Pulling out is not a good longterm strategy - with rythem it might be ocasionally OK. Luckly I'm past childbearing. Bite the bullet tell your Dr that husband wants to share you. Doctors can be professional. You could go IUD as well as even the pill is not 100%. But then nothing in life is and fear can keep you from enjoying life.How other then a condom? She doesn't want to go back on the pill since her doctor knows I am snipped.