I find the bull, I’m sucking him so I choose him !!! ?
Same for us.My husband does the initial search. He knows what I like. I check their profiles and if I am interested, I talk with them by phone and meet for a *******. The ones I like are the ones that go home with me.
Same!Yes always, but she has final say
I’m usually the one finding the bull, and our preferred method is meeting people out at bars or clubs, but have had some good experiences online. And not that he’s used it, but my husband can veto any choice that he’s not comfortable with for any reason. That said, I do have an ongoing fantasy (fetish?) about anonymous sex, so he has assisted in finding a couple of guys to take me while I’m blindfolded, without ever being introduced to them before or after. It’s always exciting to think that I could encounter one of them out in public one day and have no idea that they know me intimately...
My wife usually leaves it to me to find guys for her but gets extra excited when she pulls and fucks a guy, or girl who is not part of this lifestyle.That’s hot. I guess I might have to find some BBC for my wife. She is too shy. I’m trying to get her to point out black guys she finds attractive.