Great question, great thoughts. It's something I go back to and ask on a pretty regular basis because i know that experiences can change or bend opinions. When I first started inviting black guys to fuck my girlfriend (before first marriage), I loved every sight, sound, move, action, word, etc.. I took pictures, LOTS of pictures. She loved fucking and I loved reviewing the pics later just as much. A little later, I wanted to know that SHE was really loving black cock as much as she appeared to in the pictures, ie: my interest evolved: I didn't want a girl that would fuck black cock so I could take pictures, I wanted a girl that loved fucking black cock whether i was there or not. So, we called it "sent out." I arranged for me to "send her out" to a few different black guys, to their homes, to meet them in club, etc, and to fuck nd suck or do whatever she wanted to do with the freedom of HER and HIS choice. She LOVED that, too. And so did I. So, many years fast forwarded to NOW: I love to watch and take pics but I give her and black lover ALL the room, I don't shout out instructions or ask them to pose, I don't make myself a subject for their attention. I ALSO LOVE that my hotwife re-discovered the thrill of a one-night-stand (black cock only, of course). i DON'T like the risk involved, we talkd about that, so there's some common sense things she's sure to apply, PLUS as a BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE, she doesn't owe me anything other than to "keep it black." She says she gets hotter when I'm not there. So, that's the current situation.