agreed
profhotwife
Female
I've written here before that I had caught feelings for my bull before we moved across the country. Once we "broke the seal" and had sex, we were having sex on a weekly basis for over a year and a half. I find it difficult to believe that any two people who are that intimate with each other for that amount of time don't start to fall in love with each other.
There were a couple of things about our relationship that kept things under control. One was that I was happily married. Another was that I was not going to disrupt my marriage or family or life situation to be with him. Another was that there was a 15 year age difference between me and my bull (he is younger).
But I did feel genuine affection for him, and I think he felt affection/love for me. I mean, the amount of the various "love hormones" flowing through my body every time we were together, there's no way we weren't falling in love, lol.
No doubt - well said. We are talking about biology here. When you have sex with someone multiple times a week, you are bound to have feelings for them. Whether or not that turns into “love I need to leave my husband for you” depends on the safeguards and consciousness you put on your primary relationship.
This lifestyle - mind fuck….
No doubt
Kominar
Couple
My wife and I have been in a hotwife relationship for 10 years. And I would never have thought about a story like this, that a hotwife and her bull fell in love. But now I remembered one story. The wife always chose any bull only for sex. She never went on more than 2 dates with the same bull. This suited us. We didn't look for partners for her that often. But one day on vacation we met a bull. He and my wife went on several dates during our 2 weeks of vacation. The idea that a hotwife loves bull never crossed my mind. I thought it was a nice resort adventure. My cuckold emotions were strong, and I was glad that my wife was glowing with happiness after sex dates with this bull. After the vacation, she didn’t go on dates for a long time, I worked a lot, and I didn’t even notice that hotwife love had become boring and sad. Only now I understand that perhaps then I missed her feelings and love for that bull. Perhaps the change in her was due to the fact that the hotwife in love with a bull.
Could it be that she was more sad at the loss of a platonic marriage just between you two and she regrets having multiple partners?
My wifes madly in love with her bull, i'm basically just a friend to her now. She would be serious with him if he would commit to her but as he's the kind of guy that most hetero women find attractive he's just got way too many options.
Turns out he actually likes taking married women as he's said before he kind of gets off on being able to take other men's wives.
Turns out he actually likes taking married women as he's said before he kind of gets off on being able to take other men's wives.
I can only speak for my own situation. When my wife has a long term, its hard for her to 'block out' strong feelings of emotion after a few meets. I kinda' think that the natural progression in most extramarital affairs. So, is there feelings of love ? I would expect so, even though we havent discussed it. Over the years he has had plenty of long terms which have lasted between 9 months to 24 months. I can tell when shes about to make a bull a long term when she mentions she wants to see him again. She enjoys the passion and intimacy of the situation. She says an affair with no real passion is an incomplete encounter. She wants to feel special, she wants to feel that its a new relationship starting. I think we all remember back when we started dating a specific woman, and after a date, we couldnt wait to see them again. Thats the feeling she wants to regain. It becomes true intimacy, and when both parties can let their true feelings show, then it becomes VERY real. When she finds that special guy, she has said its like having 2 husbands, even though we havent had sex in years. Her body is reserved for any BBC that she finds attractive, and worth pursuing. Once she meets them, she is frank about our personal situation. After the explanation, some dont understand, get freaked out, and never heard from again. Those that understand the explanation, usually have many questions, but after they come to terms with the unconventional relationship we have, some want to move forward. To me, its all about whatever makes her happy. Happy wife, happy life. Im a successful businessman, very good earner, we have a family, so she doesnt want to complicate our lives via any kind of break up or divorce. Our cuckold/hotwife marriage has advanced to a high level if you ask me. When she finds that special guy, she does want complete uninhibited sexual satisfaction in the evenings when the lights go out. She does want to feel like a slut or whore just because it feels 'nasty'. She does enjoy attractive BBC for her affairs just because mainstream society still thinks its taboo. She has come to learn the contrast in skin color when they hold her close, is a big turn on for her. Every aspect of the BBC wife sharing lifestyle has become appealing to her, and she takes advantage of it. So she has gotten used to being a wife and Mom during the day, and looks forward to exercising her wild side any evening she chooses. She has dated alone after we get to know her lovers well, but she mostly wants me present during her encounters. She wants to look over at me, and tease me. She enjoys saying a few things to belittle me during sex with others. She has even come up with her own idiosyncrasies that she insists on during any of her encounters. She insists that I hold her lovers cock, and guide it into her pussy for first penetration of the night. She looks at me while this is occurring, and after it enters she asks me to go away or go sit down, or whatever. She states that this validates that her husband is giving her away. She feels like Im doing my duty at that point. She also insists that I 'clean' her after her lover has finished and made a mess inside her. When a bull allows it, she wants me to get him hard orally. You want to see her squirm with emotion getting turned on to the 'MAX' ? She truly enjoys watching me do that, and if it turns her on, then I do what I'm told. I do these things because I worship her, and all of her desires. She is late 50's now, but we met when we were about 20yo, so we have been together forever, and I will tell you that since entering the cuckold lifestyle, and growing with it, has us deeper in love now than ever before. I cant comment about others, I just know that this lifestyle works for us, and thats all that matters. This is the truth, so help me God.
