My three best friends and our wife's have a catholic background. Twice a year we try to do couples weekend trip. Usually it centered around a sporting event or concert within driving range. We usually a visit to strip club also. Our wife's will decide if they want come with us or they want to go to a different strip club with male dancers by themselves.
Sunday morning we usually split up. I have to decide who I want to spent the day with and drive back home with. Either my friends or our wife's. My friends will be trying to figure how early the strip clubs open on Sunday. Then how much time they want to spend there, watching 'football' at Hooters and go to the casinos.
While our wife's were trying to search online for a church so they can take in a Sunday morning service. Then they do some shopping, maybe have lunch and try to leave earlier then what my friends plan on doing. Usually I went with our wife's. It was a choice of a hour service and getting home early verses three to nine hours sitting in Hooters and hours at the other places.
They try to pick a close catholic church, but will pick something close to our hotel if its more convenient. Things were pretty routine and boring on our causal Sunday days. A big change happened the first time we went to a predominantly black church. It would after the service when we were walking to our car. When walking pass one or more black males, they would start a friendly chat with the wife's. Maybe at some point one of the black males would ask if they wanted to exchange contact info or ask them if they wanted to go get coffee or lunch. At this point I start feeling like a fifth wheel.