being used by her bull she will occasionally ask to be photographed with it showing while she’s being taken