Very honest and true words ! Congratulations for you and your wife have achieved ! She needs to be a slut for BBC and you do the right thing by letting her show who she is deep inside !
So sure of yourself. Would you want to be with a woman for a long term because she loves your dick?
I never was the Alfa male in my marriage. Lol that’s Funny my wife would never let a white dick near her pussy. She’s bbc only since the age of 14. I had an affair with a 40 year old black man when I was 17. He picked me you in Philadelphia when I was waiting at a bus station. I ended up being a submissive slave to a black man for 8 months. I was in love with him I was his young trophy bitch. I’d do anything for him I was in love and he did dominate me wiped my ass with a belt before he fucked the he’ll out of me. I couldn’t help myself and I felt well very good in this submissive gay lifestyle. At first he wouldn’t ever let anyone else have sex with me and as time went on he started sharing me with other black men until I was just a bbc whore a slut and then he beat me up and put me out and I went back with my family. I was devastated for a while I really was afraid to go with black men. I fell in love with that man and it didn’t end up so well. That changed when I met my bbc only dominant wife and I’m back sucking black cock again and being a slave.
both my now ex wives together left me with 5 biracial k ids to raise from both their couplings with black men, and both ended up leaving the k ids with me after divorcing me and moved it with their bulls
I love to make them fall in love with my BBC! I have become addicted to hearing how much a hotwife loves my BBC, especially when they are telling hubby! So I make sure to fuck them so good that they become addicted and confess their love for my BBC!
We have a guy we see pretty regularly. We always do this together usually at our home, been to his place twice. We are mid 50s, he's 34. We get along great. We chat, visit about work, sports and politics. It's just sex fun for us. We've never been out with him. We do invite him to backyard BBQ with other friends but no one knows about our fun with him. It is kinda hot him being involved at a function at our home with others not suspecting what we enjoy in our bedroom.
It's very obvious my wife likes sex with him but it's only sexy fun, we are adults and not hurting anyone.
It's very obvious my wife likes sex with him but it's only sexy fun, we are adults and not hurting anyone.
That’s the risk we take when we are cuckolds. If you think about it here is your wife sexually frustrated with your mini dick. Then she gets fucked by a big black handsome stud and bam she’s having orgasms that are really great ,the best sex she ever had. Naturally she going to fall for him and there’s a strong possibility that he really digs her if he’s coming back for more . I know in my case my I became less and less Relevant I was reduced to slave status completely when we all moved in together. After 18 months of living in this triad they put me out. I found a black master and I lived with him for 2 years as his sub. Then after my totally humiliated me and emasculated me in front of all our friends and relatives when we all 3 lived together . Now over 3 years after she left me my wife came back into my life and I welcomed her back I’m her slave cuckold husband again. I’m a smuck a real dick head and I don’t care who knows it I just fall right back under my dominant wife’s spell lol and again she just loves the humiliation she puts on me and I guess I’m just a fool I keep coming back for more.
