I thought the whole idea of this lifestyle was to watch your partner with a BBC ? Or even a MFM situation. May be different for me as we are more a stag and vixen couple rather then cuckold and humiliation. The main reason my wife likes this lifestyle is because I would be present watching her be a slut for another man ! She said that's the whole reason this fantasy turns her on so much because it turns me on and it's something we want to do together ? Anyone else the same ? Bulls do you take more pleasure in a husband being present?