I have had this happen twice over the period I have been active outside my marriage.........first was a Black Lover that to this day is and was the absolute BEST Lover I have ever had. He could make me cum like NO OTHER EVER, mostly because of his HUGE 11" thick as my wrist cock that I had to learn and WORK to get it all inside of me!! But there was also an emotional connection that did not happen with all the other Black Lovers I had......we seriously discussed leaving our respective spouses for each other but ultimately decided we could not destroy two families. We DID decide (since my husband was supportive) was we would have a baby together, and actually THAT evening was the evening his wife busted him for the affair and gave him an ultimatum....and we stopped seeing each other. I still think about him and wish we had been less careful and I had "accidentally" gotten pregnant by him.......
The other guy is one I work with, a white guy. We worked CLOSELY together over a period of 5 years and I admit that I got involved emotionally LONG before we ever did anything sexual. I fell in love with the idea of us working together side by side, saving the business (we did actually) and living our lives out together running a successful company and enjoying all that brought with it. When we finally crossed the line from friends and co-workers to trying to be Lovers, it started out HOT. Hubby was aware and encouraging me and we would share what had happened and he would encourage me to let MORE happen.....but it turned out to be a LOT more fun fantasizing with hubby about what WOULD happen than what actually happened. Turned out he had a pretty significant ******* and alcohol problem and he may even be gay (he has hit on EVERY female in the company but NEVER been sexual beyond some high school like groping and terrible fish kissing and then it falls FLAT) and it went nowhere, like every other female he has hit on. But the IDEA of us was POWERFUL!! LOL
its really hard not to let emotion become part of this if you spend any kind of quality alone time with Lovers.
J (CW's wife)