GaBlackSnake
Male
When you're on sites that promote sexual pleasure , you will need to be as a gardener and just weed out the fakes from the real.
Can We Have the Wives on here not the Husbands ?
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"Insert a bit of sense"???!!! Is that what you call it??!! "Broken as humans"....hmmm....yeah, that really makes a lot of sense. So glad you wandered in, we feel so much better for receiving your wisdom.
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winterfalcon
Male
OP is being obtuse. That being said, I do appreciate it when my playmates can get straight to the point and perform the task at hand. I’m an oddity in that I don’t require any seduction/romance/foreplay to get me wet. (Just ask some of the guys on this site that I’ve played with) 
If you show up smelling good and have a big hard black cock in your pants then very little need be said for us to enjoy ourselves. Things are a bit different from the traditional swinger mentality for my situation due to being a content creator and bringing potential playmates in through a vetting process that only requires guys to talk to my husband when he and I are doing video interviews. Guys always know they’re talking to someone legitimate when they’re approaching me, which means they’ll quickly be discouraged by the fact I can smell a fake a mile away at this point and I don’t put up with any bs. I completely understand where guys could get discouraged by all of the fake profiles and even some of the “real” profiles not being legit either, but it’s no excuse to abandon all respect and decorum. You get what you give, plain and simple. If you are sketchy you will only attract others that are sketchy. It’s easy to tell who means business. If a profile has lots of original photos and videos that they’ve taken care to watermark themselves, post consistent themes and opinions, and aren’t afraid to share their location then they’re probably legit. People do need time to learn and adapt to the lifestyle and this and other lifestyle related sites though, so I imagine it’s only getting more difficult to want to follow through for those just starting out since this site has become a toxic waste dump of fakes and trolls. It was not this bad when my husband and I first started swinging over a decade ago and were using the likes of Craigslist and AFF to find guys. Back then I did make my husband do all of the interaction with potential playmates because I couldn’t handle all of the bs and fakes but my husband is a patient man. Nowadays all of these lifestyle sites are obsolete when it comes to the purpose of meeting like minded individuals. Social media is actually useful for this task if absolutely nothing else.
Some good rules to follow for this and any other forum or adult dating site:
1. never rely on any one site to meet hotwives
2. always assume the women are fake until proven otherwise
3. avoid couples where the husband is the “gatekeeper” because that means they’re wanting to control from the bottom and that can lead to some undesirable scenarios. Husbands should be advocates, not gatekeepers.
4. Assume most profiles are desperate men just looking for some masturbation material
5. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. The more guarded you are about your location, experience, and physical traits the less likely real people are going to care to talk to you and it will end up attracting more fakes. (Fakes attract other fakes, like an online circle jerk)
6. Not everyone is a viable option to become a playmate so take rejection with grace.
I’m sure I could say more but I’ve already gone on quite the rant here.
If you show up smelling good and have a big hard black cock in your pants then very little need be said for us to enjoy ourselves. Things are a bit different from the traditional swinger mentality for my situation due to being a content creator and bringing potential playmates in through a vetting process that only requires guys to talk to my husband when he and I are doing video interviews. Guys always know they’re talking to someone legitimate when they’re approaching me, which means they’ll quickly be discouraged by the fact I can smell a fake a mile away at this point and I don’t put up with any bs. I completely understand where guys could get discouraged by all of the fake profiles and even some of the “real” profiles not being legit either, but it’s no excuse to abandon all respect and decorum. You get what you give, plain and simple. If you are sketchy you will only attract others that are sketchy. It’s easy to tell who means business. If a profile has lots of original photos and videos that they’ve taken care to watermark themselves, post consistent themes and opinions, and aren’t afraid to share their location then they’re probably legit. People do need time to learn and adapt to the lifestyle and this and other lifestyle related sites though, so I imagine it’s only getting more difficult to want to follow through for those just starting out since this site has become a toxic waste dump of fakes and trolls. It was not this bad when my husband and I first started swinging over a decade ago and were using the likes of Craigslist and AFF to find guys. Back then I did make my husband do all of the interaction with potential playmates because I couldn’t handle all of the bs and fakes but my husband is a patient man. Nowadays all of these lifestyle sites are obsolete when it comes to the purpose of meeting like minded individuals. Social media is actually useful for this task if absolutely nothing else.