UndercovaCuck
Male
Man, I hope it works out for you. This is a scenario I would not want to be in. My wife and I haven’t taken the plunge, but do more role play fantasies of the lifestyle. From what I’ve researched, it seems most couples talk about rules and expectations beforehand. I’m curious if you did and if so, was something like this not covered or did the rules fly out the window one the line between fantasy and reality was crossed?
The term BULL is frequently used as the reference to a woman's side sexual partners. My ex wife had a black lover, but always referred to him as her "boyfriend". Question for the ladies here - how many of you refer to your side lovers as a BULL ? It doesn't seem like a very natural way to refer to another person, but I might be wrong.
profhotwife
Female
I find the term to be very cringe, but it’s the generally accepted term so it’s what I use
That means he must be a very sexy man. One black man that my wife had sex with all the time lived 2 blocks away. We were asleep in bed the her phone rings. My answers half asleep, she wakes right up yes sure I’ll be right over she got dressed and ready to go so fast it was amazing. I’ll be back ,well when I get back ,go back to sleep lol like I could sleep after that. My wife came back 24 hours later. It turned out he shared my wife with his friends so she got the hell fucked out of her. She had another girl that she was friends with another white married girl. Then she found out that there was 5 married white woman they he fucked within a few blocks of his house like his own Harem. He fucked my wife and her friend at together well he had them eating each other blowing him at the same time and that’s unusual my wife doesn’t like to give blow jobs but this was different the my wife and the other girl were kissing each other while they took turns sucking him she said it was very sexy . Of course I was denied pussy is only for black men .
My wife and I have always been in love with each other. Our love is manifested physically through cuddling, hugging and kissing. We each provide emotional support to the other, we share happy times as well as sad times. We have no doubt that our love as husband and wife is forever. The fact that we have been married for 52 years (first and only marriage for both of us) is proof of our love.
Does my wife love the men she has sex with? Yes, because they satisfy her need to know that men are sexually attracted to her and her own need for sexual pleasure. Kissing (the open mouth type) is part and parcel to that love. The physical love is also manifested when she offers her 37D married white teats to a boyfriend to fondle, kiss, suck, and even bite. In the heat of passion, my wife will tell a boyfriend that she loves his cock not only for the pleasure it gives her but also satisfies her inane desire to commit adultery. The boyfriend may tell my wife that he loves the way her married white pussy grasps his cock as he thrusts into her and satisfies a primal urge of all men, especially alpha men, to fuck another man's woman.
The act of reproducing the species is also an act of love between the male and the female. Most men follow primal urges when it comes to inseminating a willing female, an urgent need to have his DNA and genes to be passed on to future generations. But it also confirms that this female is deserving of affection for her willingness to give birth to this particular man's baby. In addition, the act of a willing wife to give birth to another man's baby is the ultimate satisfaction of the alpha male to put down the beta husband. My wife has always told me that there is a special place in her heart for the seven boyfriends who thru natural selection was successful in putting their babies into her and satisfying her natural maternal urgings. Maybe love makes the world go around, but it definitely ensures that the human race goes on.
Does my wife love the men she has sex with? Yes, because they satisfy her need to know that men are sexually attracted to her and her own need for sexual pleasure. Kissing (the open mouth type) is part and parcel to that love. The physical love is also manifested when she offers her 37D married white teats to a boyfriend to fondle, kiss, suck, and even bite. In the heat of passion, my wife will tell a boyfriend that she loves his cock not only for the pleasure it gives her but also satisfies her inane desire to commit adultery. The boyfriend may tell my wife that he loves the way her married white pussy grasps his cock as he thrusts into her and satisfies a primal urge of all men, especially alpha men, to fuck another man's woman.
The act of reproducing the species is also an act of love between the male and the female. Most men follow primal urges when it comes to inseminating a willing female, an urgent need to have his DNA and genes to be passed on to future generations. But it also confirms that this female is deserving of affection for her willingness to give birth to this particular man's baby. In addition, the act of a willing wife to give birth to another man's baby is the ultimate satisfaction of the alpha male to put down the beta husband. My wife has always told me that there is a special place in her heart for the seven boyfriends who thru natural selection was successful in putting their babies into her and satisfying her natural maternal urgings. Maybe love makes the world go around, but it definitely ensures that the human race goes on.
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