Cool to see some other perspectivesWhat's exciting isn't the fact that the guy is a thug. I think we are sometimes turned on by thugs because we imagine them to be directive, virile, dominant, and we like it (I'm not speaking for all women but for some).
So it's not the fact that he's a thug that turns us on, but the way we imagine how he would fuck us.
Ideally, and here I only speak for myself, I prefer an elegant man, a good man, who fucks me like a thug.