Some good rules to follow for this and any other forum or adult dating site:
1. never rely on any one site to meet hotwives
2. always assume the women are fake until proven otherwise
3. avoid couples where the husband is the “gatekeeper” because that means they’re wanting to control from the bottom and that can lead to some undesirable scenarios. Husbands should be advocates, not gatekeepers.
4. Assume most profiles are desperate men just looking for some masturbation material
5. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. The more guarded you are about your location, experience, and physical traits the less likely real people are going to care to talk to you and it will end up attracting more fakes. (Fakes attract other fakes, like an online circle jerk)
6. Not everyone is a viable option to become a playmate so take rejection with grace.
I’m sure I could say more but I’ve already gone on quite the rant here.
SlutWife4Bulls
Female
I hear that
It's weird
it's like they want us to genuinely desire them while this dynamic continues to label us something animalistic! I personally prefer getting to know a couple and becoming friends who frequently meet. It seems these couples just wanna rack up as many black cocks as possible and still NOT be considered trashy....yet you move like a thirsty ****** not even talking with dudes before you put there dick inside you all because your husband "vetted" them! Most of your husband's are disgusting and desperate to please you, using your photos to get mens attention only to try andI disagree with how he prefers his interaction but I understand his point! If I'm not interested in you sexually, I don't want to talk with you about sex! It does nothing for me to chat with your straight non-cuck husband about sex ...he can't do anything to help me except give the phone to you! I understand vetting and initial communication, but the VAST majority of my interactions within the lifestyle has been husbands touching base only to say wife isn't interested but they wouldn't mind blowing me still! As if they are the desired one....no that would be ME and YOU! And for future reference the black MAN has the personality, NOT the falace. We are more than that you know
See Number 3! That gets SOOOOOO irritating and yet that's 70% of what I run into. Or she just wants to rack up black bodies like 1776OP is being obtuse. That being said, I do appreciate it when my playmates can get straight to the point and perform the task at hand. I’m an oddity in that I don’t require any seduction/romance/foreplay to get me wet. (Just ask some of the guys on this site that I’ve played with)
If you show up smelling good and have a big hard black cock in your pants then very little need be said for us to enjoy ourselves. Things are a bit different from the traditional swinger mentality for my situation due to being a content creator and bringing potential playmates in through a vetting process that only requires guys to talk to my husband when he and I are doing video interviews. Guys always know they’re talking to someone legitimate when they’re approaching me, which means they’ll quickly be discouraged by the fact I can smell a fake a mile away at this point and I don’t put up with any bs. I completely understand where guys could get discouraged by all of the fake profiles and even some of the “real” profiles not being legit either, but it’s no excuse to abandon all respect and decorum. You get what you give, plain and simple. If you are sketchy you will only attract others that are sketchy. It’s easy to tell who means business. If a profile has lots of original photos and videos that they’ve taken care to watermark themselves, post consistent themes and opinions, and aren’t afraid to share their location then they’re probably legit. People do need time to learn and adapt to the lifestyle and this and other lifestyle related sites though, so I imagine it’s only getting more difficult to want to follow through for those just starting out since this site has become a toxic waste dump of fakes and trolls. It was not this bad when my husband and I first started swinging over a decade ago and were using the likes of Craigslist and AFF to find guys. Back then I did make my husband do all of the interaction with potential playmates because I couldn’t handle all of the bs and fakes but my husband is a patient man. Nowadays all of these lifestyle sites are obsolete when it comes to the purpose of meeting like minded individuals. Social media is actually useful for this task if absolutely nothing else.
Some good rules to follow for this and any other forum or adult dating site:
1. never rely on any one site to meet hotwives
2. always assume the women are fake until proven otherwise
3. avoid couples where the husband is the “gatekeeper” because that means they’re wanting to control from the bottom and that can lead to some undesirable scenarios. Husbands should be advocates, not gatekeepers.
