I’m usually the one finding the bull, and our preferred method is meeting people out at bars or clubs, but have had some good experiences online. And not that he’s used it, but my husband can veto any choice that he’s not comfortable with for any reason. That said, I do have an ongoing fantasy (fetish?) about anonymous sex, so he has recently assisted in finding a couple of guys to take me while I’m blindfolded, without ever being introduced to them before or after. It’s always exciting to think that I could encounter one of them out in public one day and have no idea that they know me intimately...