I think most will be similarly sensible in real life. I dont know why people here pretend ot
Condom until everyone knows each other well, and knows 100% they are STD free. Sorry I'm being practical. Yes raw is better, but safety first.
I have been with the same woman for 5 years before we both decided that I could go without using a condom. We are both in our 40's so the pregnancy risk is not the same. The funny thing is that now I don't want to have sex outside my of Hotwife/bull relationship because I don't want to go back to using a condom.