4. Assume most profiles are desperate men just looking for some masturbation material
5. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. The more guarded you are about your location, experience, and physical traits the less likely real people are going to care to talk to you and it will end up attracting more fakes. (Fakes attract other fakes, like an online circle jerk)
6. Not everyone is a viable option to become a playmate so take rejection with grace.
I’m sure I could say more but I’ve already gone on quite the rant here.
it's like do you actually like black people or just our penises cause that's kinda all they see us as which isn't friendship at all!The worst type of couples are the " we take video but only for our private collection" as if it's okay for you to have video of me but I can't also have it
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Pretty sure it's because he wants a large black man cock in his own mouth and ass
ApinkKiki
Female
My husband doesn't vet for me. I vet because it's my choice. But this site sometimes can be all kinds of wild. I can see why Husband's vet I promise while all you lovely black men think these wives wake up and tell there husband's they are about to be owned by a black bull. That is beyond rare and not common. This is way more a male fantasy also a porn category that men find appealing and not women ironically. I have had many slide in the DMs to speak to their wives or girlfriends or how to broach the subject. I don't care to talk about sex with people on here but I too have had people who want to sext with zero interest in meeting on here and can assume why husbands or even wives want their husband's to do the vetting.It's weird
I disagree with how he prefers his interaction but I understand his point! If I'm not interested in you sexually, I don't want to talk with you about sex! It does nothing for me to chat with your straight non-cuck husband about sex ...he can't do anything to help me except give the phone to you! I understand vetting and initial communication, but the VAST majority of my interactions within the lifestyle has been husbands touching base only to say wife isn't interested but they wouldn't mind blowing me still! As if they are the desired one....no that would be ME and YOU! And for future reference the black MAN has the personality, NOT the falace. We are more than that you know
TY. a good read, and TY for the good advise at the end.. i hope u help many.OP is being obtuse. That being said, I do appreciate it when my playmates can get straight to the point and perform the task at hand. I’m an oddity in that I don’t require any seduction/romance/foreplay to get me wet. (Just ask some of the guys on this site that I’ve played with)
If you show up smelling good and have a big hard black cock in your pants then very little need be said for us to enjoy ourselves. Things are a bit different from the traditional swinger mentality for my situation due to being a content creator and bringing potential playmates in through a vetting process that only requires guys to talk to my husband when he and I are doing video interviews. Guys always know they’re talking to someone legitimate when they’re approaching me, which means they’ll quickly be discouraged by the fact I can smell a fake a mile away at this point and I don’t put up with any bs. I completely understand where guys could get discouraged by all of the fake profiles and even some of the “real” profiles not being legit either, but it’s no excuse to abandon all respect and decorum. You get what you give, plain and simple. If you are sketchy you will only attract others that are sketchy. It’s easy to tell who means business. If a profile has lots of original photos and videos that they’ve taken care to watermark themselves, post consistent themes and opinions, and aren’t afraid to share their location then they’re probably legit. People do need time to learn and adapt to the lifestyle and this and other lifestyle related sites though, so I imagine it’s only getting more difficult to want to follow through for those just starting out since this site has become a toxic waste dump of fakes and trolls. It was not this bad when my husband and I first started swinging over a decade ago and were using the likes of Craigslist and AFF to find guys. Back then I did make my husband do all of the interaction with potential playmates because I couldn’t handle all of the bs and fakes but my husband is a patient man. Nowadays all of these lifestyle sites are obsolete when it comes to the purpose of meeting like minded individuals. Social media is actually useful for this task if absolutely nothing else.
Some good rules to follow for this and any other forum or adult dating site:
1. never rely on any one site to meet hotwives
2. always assume the women are fake until proven otherwise
3. avoid couples where the husband is the “gatekeeper” because that means they’re wanting to control from the bottom and that can lead to some undesirable scenarios. Husbands should be advocates, not gatekeepers.
