I am an atheist, so I don't do religion, period. It doesn't make sense to me. However, I am to tell others how to live their lives? Religion plays an important part in people's lives. Now, if you follow the strict tenets of Christianity, I would say swinging is incompatible. But so is theft, alcoholism, ******* use, and consuming and appearing in porn, and all those people still go to church. We are all sinners, as the good book says. I stopped trying to make sense of that a long time ago.
If God does not exist, as every atheist stridently proclaims, why is "the book" (the Christian Bible) good? And on what or whose authority do you say "we are all sinners"?
The answer to my second question is obviously "The Spirit of God speaking through Paul the apostle in his epistle to the Romans, in the terms: "We have all sinned and come short of the glory of God".
Now, my question to you, Black Adonis, is "Is love and fully consensual and husband-permitted physical sex between a wife and her lover (be he black or white or yellow) sinful? In my Christian opinion it is not, and not adultery either.
Almost always the sex between the wife and her lover is indulged in because she needs it for the full flowering of her womanhood, and most often because her husband cannot fulfill her God-given sexual needs---as in my case.
Viewed in that way, the husband's instigation of, permission for and connivance in the lover's fucking of his wife is truly an act of Love (encompassing Agape, Charitas and Eros) in respect of his wife and towards her lover too. And ironically himself.
At least that's what it has always felt like to me, as has the 6-year-long-practised deeply fulfilling versatile homosex, freely sanctioned and lovingly encouraged by my wife, between me and the incredibly beautiful, powerfully manly and unabashedly bisexual young black lover of us both.