4. Assume most profiles are desperate men just looking for some masturbation material
5. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. The more guarded you are about your location, experience, and physical traits the less likely real people are going to care to talk to you and it will end up attracting more fakes. (Fakes attract other fakes, like an online circle jerk)
6. Not everyone is a viable option to become a playmate so take rejection with grace.
I’m sure I could say more but I’ve already gone on quite the rant here.
Blaquestarr007
Male
Funandfriendly is correctly on point
. Yet if you have game, find the balance between being filthy and still respect with a healthy sized pipe ... the hubby will fall in line with lil effort if you're a true bull
Husbands are going to gate keep and screen because it's their job to keep their wives safe from creeps and time wasters. So I don't mind dealing with hubby's because after I am done passing his screening I will have his full support and permission to enjoy his wife. Treat that married pussy like a buffet and keep going back for seconds, thirds, and more!
There seem to be sooo many white men here. I come here to chat to sexy black men.
There is a specific set of women you need to go after if you don’t rant to deal with husbands. Your choice and good luck. For most couples in the lifestyle it’s the husbands who set things up and establish boundaries (if there are any). It’s part of the lifestyle and bulls and regular guys in the LS understand the dynamic. There is a considerable difference between a bull and some dude just trying to get laid by the way.
In our relationship normally I will set things up and act as a filter for my wife. I know what she likes and doesn’t like. We have had over the years a few people not like that and that’s fine - they go on their way as do we. Having said all of that are there trolls, pic collectors and pretend people here- absolutely. Most people (bulls and husbands) who have experience in the LS see through the BS and fakes pretty quickly.
In our relationship normally I will set things up and act as a filter for my wife. I know what she likes and doesn’t like. We have had over the years a few people not like that and that’s fine - they go on their way as do we. Having said all of that are there trolls, pic collectors and pretend people here- absolutely. Most people (bulls and husbands) who have experience in the LS see through the BS and fakes pretty quickly.
Dirtybbcwhore
Male
Awe, ain't that cute! Some jerk off trying to act hard thinking it's gonna get him laid lol! Maybe you should step out for a second and remember your place. Your a sexual tool, no more, no less. Like any other tool,once your no longer useful, you can be thrown away. The arrogance of some of you dudes on here is laughable! Not eveyone on here is bowing down to you. I enjoy my wife being a whore, it's a turn on. But, I'm not into that whole humiliation scenario and being treated like a little bitch! You can take that mess somewhere else, she doesn't do anything without my approval. It's not a one way street either, I hook up with other women in front of her just like she does with guys. Good luck with search asshat!
Pretty much this. Also our dynamic we are looking for guys into playing with us as a couple as well as her doing stuff solo with. Usually if a guy isn't interested in interacting with us both they wouldn't be a good fit for the style play we enjoy anyway.
This is the kind of guy who thinks posting 500 pics of his dick with the caption of, “who want it” is somehow going to work and is akin to being professional.
It’s lazy and worse it comes from a perceived place of power but really it’s screaming insecurities.
So go settle whatever it is inside you that makes you so insecure that you think this look will establish you’re confident and in control.
You aren’t. This is clear by your impotent rage in the post.
Decide you’re worth enough and understand others have value too and you won’t increase your own value while trying to diminish anyone else.
You aren’t mad at the husbands.
You’re mad you aren’t getting what YOU want and somehow blame them.
Not exactly the sort of guy who wants to please a woman because if this is how you feel about their husbands, why do you think any wife should allow you the pleasures of their body or even a moment of their time?
Elena thank you for the video you the best
There's a "winning" line.
The OP's inartful request definitely deserved a response (because when you approach a couple, of course the man is going to be sure his wife is safe at the very least), however this statement of remembering our place and we're nothing but tools is not the right attitude either. Though it reveals a lot more about you than you think.
If you're desperate for white pussy, and have no self respect, then this is the couple for you.
Just like if you don't care what swinging dick your wife latches on to, the OP is for you.
Neither of you are verified members so there's that too.
